Rejecting 996, the capital of the whole world is broken

Chapter 55: One person's battle is the most exciting
"What's wrong with being disappointed? It's normal, right?"

When Song Wen said this, his expression and state definitely did not show that he was competing.

But I feel puzzled and puzzled.

It was like hearing something incredible.

"ah?."

The cameraman is in the same state and expression.
He felt that Song Wen was the incredible person.

Not to mention that the audience in the live broadcast room is the key to whether Song Wen can win the show.
Just talk about disappointment!
How come it is normal?

"This... isn't quite normal." The cameraman tried his best to cover up for Song Wen.
Unexpectedly, Song Wen didn't even take this step.

"Why is it abnormal? Who hasn't been disappointed? Haven't you?"

"Besides, didn't I just say that I do things because I want to do them, not because someone wants me to do them."

"So even if someone is disappointed, what does it have to do with me?"

"What do you want me to say? I said we are not familiar with each other, why are you disappointed?"

"Even if they are acquaintances, so what? It's the same thing as saying I'm doing this for your own good, it's just a further extension."

"Because I'm afraid that others will be disappointed in me, I have to do things according to their ideas. If I can't do it, I have to apologize guiltily. What kind of perverse logic is this?"

At this point, the driver, who had been silent for a long time, said at the right time: "Hiss~ Mr. Song is right!"

The cameraman also suddenly reacted as if he had just woken up from a dream.

Isn’t this an extension of “I’m doing this for your own good”, or to a certain extent, there would be no disappointment without this premise.

The reason we are disappointed in someone is because we have too high expectations of him or her.

But why should this person follow your wishes?
Even if they didn't do what you wanted, they still apologize to you out of guilt? That really doesn't make sense!

And Song Wengang has already said, "Whether you are disappointed or have any other emotions, that is your problem. As for me, I followed my heart and I think it is good. It doesn't matter whether you think it is good or not."

Isn't this just bringing the problem back to the beginning?

Although they are different things, the attitude is actually the same throughout.

After all, it is you who are creating problems and anxiety for yourself!
Being open-minded and following one's heart is the easiest and the hardest thing.
Most of the viewers in the live broadcast room had the same idea as the cameraman.
Everyone woke up again.
Indeed, Song Wen never promised anything, so how could there be any disappointment?
To put it bluntly, we are just competing with the big guy.

The protagonist Song Wen has become the weapon we hope to use to fight back!

This is not fair at all!

"Oh my god! Brother Song is really amazing! I feel so open-minded now! Why do you care so much about whether others are disappointed or not? Others are disappointed because they have something in mind for you!"

"Yes! My boss is disappointed in me because I didn't create the value he wanted! My parents are disappointed in me because I didn't live the way they wanted! And I still feel guilty about this, why?!"

"Isn't this just imposing your own ideas on others and then getting the results you want from them? To put it bluntly, disappointment is almost the same as exploitation!"

"That's right! As for me, not only was I used against my will, but I also felt extremely guilty for not doing what I wanted and even fell into internal friction. I completely lost myself because of it! Brother Song has used his own example to wake me up! Thank you, Brother Song!"

at the same time,

In the Dayanger incident, the group of college entrance examination candidates who had the strongest sense of participation, the most positive and enthusiastic emotions, finally realized it!

The moment Song Wen signed the contract to buy the car, they were collectively disappointed at first, and then they seemed to suddenly understand something.

Until this moment, they finally realized it!
Teacher Song taught them a lesson.
The process of this lesson is a bit cruel, but what you learn can be applied throughout your life.

This lesson is called disappointment!

"Thank you, Teacher Song, for teaching us this lesson! This is something you can't learn from textbooks, but it is the most important thing to me!" "I understand Teacher Song. The fear of disappointing others has always been the biggest burden I have been carrying! Now, I feel relieved!"

"Teacher Song, I will definitely go all out for my goal! Even if I fail to achieve it in the end, I will smile with relief, because I am no longer afraid of the result! I have worked hard for my goal, and it is enough that I have no regrets!"

For this group, the psychological pressure they feel at this stage is much greater than the pressure from schoolwork and grades.

These big boys and girls are fighting alone, but they carry the burden of many people on their shoulders.

What they really fear is not the table, the pen, or the ideal door that they cannot squeeze into.

But after the battle failed, they were unable to face those who had placed high hopes on them, and they didn't know how to explain themselves.

Under this kind of pressure, their already exhausted bodies were pushed to the breaking point.

How many soldiers became depressed after losing this battle?

How many soldiers gave up on themselves after losing this battle.

There are even many people who have poor stress resistance.
After all, they are largely disappointed because of that "disappointment".

Slogans always say that you are not fighting alone, but in reality, you are the only one who can go to the real battlefield.

now,

Because of what Song Wen said and did, they understood and woke up.

You should live your own life and decide how to fight your own battle.

If you win, tell yourself you did a great job!
If you lose, accept it calmly and either start over or respect this mistake. Maybe you will be grateful for that wrong question in the near future.

All in all, there was no real defeat in this battle!

So-called failure is nothing more than other people's opinions.

And we don’t need to care so much about what others think, because we have to walk our own path!

While thanking Teacher Song for this lesson,

They also apologized to Song Wen.

No matter what his motivation was, he had indeed imposed his own ideas on Song Wen.

It was them who wanted to slap him in the face, and Song Wen didn't even know such a person existed.

Now that I think about it, it was ridiculous that they once asked Teacher Song to use his own money to do things according to their ideas.

That guy, no, that clown, is even more ridiculous!

A few minutes ago, the cameraman hoped that Song Wen would comfort the audience who supported him through the live broadcast.

Or at least give everyone a reasonable explanation.

But now, the cameraman doesn’t think so, and no one in the live broadcast room has any opinion about Song Wen.

The most intense group has also quietly left the scene.

Continue to prepare for the war.

Only this time they greeted me with a smile,

A person's battle sounds lonely and helpless.
But in fact, this is the most enjoyable thing.

(End of this chapter)