Rejecting 996, the capital of the whole world is broken

Chapter 53 There is a banner called "For your own good"

It is very common for Song Wen to be rude to others.
Regardless of identity, status, or occasion, he always does whatever he wants to do.

Some viewers even gave him the nickname Song Duidui.
But Song Wen's criticism of others was not offensive, and even the person involved did not feel disgusted, but just felt speechless.
Because his criticisms were all just right and logical.

Just like this time,

Whether the cameraman is speaking from the perspective of a person who has experienced it, from the perspective of a friend, or from any perspective, he is always sincere and considerate.

But it was indeed as Song Wen said, what did this have to do with him?
The money is theirs, and so is their future. Even if they regret it later, it is their own regret.
What does it have to do with you?

Although this statement is really choking, it seems to be true.

Even the audience in the live broadcast room didn't know how to respond.
The countless “.” represent their current status.

"This..." The cameraman frowned and said, "You can't say that."

"You spending your money has nothing to do with me, but isn't this also for your own good?"

"There's an old saying that goes, 'Listen to others' advice and you'll have a good meal. And don't you think I'm right?'"

To be honest, the cameraman was a little sad at this moment.
There is a kind of sadness that I want to turn my heart to the bright moon, but the bright moon shines on the ditch.
I had good intentions, but he not only didn't accept them, he also fought back.
This Song Wen is really born to be a rebel!
The audience in the live broadcast room also felt that Song Wen's response was inappropriate.

The cameraman is not just a person, he is a representative, because we are doing this for your own good!
Seeing that you are doing something wrong and not considering the consequences, I advise you. Is that wrong? What does it have to do with you?
I'm telling you this not for your own good, I'm telling you this because I think you deserve it. Look, do we talk to other people? Do we go and see?

Facing the cameraman's lost and slightly sad look, Song Wen sighed.

"Don't look at me like that. I'm not denying your character, I just don't buy it."

As soon as the words fell, the angry cameraman immediately hit back: "What do you mean? Are you saying I tricked you?!"

Song Wen smiled bitterly and shook his head:
"From your perspective, you must feel that you are wronged and wronged, and even feel that you have been wronged."

"But from my perspective, it's a completely different feeling and understanding."

"I believe you have stood in my position before, more than once, more than ten times or a hundred times."

After hearing Song Wen's words, the cameraman was less sad and angry, but more confused and full of questions.

"What angle are you talking about? I've stood there before. I've never spent so much money on a car! Besides, I wouldn't buy one even if I had!"

Song Wen shook his head again. "It has nothing to do with buying a car. I am saying this from the perspective of [it's for your own good]."

"For your own good, you won't tell me that no one has ever confided in you under this pretext, right?"

"When you were a child, did your parents ever ask you to do something against your will, telling you it was for your own good?"

“After you started working, did your leader tell you that it was for your own good when you felt oppressed or unfair?”

"When you were in a relationship, did your partner ever say something that hurt your self-esteem, and then tell you that it was for your own good?"

"Have your buddies and friends ever patted your shoulders and told you that this is all for your own good when your ideas contradict yours?"

"Let's not talk about whether they are really doing this for your own good, but I want to ask you, do you think it's good?" "When you do things that go against your own ideas and follow their guidance, do you really think it's good?"

"So, come to think of it, what does your so-called doing this for my own good have to do with me?"

"I do what I want to do, not what you want me to do."

"Whether you are disappointed or have any other emotions, that is your problem. As for me, I followed my heart. I think it is good. It doesn't matter whether you think it is good or not."

"clear?"

After Song Wen's speech, the cameraman fell into a long-lost silence.

Scenes from the past once again came to my mind.

Yes, that’s right. There was a time when the phrase I hated the most was “I’m doing this for your own good”!
Because of this sentence, I have walked many roads that I didn't want to walk, and lost many of my own preferences and interests.

At one point, I even felt suffocated by this sentence!

For the person who said this, it is just a casual sentence, but this one sentence may completely change your life.

No matter whether the ending is good or bad, what is certain is that it is not what you really want.

The audience in the live broadcast room also came to their senses and were deeply hurt by these words.

"Haha, for your own good, my parents have been using this sentence to accompany me for more than 20 years. Now my work, my life, and even my partner are not what I want! They are all what they want!"

"I can relate to this. Two years ago, I had a promotion opportunity, but my boss asked me to give it up, saying it was for my own good. Giving up now is not giving up, but for a bigger goal. As a result, two years later, I am still standing still!"

"My wife always says this, and she calls it love! Everything is for my own good, and everything I do is wrong! But she never thought that I am actually not a good person right now!"

"When I was a child, I hated the phrase 'for your own good'. But now that I'm a parent, I keep saying 'for your own good' to my children. I'm getting more and more twisted. If it weren't for Song Wen, I would have become the kind of parent that my children hate."

"Don't advise others to do good without knowing their own experience! Indeed, what qualifications do we have to control what Brother Song does? Why should Brother Song do things according to our ideas? Isn't this just imposing our own feelings on Brother Song! This is really unfair! I'm sorry Brother Song, I've come to my senses!"

"Yeah, why should we care about Brother Song under the pretext of doing it for your own good? Brother Song is able to follow his heart and pay for what he likes, which is the most amazing thing!"

"Song Ge is really living for himself, but we are always living for others! Living for my sake and yours! We even become that kind of people ourselves! This is what it means to be a CP in a subtle way!"

After a long time, the cameraman sighed.

He, like the audience in the live broadcast room, woke up from the dream of "I'm doing this for your own good".

I do this for your own good, so I can be above your thoughts.

I'm doing this for your own good, so I want to plan your life and make your hands and feet comfortable.

But I really don’t need these for my own good!
No one in this world knows you better than yourself.

Following your heart and pleasing yourself should be what your heart desires!
(End of this chapter)