I asked you to repeat your senior year of high school, but did you miss out on joining the military

Chapter 411: Talking about marriage, or just masturbate the dean

The New Year's Eve dinner at Uncle San's house was very enjoyable. The whole family, including Lin Xiaodong, the "uninvited guest", did not feel awkward.

Push the cup and change the cup.

Chen Baishui mentioned their marriage in passing and also talked about Li Haiyao's family situation.

This time, Chen Jun had no way to refuse, as Li Haiyao occasionally added some advice.

He told her everything about the other party's family situation.

Even though it was not the first time I heard it, and even though I was mentally prepared.

But after hearing about his daughter-in-law's family situation, Chen Baishui still frowned, and Li Xiufen was even more stunned, as she had been close to her future daughter-in-law for two days.

At this moment, I actually felt a little reluctant to look directly at it.

Third uncle and third aunt remained silent. Lin Xiaodong and Qin Xiaojuan also sat there stiffly, opening their mouths but saying nothing for a long time.

As the saying goes, it is better to marry someone of equal social status, so that there will be fewer conflicts after marriage and the two families can get along harmoniously.

It's not without the idea of ​​marrying up a bit, but it's too high a price for an ordinary family.

It’s not necessarily a good thing.

In a situation similar to Li Haiyao's family, if we talk about matching, let alone Chen Jun's family, it would probably be difficult to find a family in the entire Liucheng that can match them.

With this kind of family background, is it possible to become in-laws?

Chen Baishui turned his head and glanced at Chen Futong with deep worry in his eyes. The third uncle was the only one in the Chen family who did some business. He had a lot of experience in all aspects and could give more pertinent suggestions.

Chen Futong hesitated for a moment, then he carefully said, "Well, Xiaojun is a good person, a very honest child."

"Yaoyao is also a good kid, and she's pretty. If you two want to date, your family will definitely have no objection."

"You guys are all so busy in the army that you don't have much time. Why don't you take advantage of the New Year and wait for the gold shops in the city to open in a few days to buy some hardware jewelry first, and then see what Yaoyao's family has in terms of marriage requirements."

"We are making all-out preparations here and try to satisfy the in-laws."

What Chen Futong said was quite pertinent. It was basically the same process of engagement and marriage in his hometown.

I was thinking about trying out what the requirements of Li Haiyao's family were.

After all, no one has ever come into contact with this kind of family, and no one knows what conditions they want.

Chen Jun had never had any contact with them either, but he brought people back during this Chinese New Year, and there were some words or procedures or attitudes.

The Chen family should give it.

"Don't bother Uncle San so much. I know what you mean."

Li Haiyao heard the test in Chen Futong's words, and she smiled and grabbed Chen Jun's arm.

"You are not allowed to bring jewelry in the army. You don't need to buy the hardware and three gold items for your wedding. As for the wedding, my parents will take time to come over from Guangzhou after the Chinese New Year."

"At that time, uncle and aunt, please meet with my family and talk."

"My family doesn't have any requirements. As long as you have good personal qualities and work hard, there will be no problem in my family."

Li Haiyao took the initiative to comfort her, even though she had never been involved in rural marriages before.

I also know about hardware and dowry.

But in Li Haiyao's impression, it seemed that the issue of dowry was never mentioned in their family when getting married, including her cousin's marriage and her cousin's marriage, which were always discussed by the older generation when they sat together.

The two young people were transferred to work together, and the rest depended on how things developed. The wedding was not a very grand ceremony, as only family members invited relatives and friends to attend.

Li Haiyao even remembered that her grandfather rarely attended the weddings of her cousins, and even if he did, he would only stay for a short while before leaving.

Being busy with work is one thing, and having many younger generations in the family is another.

Also, one should pay attention to influences and so on. In short, Li Haiyao's values ​​about marriage are that the person has high personal qualities and is hardworking and motivated, as long as she likes the person.

Heard about personal qualities.

Chen Jun's heart was pounding and he felt awkward for no reason. He looked out the door and kept silent.

On the way back, Li Haiyao asked him several times in a roundabout way about how he had arrested his father-in-law, but he refused to reveal the truth and only said that the exercise was a simulated arrest.

He didn't say a word of detail.

Is this also considered high personal quality?
When they heard that Li Haiyao's parents would take time to visit their home after the Chinese New Year, brothers Chen Futong and Chen Baishui looked at each other.

They all smiled silently, seeming a little awkward.

Having someone from the girl's family come is no small matter and must be prepared in advance. Moreover, Chen Jun mentioned that the girl's father is a division commander in the army and has more than 10,000 people under his command.

In reality, few people can actually come into contact with what their teachers look like, but they are often shown in TV dramas.

That guy, isn't he the type who, when he disagrees with something, slams the table and orders the troops to be dispatched, trying to win people over with virtue?
The era in the TV series is different, so the images portrayed are definitely different from now, but there are preconceived stereotypes, plus the pressure of the position.

