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Chapter 147: As a gamer, what qualifications do you have to talk about education?

Zhang Wei was somewhat surprised when he received a call from Psychological Interview.

"Are you really that CCTV "Psychological Interview"?" Zhang Wei asked subconsciously.

"Look at what you're asking, I can lie to you about this! There's no point in lying to you!" The intern who called was from Beijing and had a Beijing movie accent.

"That's not what I meant. I didn't expect that CCTV would invite me to appear on the program. I remember that in the first half of this year, didn't the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television issue a notice asking TV stations not to broadcast computer game programs!
I'm afraid that if I go to CCTV to record a program and find out that it's against the rules, then my trip will be in vain! "Zhang Wei said.

"The General Administration of Optoelectronics has this requirement, but when we invite you here, we don't ask you to play games, but to be a guest. This is a talk show, not a game show. Games are not allowed to be broadcast on TV. Are you not allowed to speak anymore?" the intern said with a smile.

"That's true. That's okay, I have no problem." Zhang Wei agreed.

"Don't rush to agree. I haven't finished my words yet. Our program has limited funds, so I'm afraid I can't give you much in terms of guest fees. At most, it's equivalent to the cost of a meal, plus a round-trip taxi ride." Fee." the intern said.

"It doesn't matter. If I can be on your CCTV program, I can give you some money." Zhang Wei paused and then asked: "But tell me the content of the program you want to record in advance so that I can be prepared." , Don’t ask questions and don’t know anything, which will also affect the recording effect of the program.”

"The content of our program this time is mainly focused on the phenomenon of teenagers playing online games. I invite you to come because I hope you will talk to the audience about online games from the perspective of game practitioners." The intern said.

Then the female host began to introduce the theme of this program, and then introduced the Internet-addicted teenager who asked for leave and ran away, and his father.

"Are you going to talk about the problem of some teenagers being addicted to online games?" Zhang Wei asked with a smile.

After reading a few articles by Wang Zhiqi, Zhang Wei just smiled disdainfully. Although the content of the article was very extreme, some paragraphs were simply unreasonable and directly criticized.

But from the perspective of a school to combat Internet addiction, it is normal to make such remarks. After all, people are counting on this to make a living, so how can they say good things about online games!

After a while, Zhang Wei received the information from the CCTV intern.

Zhang Wei definitely couldn't give Wang Zhiqi any good looks. He was labeled a traitor. How mean would it be if he still greeted the other party with a smile?
Thanks to the rule of law in a society, one must abide by the law, otherwise Zhang Wei would directly kill people.

At this time, the new CCTV building had not yet been built, so Zhang Wei went to the old CCTV building, which was just south of Zhongguancun along the West Third Ring Road. The distance was not too far.

"Wang Zhiqi, what's your background? Let's check it out! After all, we are on the same show, so we know each other more or less."

After a while, Zhang Wei finished reading the article, and his face suddenly turned livid.

When the two guests met in the studio, they had no idea what the other person was doing and stared at each other. How embarrassing!
It would be different if we knew each other well, and we could pretend to be acquaintances.

"What do you mean? I won a WCG championship in the United States. It's fine if you don't praise me. Why are you calling me a spokesman for spiritual opium? It makes me look like a traitor!"

Seeing the words "Game Champion", Zhang Wei instinctively clicked on this article.

A ray of anger rose from his heart.

The father and son's surname is Zhao. The father, Lao Zhao, is an ordinary office worker, and the son, Xiao Zhao, is a freshman in high school.

Suddenly, a rather unusual title appeared in Zhang Wei's sight.

"Then please give me an email address, and I will send you the recording time and the questions involved." The intern continued.

In the world of human relations, even if you only know a little bit about it, you still have to pretend to be familiar with it. If you have a meal together, you can become superficial brothers!

Moreover, some of the contents of the article are also true. For example, playing online games leads to a decline in academic performance, playing online games leads to myopia, etc.

Zhang Wei continued to read the information sent by the intern. The information showed that in addition to himself, he also invited another expert, whose introduction was Professor Wang Zhiqi from the School of Moral Education.

Wang Zhiqi also ignored Zhang Wei. He knew that the other guest on the show was the game world champion he had sprayed. As an expert in combating Internet addiction, if you are having fun with a world champion in playing games, how will you be able to combat Internet addiction in the future?
After putting on makeup, the two were taken to the studio. Editor Zhou introduced the precautions and officially started recording the program.

