Entertainment: Deyun’s young class leader? Sorry, quit

"Grandpa, something terrible has happened! Guo Fenyang has run away!"

Saturday afternoon at 3 o'clock.

Yu Qian watched Hehe do her homework at her apprentice's house. Hehe's homework was always a nightmare; she was so talkative that she could chat about anything.

They can't concentrate and need someone to watch them.

But I still love her.

However, a moment later, he suddenly received a call from his mistress, who told him what had just happened.

"How did it happen?"

"Hey, you don't know, Master has recently become ruthless and stopped spoiling An Di. He's started treating her like he treats Da Lin, which has driven the child to the brink of collapse."

"Oops~"

Yu Qian actually knew a little bit about it, but he never expected that retribution would come.

Do you want to use Dalin's education to replicate Dalin's past?
Was he still half asleep?
Dalin's success is related to himself, but what does it have to do with his education?
"Okay, I understand. I'll come and take a look."

Yu Qian was nominally his master, and since something had happened, he couldn't just ignore it; he had no choice but to get up and help.

"Hehe, do your homework by yourself, don't go playing around."

"Ah."

Yu Qian went out and happened to see Da Lin there. He greeted him and asked, "Shall I go to the Rose Garden?"

"What's wrong? Is something the matter?"

Guo Qilin, his wife, and his sister are watching TV. Tomorrow is the Lantern Festival, and he will be performing.

"Something has happened. The father and son had a falling out, and An Di ran away. He's currently being taken care of by your senior brothers."

"what?"

Guo Qilin was not the only one surprised; Deng Ziqi and Deng Yiling were also stunned.

This is unprecedented.

If it weren't for Master's words, no one would believe it.

You should know how much Guo Degang dotes on Guo Fenyang.

Yu Qian put on his coat. "Recently, he seems to have come to terms with reality and has been disciplining his youngest son. He's even been doing it the way he used to, which has been overwhelming for the child."

"Take care on your journey, I won't accompany you," Guo Qilin said.

Yu Qian, utterly speechless, nodded and left, driving straight to the Rose Garden to see what had happened.

After half an hour.

When he arrived, he found the environment to be rather deserted than usual, where there were usually a lot of apprentices and assistants.

Now, besides Guo Degang, there are only two or three assistants helping to tidy up the house.

It was clear that something like a teapot had been broken, leaving a large puddle of water.

"Degang? What's wrong?"

"Senior brother, you've arrived? Sigh, all this has happened in my life."

After a little time, Guo Degang explained in detail, and Yu Qian understood, a pinch of tooth flowers.

"Your kind of education is not something an ordinary child can handle. Only Dalin wasn't driven crazy by you. Everyone else would have been driven crazy."

The other person was just about to reply.

Suddenly, Wang Hui's angry voice came from the doorway, and she rushed in, taking three steps in one.

“That’s right, senior brother is right. You really want your son to die? I asked you to discipline him, and you just treat the child like he’s not human? Dalin can tolerate you because you’re his only father, so he has to accommodate you, trust you, and put up with you.”

And you even went so far as to claim that you were a good educator?
"Are you crazy? If I hadn't overheard what the kids were saying, I wouldn't have known you've been raising them like this lately, destroying their self-esteem. When they grow up, they might not even want you anymore."

I'm about to go crazy with anger.

Wang Hui didn't care whether her senior brother was there or not, and just started scolding him.

Yes, she lets him educate him, but only normal education, making him know how to correct his mistakes, and teaching him some manners. If he doesn't listen, she can punish him physically, she doesn't care.

As a result, after several days of being educated in the same way as Guo Qilin, how could she agree? Although she was a stepmother, she knew what Guo Qilin had suffered at the time.

It's absolutely inhuman mental torture.

Seeing that the couple was about to start arguing, Yu Qian couldn't just ignore it and offered some words of comfort.

"Sister-in-law, calm down. Degang just wants the child to be alright."

“He wants the best for his child, but the child is on the verge of a mental breakdown. How can he treat his child like this? If this continues, not only will Dalin run away from home, but my son and I will also leave. He has no right to raise a child like this.”

Women are always more talkative than men when they're angry, especially since Guo Degang was in the wrong this time, so she could only silently endure it and reflect on her own actions.

Reflect on your own teaching methods.

By comparing Da Lin and Guo Fenyang, it becomes clear that his educational approach was fundamentally flawed and could not have succeeded. The success of Da Lin's approach stemmed from his personal efforts and character.

"Where is An Di now?" Yu Qian asked again.