Still, the two older brothers of the Chen family felt that they had to be cautious.

They were talking about marriage.

The atmosphere at the dinner table was a bit cold. Third Aunt hurriedly stood up and pushed the steamed hairy crab towards Li Haiyao.

"Yaoyao, don't just stand there, have a crab. This is the Qinzhou blue crab that your uncle specially asked someone to buy. Try it and see if it tastes good."

“Thank you, Auntie!!”

Li Haiyao tapped her chin lightly, a sweet smile on her fair face, but she didn't take any action.

Guangxi Province is rich in water resources, so it is inevitable to have some strange-looking crabs or fish on the New Year’s Eve dinner table.

The places Li Haiyao had stayed most often were Tanzhou and Kyoto, or the remote west, and she had rarely seen anything with so many legs.

I don't know how to eat it at all.

Chen Jun wanted to teach, but Yingying was faster. She quickly picked up a crab with her greasy little claws, peeled off the lid, and carefully passed on her experience.

A group of people couldn't help laughing.

The marriage has been discussed, and the gifts received this time included a lot of fireworks bought by my third uncle.

There was nothing to do on New Year's Eve, so the whole family sat together to celebrate the New Year.

Wait until it is lit.

People in Guangxi Province seldom watch the Spring Festival Gala, but many play mahjong, which is considered one of the entertainment activities during the New Year. However, Chen Jun's family does not play either of them.

After having enough wine and food.

Chen Jun asked about Chen Qian from his uncle's family. He was not at home and didn't even know when his cousin got married.

Mention Chen Qian.

Uncle San sighed, turned his head away without saying a word, and seemed very angry.

Dad Chen Baishui crossed his legs, sat there with his head down, and said nothing.

It was my mother Li Xiufen who told the story. Actually, it was nothing special, just a very clichéd story of young people pursuing love.

Chen Qian graduated two years ago.

After graduation, I worked in a financial company in Jinling. How can I describe the situation in my uncle's family? The idea of ​​favoring boys over girls is a bit too serious.

Chen Qian is responsible for all the housework, from washing clothes to taking out the trash. That's why whenever Chen Jun went to her house, Chen Qian would pour him water and entertain him.

The main reason is that if she doesn't do it, no one else will.

She was a good student, but after graduation, perhaps influenced by her family, she lacked some care and attention. Not long after graduation, she started dating someone and her family knew nothing about it.

People get pregnant.

The man’s family is a young man from the mountainous area of ​​your district. He is the type who is sweet-talking, old, and doesn’t speak much truth.

Actually, Chen Qian is pretty, but girls from this kind of family always fall into similar pits, and fall miserably. When she got pregnant, her uncle was so eager to save face that he almost broke off relations with his daughter. You can make a fuss if you want to, but he is the type who only knows how to make a fuss, bullies others at home, and never solves the problem.

In the end, things dragged on for several months, the belly became more and more obvious, but the man never even showed up.

Helplessly, Chen Qian could only take a car to the man’s house to wait for the birth, get the marriage certificate, get married, and give birth.

The almost one-year-old baby that Chen Jun saw just now was born under the same circumstances.

Mention what happened to my cousin.

Mother Li Xiufen could not help but wipe away tears quietly: "Qianqian is so silly. She said the place where she married is too hard and it is not even possible to get there by bus."

"The taxis there are motorcycles, and they can't even get me home. I have to climb a long mountain road. The conditions are too harsh. Qianqian doesn't have enough to eat, and she can't feed her children well."

"I originally wanted to stay at home for a while when I came back this year, but your uncle and his family, ah."

"Now I have lost my job, and the man I married doesn't pay me. When I go home, I have to take care of not only my children but also two elderly people."

“It’s been a hard life.”

Well.
Chen Jun was originally gnawing on the crab legs with great interest, but after hearing about his cousin's experience, he felt helpless.

No wonder when I brought up this topic just now, my third uncle looked angry and my dad remained silent.

It turns out that life is really hard.

Even Chen Jun himself couldn't help but sigh when he heard it, but what can he do about this kind of thing? Outsiders can't help.

Even though it may not sound good, it is the truth. That child is a burden and it would have been easier if you didn't have it in the first place. But you didn't resolve the issue at that time and had to have it.

Now that I have the child, I can’t let it go and I’ll be trapped there for the rest of my life.

Chen Jun couldn't describe how he felt. He felt pity, yes, but he couldn't blame others for the fact that he was such a grown-up and ended up living like this.

"Well, Dad, Mom, Third Uncle, I just met my sister at the door."

"Yaoyao has taken some medical courses at the National University of Defense Technology. I think it would be best for my sister to go to the hospital for a physical examination when she has time."

"She is still young. Her life may improve in the future, but if her body breaks down, it will really break down."

"Your uncle may not be willing to take care of it."