When it was time to record the program, Zhang Wei came to CCTV as scheduled.

If the guests can get into a fight and get into a fight, the ratings will be pretty good.

He originally thought that on this kind of show, the two guests would be daily business flattery, and everyone would make money by getting along with each other, which would ultimately make things easier for him.

After all, Zhang Wei is a second-generation man, and he struggled within the system in his previous life. He does not look at things so one-sidedly and knows how to see the essence through phenomena.

Zhang Wei continued to search for Wang Zhiqi's related content and found that he also published many articles, all related to Internet addiction. The themes of the articles were basically the same. They all said that online games are a scourge, electronic heroin, and addicted to the Internet. It is a kind of mental illness. We must send it to him as soon as possible to cure Internet addiction and so on.

"Open the door to the soul, listen to psychological stories, and advocate a happy life. Once the psychological stories are opened, they are broader than the sky, deeper than the bottom of the sea, and more memorable than the world we see. Welcome everyone to watch this issue of "Psychology" Interview." The female host faced the camera and finished her opening remarks.

"Let me comment on this matter and the phenomenon of teenagers being addicted to online games from the perspective of a game practitioner. Haha, you will really put me on the fire!"

Three feet of ice does not freeze in a day. To develop such an extreme character, you should first find out the reasons from family education! Or maybe this running away from home is just the outbreak of many accumulated problems? "

In the dressing room, Zhang Wei met Wang Zhiqi. Neither of them said hello or even nodded to each other.

"Okay, I have no problem. In fact, I also want to talk about this topic."

At first, corporal punishment was effective, but later on, Xiao Zhao acted like a dead pig who was not afraid of boiling water. I'm typing you. After I'm done typing, I'll go online.

"Expert in quitting Internet addiction? Are you going to compete with me?" Zhang Wei chuckled, thinking that this "Psychological Interview" program understands traffic!

But now it seems that commercial touting is impossible!
You call me a traitor, how can I flatter you!
I must fight you to the end!
……

According to his father, Lao Zhao, when he was in junior high school, his son Xiao Zhao’s grades were very good and he once ranked among the top ten in the class. However, after entering high school, Xiao Zhao's grades plummeted. During the midterm exam, he even failed several subjects and was ranked last in the class.

"Champion of online games? Or spokesperson for spiritual opium? Our youth are headed for destruction!"

"We need to talk about this part. After all, this is also a hot topic now."

In order to find out what happened to his son, Lao Zhao secretly followed Xiao Zhao, only to find that Xiao Zhao was obsessed with online games and ran to the Internet cafe as soon as school was over. Sometimes I even skip class to play games.

Zhang Wei typed the words "Wang Zhiqi" on the search engine, and after a little searching, he actually found it.

Although Zhang Wei doesn't have time to participate in any e-sports campus tour, he will definitely not refuse the invitation from CCTV programs. After all, CCTV's cards are there.

"The parents don't let their children go to Internet cafes to play games, so the children run away from home? Is this child so extreme? A normal child would definitely not run away from home to play games.

Adhering to the concept of "filial sons emerge from under the stick", Lao Zhao imposed corporal punishment on his son Xiao Zhao, beating him with a feather duster, whipping him with a belt, and fanning him with the soles of his shoes.

Seeing that corporal punishment was ineffective, Old Zhao decided to cut off Xiao Zhao's pocket money, so that Xiao Zhao would have no money to go online. As a result, Xiao Zhao saved money for meals at school and went to play games online even when he was hungry.

So Lao Zhao used a big trick, not giving any money to Xiao Zhao, and asking Xiao Zhao to go home for dinner after school. The final result was that Xiao Zhao stole Lao Zhao's money and ran away from home. In the end, Lao Zhao called the police and got Xiao Zhao back.

The host asked Xiao Zhao another question. Xiao Zhao hardly spoke, just nodded and shook his head, which seemed to be acquiescing to what Zhao said.

Next it was the turn of the experts to speak.

"This is Professor Wang Zhiqi, a famous expert in combating Internet addiction. Professor Wang, what do you think about Xiao Zhao's situation?" the host asked.

Wang Zhiqi cleared his throat and said: "In recent years, the Internet has penetrated into every aspect of our lives. At the same time, an invisible killer has quietly invaded the lives of many people, and that is Internet addiction!