"You've already been taken shopping and eaten by the mistress and her friends. I'd like to see what you're going to do about this."

After speaking, Wang Hui didn't linger and went to find her son.

After she left, the atmosphere at home became much quieter.

However, Guo Degang was extremely embarrassed to let his senior brother witness such an awkward scene.

But more than feeling embarrassed, I had something else on my mind that I wanted to ask.

“Senior brother, I have experience in educating apprentices; I’ve taught countless children. But when it comes to my own children, what I always thought was success turned out to be an illusion given to me by Dalin.”

The reason can be summed up in a single sentence.

Yu Qian nodded. It was rare for him to tell the truth, but there was something wrong with the first half of his statement.

Because when it comes to educating apprentices, it's not just him who does the education; Cao Yunjing and his fellow apprentices also contributed to the effort.

If it weren't for the Grand Canal Commissioner personally guiding them, they wouldn't have been able to lead them at all when they were busy, especially the later generations of the Crane generation.

He basically doesn't participate in teaching.

"You've just gone a little too far. Not all children can handle your discipline. Even if they can, you've given them an extremely dark childhood."

How many years does a person live? Childhood takes up twelve years, and twelve years is one-sixth of a person's life. You're making someone spend one-sixth of their time feel like they're in prison.

Even if he grows up and thrives, he will still hate this period of time, because it was a form of emotional abuse.

After saying this, Yu Qian took a sip of tea. He planned to try to persuade Guo Degang today. If he couldn't persuade him, he would give up, but he would still try to persuade him no matter what.

Guo Degang lowered his head and listened slowly.

"Children are not machines; you can't control them however you want. Did we grow up like that? No, right? As for the hardships and troubles you'll face in society, no matter how polite or skilled you are, there will always be people who disapprove of you."

When the child gets into trouble, that's when the parents are the pillars of support, helping the child solve the problem and grow together.

Instead of sending the child to prison for twelve years first.

You say society is going to beat you up, so you beat it up for society first, then call it "getting used to it in advance," because you'll get beaten up later, so you should get used to it. Life isn't a science; it's not that rational.

Some things you have to experience yourself to grow.

Guo Degang remained silent, listening intently before offering his analysis.

Yu Qian continued, "Take this old man you mentioned, he's sixty years old but hasn't experienced any major ups and downs. He's still like a child. A child who has experienced many ups and downs from a young age will become more mature and experienced. But this experience isn't something parents gain by being beaten or threatened. You can't perfectly handle social problems by being beaten or threatened."
In that case, we're prepared to take all the hits first, and then we can guard against backstabbing from our competitors? What about other pitfalls and other insults?

No, these things come, and then we deal with them one by one and solve them.

I've never heard of anyone being able to prevent these things just by giving them "adversity training." That's absurd; the two are completely unrelated. We were overwhelmed when we encountered these problems, and you're saying that giving your child "adversity training" will make them cope and avoid offending anyone? That's pure fantasy.

It's better to let children learn through observation and exposure than by sitting around adults. The more they spend with adults and learn new things, the less need for harsh discipline; they'll naturally learn how to behave. There's no need to scold or beat them to make them understand.

At this point, Yu Qian took a breath, "Take Hehe for example."

Upon hearing "Hehe," Guo Degang became even more interested.

"Hehe was very timid when she was little. She was afraid of everyone and would hide from them."

Especially when I was two years old, I was terrified.

As a result, she started appearing in public with Da Lin from a young age, and occasionally went to concerts with her mother. With more and more experience, she became bolder, in addition to meeting and talking to people with her father.

She understood on her own that she should learn from her father and be polite like him.

There's no adversity training involved here.

"Yes, that's right! I overlooked everything!"

……

The conversation continued for a full half hour before Yu Qian, having nothing more to say, decided to leave.

He came simply to assess the situation. Since Wang Hui was already taking care of Andi, and he had already shared much of what he wanted to say, there was no reason for him to stay any longer. What followed was his own reflection.

"I am leaving."

Guo Degang got up to see his senior brother off.

After delivering the package and returning, he continued to think.

After much thought, I realized I was terribly wrong.

He initially intended to use setbacks as a form of education, hoping to prevent Dalin from experiencing the hardships he had endured in his youth. However, as the years went by, he used these methods more and more harshly.

Looking back now, even though I received some lessons in resilience...

Even if you have no power, you're still looked down upon. What does that have to do with resilience training? People grow up through experiences, not by being beaten.

Being beaten might at most improve the child's skills.

