Rejecting 996, the capital of the whole world is broken

Chapter 39 Life’s tolerance for error is actually very high
“Brother Song, although I admire you a lot recently, this time, you really disappoint me!”

"All he wants is a hug! Why can't you satisfy that? Why do you say things like that!"

"This is a matter of perspective and height. I think Song Wen probably has never had this kind of experience, so he doesn't understand at all and can't empathize at all. After all, he is just an Internet cafe expert."

"You guys are jumping to conclusions too early, aren't you? If Brother Song didn't care, why would he listen to that kid? You're just blindly following the trend of not believing in love once a celebrity breaks up!"

In the live broadcast, Song Wen used a pen to press against the boy's chest, and the boy's tears stopped on his face.
He didn't expect it to be so embarrassing in the end.
But at this moment, he wasn't so devastated, he just looked confused.

The cameraman next to him had followed Song Wen for so many days and had experienced so many things. For the first time, he had the urge to blame Song Wen.

He felt that Song Wen's action was too hurtful!

Especially for a teenager who has just become an adult and is experiencing his first baptism!

"Come, let me hug you!"

The cameraman stretched out his arm like a messenger of justice, trying to redeem Song Wen.

But just as he finished speaking, Song Wen also spoke.

"You said you were going to be finished, but how many times have you actually been finished?"

“When I was in elementary school, I forgot to bring my red scarf and felt like I was doomed.”

“My grades dropped in middle school, and I felt like I was doomed.”

"When I was in high school, I didn't get into the key class and I felt like I was doomed."

"Even one day your mother asked you to thaw the frozen meat in advance, and you forgot. When your mother came back, you felt that you were doomed."

"So now, are you done?"

"You are still sitting here, feeling like you are doomed."

"Do you think you're ridiculous?"

Song Wen's words were like the sound of bells ringing in the big boy's heart, and every word struck his heart.

He had experienced all these so-called final moments! He had even experienced far more than these!

Every time I felt like my life was over, like the sky was falling, and sometimes I even felt like I didn’t want to live anymore!

But at this moment, he is still fine.

None of those so-called failures were real failures, and none of them even really affected his life.

Many, many things don’t seem to be as great as we imagined!
Maybe you can't defeat them, but failure doesn't seem to hurt you at all, and you may even forget about it quickly.

The older boy fell into deep thought. He felt as if he had experienced an epiphany.

He just discovered that life has such a high tolerance for mistakes!

It seems that those moments when I was about to be doomed were all self-imposed thoughts, and in the end not only did it not end, but looking back on it, it wasn’t even worth caring about!

Looking at myself now, it’s as if I’m back to my childhood, back to the day when I forgot to help my mother thaw the meat and was terrified.

Is it funny? Now that I am an adult, I am still crying. It is indeed a bit funny!
Similarly, Song Wen's words were also impacting the hearts of every viewer in the live broadcast room.

They have to go through far more bad times than the older boys.
The first time I was rejected in an interview, I felt like I was doomed. The first time I broke up, I felt like I was doomed. The first time I had no money in my pocket, I felt like I was doomed.

Even the first time I lost my job, I felt like I was going to die.

But now?

Aren’t you still living a good life, eating and drinking as usual? All those problems have been solved or disappeared with time.

I even feel that compared to the problem I’m facing now, the things I encountered in the past are nothing!
Thinking about the state of life and death before, it was really ridiculous! The cameraman was also examining himself. The last time he felt that he was going to die was the first day he met Song Wen.

He felt that filming Song Wen, an unmotivated internet cafe celebrity, would not gain him attention or recognition.

My colleagues will all be doing better and better, but I am done for! Who will think of me when there are good projects in the future?

At one point I almost gave up on myself, and the next day I wanted to break the contract and find another job.

And now, not only is he not done, he has even become an inseparable part of the explosively popular No. 10 live broadcast room!

If he asked to leave now, the production team would probably have to pay him more to stay.

So no one can predict the future for sure, so why should you think that you are doomed right now?

Thinking about it now, it seems that Song Wen was not wrong when he said that the big boy burst into tears because of such a small matter!

He is not unkind, but is telling the big boy from a different perspective that what you need is not the comfort of others, but to stand up on your own.

Of course, from Song Wen's perspective, it might be "It's no big deal. If you don't want to die, just live."

The older boy lowered his arms, knowing that he no longer needed a hug.

Although I feel a lot more relieved, the problems I face are still there, and I haven't reached the point where I can truly overcome them yet.

He looked up at Song Wen, still a little depressed.

"Brother, you are right. I am making a big deal out of nothing. But there are two concepts: experiencing something and having experienced it."

"The college entrance examination is approaching, and I have to continue studying. I still have to face these things, and I still have to unconsciously consider the consequences of failure."

Song Wen smiled faintly and put the pen into the older boy's hand.

"There is no difference in concepts, and there is no real failure in this world."

"Although the college entrance examination is important, it is not everything in life. How many so-called failures live better than those who succeed?"

“Don’t let your life be defined by success or failure.”

"It's very comfortable to rest at home on a rainy day and watch a drama you like."

"Feed a stray cat, and it will come over and rub against you. It will cure any mood."

“After a tiring day on my way home, I post something interesting on social media, which is also a way to comfort myself for being busy.”

“The charm of life is not in getting what you want, but in the unexpected.”

"If you get a multiple-choice question wrong on an exam, it won't kill you. You may be grateful for it in the future."

"Okay, brother, you're a grown man now, stop crying all the time."

After saying that, Song Wen stood up and left.

The older boy was still immersed in those words. With his age and experience, he couldn't fully understand them, but he understood that life should not be defined.

He realized that failure was not that terrible. On the contrary, success did not seem that difficult either.

Because success is not what people define it to be.

As for the end, haha, of course it’s not the end!

Life has a high tolerance for mistakes. The essence of life is experience, not self-consumption.

He didn't know whether he would be grateful for the wrong questions in the future. Now, he smiled calmly, tightly grasped the carbon pen in his hand, and said crisply: "Brother! Thank you!"

(End of this chapter)