Many people think that Internet addiction is just a bad lifestyle, just like smoking addiction and drinking addiction. But in fact, Internet addiction is a serious mental illness that requires us to pay higher attention and focus on.

Being addicted to the Internet will cause serious damage to a person's physical and mental health, and will also affect his daily life, study, work and social interaction. These are clearly reflected in classmate Xiao Zhao.

I think that current student Xiao Zhao is already in a state of Internet addiction and should seize the time for treatment. If it is allowed to develop, it will bring more psychological problems, and in severe cases, it will evolve into mental illness!

As we all know, online games have brought serious harm to the majority of young people. Teenagers' addiction to online games will not only lower their academic performance, but also lead to addiction. So online games are basically a kind of electronic heroin!

Here, I also appeal to the general audience, especially parents with children at home, that the urgency of Internet addiction treatment cannot be ignored. If children are found addicted to online games, effective treatment measures should be taken in a timely manner to quit Internet addiction and let go. The child returns to normal life! "

The host continued: "Today we also invited Zhang Wei, a practitioner in online games and the champion of the World E-Sports Competition, let us hear what professional game practitioners have to say about Xiao Zhao's situation. view!"

The screen was shown to Zhang Wei, but Zhang Wei looked at Xiao Zhao calmly and asked: "Xiao Zhao, I am also a gamer, how about we talk about games?
What do you think games can bring to you? Excitement? Satisfaction? A sense of gain? Or maybe playing games can relieve mental stress and make you feel happy? "

Zhang Wei did not express his views directly like Wang Zhiqi, but chatted with classmate Xiao Zhao.

The host was slightly stunned and thought to himself: Why doesn't this guest act according to the routine? I am the host. I should be the one to initiate the chat. When will it be your turn as the guest?
In the control room behind the scenes, the intern looked at Chief Editor Zhou and asked, "Editor-in-Chief, we didn't arrange it before. Do you want to call a card for the interaction between the guests and the parties?"

Editor-in-chief Zhou shook his head: "This is a talk show. The host can talk, but the guests can't talk? Who talks? And it's a recorded broadcast. If the talk is not good, it can be reduced later. First of all, Let’s see what this guest has to say!” In the studio, classmate Xiao Zhao felt a lot more friendly when he heard that Zhang Wei was also a professional gamer and an e-sports champion.

In addition, Zhang Wei's age seems to be a few years older than him. He doesn't feel like those adults who only use the banner of "it's all for your own good" to verbally criticize him.

So Xiao Zhao no longer just nodded and shook his head, he finally spoke: "I just think playing games is very interesting. Especially when you feel depressed when studying, go to an Internet cafe to play games. You don't have to think about anything in your mind, and you will feel very relaxed."

"You are a student, and all you have to do now is study! Other than studying, anything else is a waste of time! I spend money for you to study, not for you to play games!"

His father, Lao Zhao's voice sounded from the side, and Xiao Zhao immediately closed his mouth, not daring to speak any more.

"Indeed, for students, learning is their main task and should be placed at the highest priority." Zhang Wei first agreed and then asked:

"Dad Zhao, Xiao Zhao's main task is to study. So what do you think is your main task in daily life? Is it to work to make money and support the family?"

"Of course, I don't make money, so the whole family can eat, wear, and pay for school!" Father Zhao nodded.

"When you are not at work, in addition to eating and sleeping, do you also engage in some leisure and entertainment activities. For example, ask friends to play mahjong, go fishing at the river, go to the gym to play table tennis, or stay at home and watch A newspaper, TV or something!" Zhang Wei then asked.

Wang Zhiqi, who was standing next to him, instantly realized that Zhang Wei was taking the topic astray, and immediately interrupted: "You said these are normal leisure and entertainment activities, different from playing games!"

"So Professor Wang believes that playing mahjong, fishing, basketball, and watching TV can all be regarded as normal leisure and entertainment activities, but playing games is not a normal leisure and entertainment activity! So what is playing games? Is it work?" Zhang Wei immediately He caught Wang Zhiqi’s words.

"Playing games is a mental illness!" Wang Zhiqi immediately retorted.

"Then why isn't playing mahjong a mental illness? Isn't watching TV a mental illness? You said playing games is a mental illness. There must be a reason, right?" Zhang Wei asked.

"I have said before that playing games is like taking heroin, it can become addictive!" Wang Zhiqi explained forcefully.