But aside from business, he also disciplined his children harshly, which truly shows he didn't treat them like human beings.

Now he understands, he knows what to do, and he has a feeling of complete enlightenment.

But after achieving complete enlightenment, one experiences extreme pain.

Because I suddenly understood everything, but what good was it? It was all too late.

Dalin will never come back; it's all his own doing.

Only the youngest son remained.

But in just a few days, the younger son had changed somewhat and started to hate him; otherwise, he wouldn't have broken down and said those things.

He has absolutely no idea about taking over the reins in the future; on the contrary, his attitude is that he would rather die than take over the reins.

It's strangely ironic.

"..."

Taking a breath, Guo Degang felt his body trembling. He had lived half his life without knowing what he had actually succeeded at.

Meanwhile, on the other side, Yu Qian went back to his apprentice's home.

He came back.

Guo Qilin was quite curious, so he returned quickly, in just over an hour.

"Master, is the matter resolved?"

"There's no need to solve it. I'll just go over and ask Hehe if she's finished her homework."

"No, she's thinking about playing. I wonder how she'll catch up on her homework tomorrow. School starts again after the Lantern Festival."

"It's okay, I'll go and keep an eye on things."

The afternoon passed.

Yu Qian is doing well. Besides supervising the little girl's homework, he also comes over to cook delicious meals for the family.

He's a retired man; he doesn't ask for anything else, he just wants people to be happy eating the food he cooks.

"Grandpa, when are we going to eat roast whole lamb?"

During dinner, Hehe said something whimsical, her eyes wide open.

"You haven't even eaten yet, and you're already thinking about roast whole lamb." Guo Qilin pinched her cheek as she ate, and continued, "You're so disobedient. Here, have some more. You haven't even finished your homework."

"I will finish my homework."

Yu Qian smiled and said, "How long until we get a holiday? Let's kill a sheep ourselves. It's been a long time since we've done it."

"Eat lots of meat."

"Okay, you can have it all, including the lamb offal. I'll have your dad make lamb offal soup later."

"Please indulge me."

Every moment spent together as a family is comfortable.

The next day, Guo Qilin was quite busy.

Company's first day of work.

I had a large meeting with a group of people this morning.

He not only talked to Huilin Publishing House, but also to his own record company. His album is about to be released, and it's currently in the peak promotional period.

I was busy until the afternoon.

He was invited to attend the Lantern Festival Gala in Yangtai.

to the place.

Most of the celebrities in it are people I know and am familiar with.

For example, Sheng Teng, Jin Chen, Han Lei, Jia Bing, Jin Fei, Chen Xi, Zhang Guoli, Cai Min, and others.

He has good connections in the film, television, singing, and crosstalk industries.

Even if they don't interact much normally, they can still talk when they meet, such as Phoenix Legend and Huang Qishan, because they are people they often know.

"Dalin, did you come here alone this time to sing? Not to perform crosstalk?"

After the Lantern Festival Gala rehearsal was finished, Jin Chen, Jia Bing, Jin Fei, Chen Xi, and Da Lin sat together and chatted.

"It can only be singing; it's impossible to do a solo performance."

"Sigh~ It would be so much better to do crosstalk. If we did a group performance, the effect would be amazing." Jin Fei and Chen Xi said with some regret.

But Jin Chen had a different opinion. She preferred Da Lin's singing, as Da Lin had many famous songs.

He rarely sings one of his songs, "The Light Chaser," but it's one of her favorites.

As for Jia Bing, he became popular again after Da Lin's TV series. People still think of him when they come to talk to him. Da Lin is not only a singer and actor, but also a famous director.

We chatted for a while.

The Lantern Festival Gala was almost over, and everyone got busy.

Like Guo Qilin, he began conducting interviews and getting his makeup done.

His program is scheduled fifth today, which is relatively early, so he can go home around nine o'clock after the performance.

The song they sang was "Suddenly".

The program team hadn't initially considered this song; it was only after Guo Qilin suggested it that they agreed to it.

Now his status and influence are growing stronger, and even the CCTV Lantern Festival program team listens to his advice more often.

So tonight he's singing a song written by his sister, which is quite rare for him.

However, Deng Yiling was unaware that she was watching the Lantern Festival Gala live with her sister at that moment.

As I looked around, I couldn't help but glance at Hehe's room. There was nothing else to see; she was still rushing to finish her homework on the last day.

It's the same during summer vacation, and the same during winter vacation; it's a personality trait that can't be changed. (End of Chapter)