Chen Baishui was stunned for a long while when he heard this, and then shook his head slightly: "He didn't even recognize Qianqian when she came back, and I felt embarrassed for him."

"If we talk about this during the Chinese New Year, who knows what kind of mess it will cause."

"Why don't you ask your mother to take her to the hospital for a checkup. Qianqian has no money, but our family can pay for it. The older generation can do whatever they want, but we can't let the child suffer this again."

In fact, as an elder, Chen Baishui is quite thoughtful.

But after these words were spoken, even though everyone present knew the situation, they still felt a little uncomfortable.

This was especially true for Chen Jun, who was young and hot-tempered, and was already very dissatisfied with his uncle's family.

As a soldier, he could not tolerate any injustice. Upon hearing this, his eyes widened: "The one who lost him is the one who lost him again."

"How capable is he? He can ignore even his own daughter with just one shameful word? His position as the Dean of Studies brings him so much honor."

"If you can do it, do it. If you can't do it, get out as soon as possible. People like this can't teach any good students."

"Dad, Mom, you can't pay, and you can't do this secretly."

"I am a graduate of Rong'an No. 1 High School. At worst, I will go to the high school tomorrow to talk about this situation and bring my sister with me. I'll see if he dares to say something that will embarrass him."

Chen Jun was really annoyed this time.

It's not that he's trying to be prominent, he just doesn't like his uncle. He's been a teacher all his life, but he really treats him like a dog.

I heard that Chen Jun was going to No. 1 High School.

Chen Baishui and Chen Futong were shocked immediately. They absolutely could not let their child be in the spotlight now.

Otherwise, if the nephew got rid of his uncle's position as the principal, the Chen family would have no place in the village anymore.

Of course they believed that Chen Jun had the ability, and they would not ask for help from anyone else.

If he just went to file a complaint as a nephew, no one from above would force the matter to happen, and in the end Chen Kaijiang would have to bear the consequences.

"Xiaojun, stop messing around. This is not the way to solve this problem."

Chen Baishui quickly shook his head.

"You want to help Qianqian, but if you bring down her father's job, it will be even harder for Qianqian to stay at home."

"Not afraid."

Lin Xiaodong sat next to him and drank some wine. He also listened for a long time. At this time, he looked up and said, "If you can't stay at home, go to Henan Greentown. My company is expanding its ecological chain after the New Year."

"Drones are not easy to make because the market is too small. I plan to develop more products targeting teenagers, such as stationery, children's clothing, and laundry detergent."

"I just happen to be short of people. Sister Qian is highly educated and a top student in finance. I really need such talent. I just need a separate dormitory for employees."

"It's best to send the child to the man's family. If you don't want to send the child, you can hire someone to look after him. As long as he can work, he can support himself."

Chen Jun and his family were talking peacefully when Lin Xiaodong suddenly interrupted them.

Several people were stunned for a moment.

It is true that Chen Jun is young and energetic, and has a straightforward military temper, but Lin Xiaodong has just graduated from university and currently owns a small company with his own production plant.

They do have the capital to be so arrogant.

Qin Xiaojuan sat there without saying a word. It was obvious that she also sympathized with Chen Qian and didn't think there was anything wrong with it.

What's more, she had just seen Chen Qian, and she had a deep memory of the woman holding the baby who deliberately stepped back several steps to make way for them.

Chen Jun was also made to laugh at his best friend's aura. Ever since they became friends, Lin Xiaodong has always supported him unconditionally.

A few years ago, I removed the front wheel of a classmate’s bicycle just because he said a few insults to me in the group.

A few years later, I can still be the first to stand up and fight on the same front with him.

But he forgot that he was not the only businessman present, there was also Chen Futong.

Uncle San smiled brightly, then reached out and patted Lin Xiaodong on the shoulder.

"Okay, okay, you and Xiaojun are still young, and there are some things you haven't considered carefully."

"But Xiaojun is right. Big brother, as the dean of studies, is indeed getting more and more confused as time goes by."

"I'm at home these two days, and we live next door. I'll find time to talk to you. If you're still trying to save face,

"You don't have to quit your job as a dean of studies. You can just be demoted to an ordinary teacher."

"It would be best if he were to take a leave of absence from his job and go home to reflect on what he has done to the family over the past few years."

"Come on, cheers!!"

As Uncle San spoke, he raised his glass and everyone clinked their glasses together.

. . . . . .

Bang bang bang.
new Year is here.

Xiaozhou Village was soon covered with fireworks, and the sky above the entire village was like a kingdom of fireworks, bright and eye-catching.

Chen Jun also brought Li Haiyao, Chen Yingying, Lin Xiaodong, and Qin Xiaojuan back to his home.

Bring out the fireworks and light them.

Listen to the "boom boom boom" sound of fireworks rising into the sky.

Officially entering the new year.

(End of this chapter)