Zhang Wei chuckled: "If you want to talk about addiction, many people are addicted to playing mahjong! There are also many people who watch TV for more than ten hours a day! This is in line with your definition of addiction as a mental illness, so Are playing mahjong and watching TV all mental illnesses?

Obviously, this doesn’t make sense! You define gaming as a mental illness, can't you just say it is? There should be a defined standard, right? As for whether this standard is reasonable, we can bring other entertainment behaviors into your standard to see if it meets it.

According to the standards you defined, we brought other entertainment activities into it and found that there are the same situations as playing games. Does that mean that other entertainment activities are also mental illnesses? If so, then people who engage in other recreational activities should also seek medical treatment. If not, then your standards are unreasonable! "

Zhang Wei's words made Wang Zhiqi speechless. The labeling is based on thin air. There are no standards. If you ask the person who is labeling you to negotiate standards, the label will definitely not be applied.

In the backstage control room, a smile appeared on Editor Zhou's face, and the two guests had a smell of gunpowder. This will definitely attract ratings!

Just listen to what Zhang Wei said next: "So I don't agree that playing games is a disease, and online games are not electronic heroin. I think playing games and watching TV is just an ordinary leisure and entertainment behavior.

As for Xiao Zhao's current situation, it is not a mental illness and does not require immediate treatment. He just used the time he should study for leisure and entertainment. It's the same nature as us watching TV for an extra half hour in the morning and therefore being late hundreds of times! "

"But because of playing games, my son's grades dropped and he even failed the exam!" Zhao's father said immediately.

"So you think the core reason is online games?" Zhang Wei asked with a smile.

"Of course it is an online game. If there were no online games, my son would not skip classes and surf the Internet, and he would not fail the exam!"

"Are you sure?" Zhang Wei smiled slightly and then asked: "Even if there are no online games, will your son go to the game hall to play arcade games? Will he be addicted to martial arts novels? Will he go to the billiards hall on the roadside? Are you obsessed with football games? There are many high school students who skip class and go to KFC to watch NBA games. Can you guarantee that your son will not? "

Father Zhao hesitated for a moment and did not dare to make this guarantee.

They dare to skip class and go online. There is no guarantee that they will not skip class and do other things.

Zhang Wei went on to say: "Every era has some 'destroying' things that will make the teenagers of that era fall into it and be unable to extricate themselves.

In the past, when supplies were scarce, a few marbles would make teenagers addicted. If there is an outdoor movie in the evening, many children will sneak away to watch the movie instead of doing their homework.

After the reform and opening up, people's entertainment life also became richer. In the 1980s, martial arts novels and romance novels became popular. Wasn't it said at that time that Qiong Yao's novels ruined that generation? Even in today's high schools, if the teacher finds out that students are reading martial arts novels, they will confiscate them, right?

Later, there were billiard tables on the roadside, video parlors, game arcades, and Japanese comics. These new things also made many students abandon their studies and were unable to extricate themselves. They were also said to be poisonous to teenagers, which is not the same as the current spirit. Opium and electronic heroin say the same thing.

So the reality is that in the era before online games, there were still many children who couldn't control themselves and were tempted by all kinds of colorful entertainment activities, resulting in a decline in academic performance. You can't just blame online games for your child's performance decline.

I think the core reason for Xiao Zhao's situation is not because of online games, but because of his lack of self-control in the face of new leisure and entertainment activities.

To solve this problem, we do not rely on Internet addiction treatment. As I said just now, in addition to online games, there are also various colorful entertainment activities to tempt him. If you quit using the Internet and become addicted to novels again, should you go for novel treatment? "

"Then what do you think we should do?" Lao Zhao asked.

"Since the root of the problem is not online games but Xiao Zhao's self-control ability, what we should do more is to patiently communicate and guide Xiao Zhao's attention to his studies. To put it simply, It’s up to parents to take responsibility, and family education is the most important thing,” Zhang Wei said.

"Am I not responsible enough? I have explained the truth. I have been beaten and scolded. I have tried all the methods that should be used, but it just doesn't work. What else can I do?" Lao Zhao Said unconvinced.

Zhang Wei silently took out a piece of paper and said, "I have a few simple questions to ask you. Which row and row does Xiao Zhao sit in the class? What is the name of his deskmate?" ? Who is his favorite teacher? Who is his most hated teacher?
Did he have a nickname in class? Who among his classmates has the best relationship with him? Does he have a female classmate he likes? If so, what's its name? Are they in the same class?

