Rejecting 996, the capital of the whole world is broken

Chapter 105: Unavoidable Excessive Consumption

Regarding the statement of being unwilling, the cameraman felt that Song Wen was quite right.

The so-called unwillingness is not because you want too much.

It is because there are too many dissatisfactions that there are too many unwillingnesses.

To put it bluntly, all these reluctances are imposed on ourselves. In fact, we should have accepted them long ago.

The audience in the live broadcast room also agreed:
"When I think about it, I realize that we really want too much. A lot of the pressure is created by ourselves. In fact, life is not that difficult. We are just forcing ourselves."

"That's true. It seems like I'm never satisfied with anything. I never know what satisfaction is. I've closed 11 deals this month, which has exceeded my expectations, but I just can't accept it. There are people who are better than me. I've been trying my best to close one or two more deals these days. I'm so tired!"

"The college entrance examination results are out. I was a poor student and thought I would be happy if I could get into a third-tier university. But I didn't expect to get into a second-tier university! This made both me and my parents feel unwilling! I was just a little bit away from getting into a first-tier university! But shouldn't this be defined as a miracle?"

"You're not bad, buddy. I'm three points away from Huaqing's score line! I was so angry that I almost vomited blood. But Huaqing wasn't even in my target before. What's there to be unwilling about? I should set off fireworks to celebrate!"

"I'm going to tell you the stupidest thing. I took the driving test a few days ago. A score of 90 or above in Part 98 is considered a pass. I got 100, but I was depressed for several days because I thought why it wasn't . It's not perfect. I feel a little sorry for the time and hard work I put in. Isn't this just a disease?"

"If you can replace all your reluctance with contentment, your life will be really different! Just like Brother Song, it doesn't matter if you lose all your money, as long as you experience the corresponding happiness! It's not that there is no motivation without pressure, but that there is no anxiety without pressure!"

Although the cameraman agreed with this point and thought that Song Wen was absolutely right, what he didn't quite understand was where the danger came from?

If you want too much, the consequence should be that you have to pay more to match your needs. Even if you can't match them, at least you can comfort yourself mentally.
I really tried, but there is really no way
But this can't be considered dangerous no matter how you look at it. The only thing that has anything to do with danger is a health issue, right?
"The more you want, the harder you have to work, even to the point of overdrawing your body. I think this is the danger you're talking about, right?"

Anyway, the cameraman racked his brains and came up with this point to force the topic.

But Song Wen yawned and shook his head.

Yawning is not to show any emotion, it is just because I am tired.
Because everyone wants a lot, including Jiaqi, whose foot injury makes it difficult for her to walk, but she still wants a lot
Fortunately, Song Wen used his words and deeds to make her feel what it means to be content.

Jiaqi has not appeared in the camera these days, but she has always been in Song Wen's life.

"Although overdrawing your body is dangerous, at least there is room for recovery, and your body will forcibly send you a signal to stop, so this is not the biggest danger."

"The real danger is overdraft, but it's the bank card that's overdrawn!"

"Just like you said, I am unwilling to go back to my old life, or I am unwilling to not live the ideal life, or I am used to the so-called better life, but I am not capable enough and the conditions do not allow it, so I can only spend ahead of time."

"Pay for your own unwillingness and dissatisfaction by spending ahead of time."

"Of course, it's great. You'll live a glamorous life, and all the platforms that promote excessive consumption will strongly support you, as if you were their most distinguished owner." "And then what? Behind all your glamorous life is a pile of debt."

"When your body sends you a compulsion signal, it's a warning. You can remedy it. But when overconsumption sends you a stop signal, I'm afraid you can't remedy it."

"That's when the danger comes. You will realize what it means to be in the abyss and feel powerless. No matter how good a hospital is, it can't save a person who has given up hope."

"Just like you can never wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep."

As soon as he finished speaking, the cameraman suddenly realized.

Premature consumption, isn’t this caused by a lot of unwillingness and dissatisfaction?

How many people fall into the trap of advance consumption just because of a mobile phone or even because of a game skin.

Of course the original phone can still be used, and the free skins can still be used, but I’m not willing to give up!
Just by moving your fingers, you can earn money and use the things you want. Isn’t that great? !
It’s not like I can’t pay it back. I can just pay it off slowly later, or even just put it into my next month’s salary and be done with it!
The idea is good, but it ignores the fact that unwillingness and dissatisfaction are not temporary. Once you embark on this path, it will be difficult to back out!

This is the same consumer trap, just with a different entry ticket.

Another type of people who fall into the trap are those who are accustomed to a relatively affluent life. For example, like Song Wen, after a few days of luxury, they feel that this is the life that should belong to them.

In order to maintain this kind of life, I had to choose to consume ahead of time.

Of course, this kind of person will have a belief to support himself or convince himself.

This belief is that if I can succeed once, I can definitely succeed the second time! It’s just that the time has not come yet, so I don’t care about overspending. When my second time comes, everything will be solved!

But in reality, there are not so many second times.

You are just deceiving yourself. After falling into the trap, you have to find an excuse to tell yourself that you are only staying here temporarily, unlike you.

I have to say that the mentality is quite good, but the corresponding result is more bad debts.
Many viewers in the live broadcast room have a deep understanding of this:
"The last time Brother Song mentioned online loans, I wanted to say this: Don't fall into the trap! People must be content! Otherwise, the consequences will be hard to bear! Don't ask me why I know this, because I am a person who has fallen into the trap."

"I can tell you from my own experience. My wife and I started a business together and earned over a hundred dollars. We lived a carefree life. Later, the company went bankrupt, but we couldn't accept the downgrade in consumption. We also wanted to make a comeback. But to be honest, I have already written a suicide note and there is nothing I can leave her. I hope she finds a good family."

"I got into this game because I was playing games to level up my combat power. I was always unwilling to lose to others, and I was always unwilling to lose to my guild. I went from level 128 to level 648, and then to the noble V level overflow. Well, my combat power was actually okay later, but my life was ruined."

"Pre-consumption is really a big pit and a big trap! Once you fall into it, you can't get out! And you don't even know it! All this is ultimately for those who are unwilling to be satisfied to pay the bill! You can get it for a while, but don't forget, you still have most of your life ahead of you!"

(End of this chapter)