Military training is giving water to the school belle, I am thirsty and I am so drunk

Chapter 319: Even without a system, I can still be a life lecturer!

"Now that you have made a decision, you must not regret it."

"And I can tell you a clear pattern, whether it's the stars and idols you admire, or the great heroes we pass on by word of mouth."

"They are all ordinary people, and every success and every great achievement of theirs has a reason."

Of course Lin Feng could see that Lin Xiaoman was a little timid now.

Especially after you have made an impassioned speech, you will have a huge resistance to your future identity.

After all, the pressure is too great, and no matter who it is, the first reaction must be to retreat.

"We are all ordinary people, including your brother. I am also an ordinary person."

“Each of us is born into this world with nothing special.”

“The reason why we can accomplish so many great things is that we do everything with a normal mind. We eat well when we eat, sleep well when we sleep, and work well when we work.”

In fact, simple and plain words can touch people's hearts more than those gorgeous words. Lin Xiaoman really appreciates the last sentence.

Yes, what reason do we have to set too high expectations for ourselves every day, adding so much pressure to ourselves invisibly, making it impossible for us to face life and society with a normal attitude?

Eat well when you eat, sleep well when you sleep, and work well when you work.

If we do these small things with a normal mind, plan carefully, and review well, what can't we accomplish?

"Xiao Man, you have to remember this."

“Too many people overestimate what they can accomplish in a day, and too many people underestimate what they can accomplish in a year or even a decade!”

Lin Feng earnestly imparted to Lin Xiaoman all his insights over such a long period of time, as well as the experiences he had learned from other big guys.

In fact, Lin Feng is really not a person who likes to preach or nag.

We can also see from his working style that he tries to make management as flat as possible, holds as few meetings as possible, and never uses clichés or clichés to stretch things out to two hours if they can be solved in two minutes.

But today, facing his closest relatives, Lin Feng really wanted to pour out to Lin Xiaoman everything he had learned and all his heartfelt words.

He hopes that his sister won't have to take as many detours as he did.

I also hope that my sister will not suffer a lot because of fear which causes her movements to be distorted.

Although for a 20-year-old girl, suffering a loss is a blessing, especially when she is hit and spurred in her career, the more she will feel and be tempered, and in the end her edges will be smoothed out by the world, but the fire in her heart will become hotter and hotter.

However, how could Lin Feng watch his sister suffer in vain outside?
“So the second thing I want to tell you is that you must persevere.”

"I know that when you chose the anchor industry, 80% of it was because of chance and interest. Although what you just said was exaggerated, indignant, and full of sense of mission and responsibility, it makes your image particularly great, shining, and brilliant."

"But you always have to understand that curiosity and interest will slowly fade away with the passage of time."

“It is impossible for a person to maintain a lifetime passion for one thing, especially something he does every day, unless he has a good method to constantly learn and explore new things in this career.” “So since you have persisted in the anchor industry and even want to establish your own alliance to protect your rights with more anchors, I hope you must promise yourself and all anchors one thing, that is, to persist, no matter what difficulties you encounter, you must persist.”

Although Lin Feng's words were a bit extreme.

After all, sometimes, the saying "you won't give up until you hit the wall" is a mockery of others.

But at this stage, Lin Feng had no way to give his ambiguous answer, and Lin Xiaoman did not yet have the ability to make judgments on her own.

Besides, as a young girl who has just started out, Lin Xiaoman's world view and sense of right and wrong are still black and white.

When facing this colorful world, facing the people and things you like, or even the people and things you hate, you don't face them with a tactful attitude.

Just like when I first got the system, I would be domineering and arrogant.

Just do everything according to your own temperament. Even if you don't like something, it all shows on your face.

The consequence of this is that you will feel really good. You can love and hate as you like, take good care of the people you like, ignore the people you hate, or even turn against them directly without showing any mercy to the other person.

But humans are inherently shallow.

We always make a conclusion about each other within ten minutes of knowing each other.

Then immediately tell yourself whether you like this person or not, whether you want to continue to associate with him in the future, or whether you want to be friends with him.

But in ten minutes, let alone chatting, we can't even grasp the other person's character. Why do you disturb other people's peace of mind according to your own likes and dislikes, using cold or extremely enthusiastic means?

This is why Lin Feng now has many opponents and has offended many people, because his cynical and discriminatory attitude was so hateful and made many people lose face in public.

Although being tactful and worldly-wise, silently enduring is a humiliation for most people, especially for young and promising people like Lin Feng and Lin Xiaoman, most of the time they simply cannot bear the anger in their hearts.

But Lin Feng now also understands that becoming sophisticated and worldly-wise is also a kind of protection for themselves.

After all, when you encounter a major crisis in your life, not too many people will come up and step on you.

"So what I want to tell you in the end is that when you face someone you don't like, you should also treat him with your heart. At least don't show all your emotions on your face. And it's best to face someone you hate and dislike very much, and you should also try to write down three of his good qualities."

"The same goes for friends you particularly like to spend time with every day. You should also be on your guard against them at all times. After all, people's hearts are unpredictable. I still suggest that you write down the three shortcomings of your favorite person."

“So, when you can understand the strengths and weaknesses of all your subordinates and friends around you, and make use of their strengths and control their weaknesses, then these people will be used by you and become your resources. On your way forward, they can help you overcome all difficulties and achieve your ultimate dream.”

Lin Feng's words of encouragement even made his blood boil.

These words not only made Lin Xiaoman's eyes light up, but even Su Ruoxi next to her couldn't help but get excited.

I have to say, if Lin Feng didn’t have the system now.

If you become a speaker or a motivational speaker, you will be a leader in the industry.

(End of this chapter)