What songs does he usually like to listen to? Who is your favorite singer? Which TV series do you like? What sports do you like? Who is your favorite football star?
Is there anything in particular that he wants? Is there any place you particularly want to go? What ideals does he have? What kind of job do you want to do when you grow up?

He is your son, and you are also a very responsible father, so you should know him very well, so you should know the answers to all my questions, right? "

Zhang Wei said and handed the paper with the question in his hand to Lao Zhao.

Lao Zhao looked at the questions on the paper and his expression gradually became serious. He suddenly discovered that he didn't know the answers to any of these questions!
Does your son have a female classmate that he likes? Do you have a favorite celebrity? He didn't even know anything about these basic questions: did he have something he wanted or a place he wanted to go?
Especially the question of "what ideals do you have?" struck straight into Lao Zhao's soul.

He doesn't even know what his son's ideals are, so he still has the nerve to say that he is a responsible father?
At this moment, Lao Zhao suddenly realized that his son was so strange in his heart! He seems to be an outsider and knows nothing about his son!
"Why is this happening? He is my son. We are father and son. We are the closest people! Why don't I know anything?"

The next second, Lao Zhao finally understood. It turned out that all these years, he had only paid attention to Xiao Zhao's study, but ignored all other things!

In his eyes, the so-called father's responsibility, in addition to keeping his children fed and clothed, is to urge him to study. As long as your child studies well, you will be a good father!

As for other bits and pieces of his growth, Lao Zhao didn't pay attention at all.

At this moment, Lao Zhao suddenly felt a sense of loss in his heart. He knew that he had missed his son's growth! This is irreversible and there is no way to make up for it.

In Lao Zhao's mind, he remembered the moment Xiao Zhao was born, standing outside the delivery room with his face covered and crying.

He remembered the first time Xiao Zhao called "Dad" and the overwhelming joy in his heart.

He remembered the scene when Xiao Zhao had a fever and he rushed to the hospital with him in his arms!

He remembered that when he went to pick up Xiao Zhao from kindergarten, he was always unwilling to sit in the back, but could not wait to jump on the front bumper of the bicycle!
Over the years, Lao Zhao has sacrificed a lot for his son, but the distance between his son and him has become farther and farther!
When he found out that Xiao Zhao was addicted to online games, the first thing he did was criticize him in his eyes; when he learned that Xiao Zhao skipped class and went to an Internet cafe, the first thing he did was beat him up!
There is no longer any communication between father and son, only what I say you do!
"It turns out I was the one who was wrong!"

Lao Zhao let out a long sigh. He finally realized where the core problem lay!

At this time, Zhang Wei showed a satisfied smile and said: "The root cause of teenagers' Internet addiction is not caused by online games, but more caused by the negligence of family education and lack of guidance.

Even if there are no online games, there are still other colorful temptations, and there will always be one that will lure children. Without family education and correct guidance, children will still go astray.

If parents simply blame online games and continue to lack communication with their children and do not strengthen their education and guidance, they are just treating the symptoms but not the root cause! "

……

In the backstage control room, Editor Zhou couldn't help but start applauding.

The guest invited today really gave him a big surprise!

The topic starts from the Internet-addicted teenager running away from home, and step by step it digs into the problems of family education, which is thought-provoking. This is a truly in-depth show!

In the studio in front, Wang Zhiqi's face was ashen.

In the current situation, Zhang Wei has not only stolen the limelight, but also the right to speak about Internet addiction!
Being addicted to online games is a problem that is solved by family education, so there is no need for our Internet Addiction Center to do anything about it.

If parents start to communicate with their children and guide them patiently, then where can I recruit patients and how can I make money!
No, we must turn the situation around, and at least we must seize the right to speak!
Thinking of this, Wang Zhiqi said angrily: "Internet addiction should be actively treated. This is the most correct method! Over the years, the academic performance of Internet addicted teenagers who have been treated by me has improved, and many of them have even passed the entrance examination. University. This is the real result of Internet addiction treatment.

What does a gamer like you know about family education? Apart from anything else, have you ever gone to college? I can't even get into college, but I'm still talking about education here. Isn't it a little too self-righteous? If I really listen to you, it will be misleading! "

(End of this chapter)