Coquettish Rebirth

If it was said that Jia Hongjian was not ill, then Li Yan's attempt to inquire about his illness just now might not have aroused too much disgust from others.But now that Jia Hongjian actually admitted that he has congenital heart disease, then Jia Hongjian suddenly became a weak person, and Li Yan became a person who provokes the sadness of the weak, who does not open which pot to carry which pot , There are even brainless people who exposed the scars of the good people who invited everyone to dinner!

At this moment, Zhou Ruihan really couldn't stand it anymore!At that time, the iceberg beauty frowned coldly and looked at him in disgust, she couldn't figure it out, why didn't she see that Li Yan was so bad before?Jia Hongjian is a patient no matter what, and she is also Zhou Ruihan's old classmate, even if she and him have no ambiguity, but are pure friends, then it can't be said that way!How could this Li Yan just think about it before speaking?

Lin Yue who was next to her was even more upset!She had been so interested in snatching Jia Hongjian from Zhou Ruihan before, but after knowing that Jia Hongjian could not bear children for the time being, she was a little hesitant—from another perspective, this girl Er, it was not thorough enough to worship the gold family. I guess they still wanted to find a golden turtle husband, and then how the golden turtle husband would treat her well, and then the two of them lived like gods, and finally had a full house of children and grandchildren.But even if she is a little hesitant now, is this Li Yan qualified to make sarcastic remarks?Anyway, Jia Hongjian invited everyone to dinner today. If Jia Hongjian said that he was unhappy, if he didn't treat him, you Li Yan would pay for it?

So at that time, Lin Yue gave Li Yan a blank look, and said directly without saving face: "Li Yan, you are not authentic. Why did I listen to you so happily just now? Do you have a grudge against Jia Hongjian? May I treat you to dinner today! Hung-chien, don’t listen to him! Medicine is so advanced now, maybe it will be cured in the United States in five or six years, right?”

Being squeezed by Lin Yue, Li Yan was really at a loss at that time. He suddenly found that everyone seemed to be on Jia Hongjian's side at this time, even Zhou Ruihan didn't speak for him at this time, no one left for him. Face, what can he do in such a situation?He still wants to chase after Zhou Ruihan!And he also knew that what he said didn't seem right, and now Lin Yue exposed it face to face.Immediately, I lost face!

Just like Li Yan is like an ant on a hot pan.When he was speechless with his mouth open, Jia Hongjian interjected at the right time. "Hehe, Lin Yue shouldn't say that either. Li Yan is right. I do have this problem. It's nothing. You can't say that I'm sick. You can't even let others say it? Be careful. That's fine. Look at me, isn't it good to see it now? It's really okay! Li Yan, don't take it too seriously. It's okay, everyone is young, don't mess it up I still remember grudges like the old men, I forgot what you said just now..."

Tut tut!Jia Hongjian was truly generous. After he finished speaking, no one in the car gave him a thumbs up!For example, Lin Yue and the others really felt that Jia Hongjian was generous at this moment!I really feel that Jia Hongjian is a man!If they were women, they would really be angry and hate Li Yan!Ordinary people would be quite generous if they didn't get angry when they encountered such gloating, but as for Jia Hongjian, he was helping Li Yan to speak up!Is this something ordinary people can do?So, this Jia Hongjian is too generous, isn't he!There is such a particularly tolerant attitude of a man!So when girls see this kind of broad-minded man, they must give a thumbs up!After all, girls know that they are small-minded, sometimes they get into emotional conflicts because of hormones or something, and they also want to save face and don't want to take the initiative to apologize. Doesn't this require a man to be tolerant and let it go?So seeing this kind of man, they all know that this kind of personality is good!

Lin Yue and the others gave a thumbs up, and Zhou Ruihan, a beautiful woman from Bingshan, also nodded and praised Jia Hongjian.She could also tell that Jia Hongjian had a big heart!Don't care about others like others, but also take the initiative to help others explain, what is this?This is kindness!What are the benefits of kindness?The advantage of kindness is that people think that he is a good person and that he is reliable!It's hard to say, if a man talks about how stupid his ex-girlfriend is when facing another woman, after a sarcasm, although it seems to be a good foil to the girl in front of him, but if the girl in front of him is not stupid, think about it— ——If I and this man break up in the future, will this man talk about himself like that outside!

Similarly, even if you are not talking about your ex-girlfriend, but talking about various people and things you encounter in your daily life, if you are being mean, teasing, all kinds of irony and sarcasm at this time, it will be full of jokes and make people laugh, but It always makes people feel that this person is a bit unsuitable to get along with-if this buddy is in someone else's circle later, will he tell jokes about them now?But if someone like Jia Hongjian finds a reason for those who ridicule him, that is pure kindness!This kind of kind person knows how to save face even for those who ridicule him. If he chats with another group of people in the future and hears jokes about the group of people in the car from others, then Jia Hongjian will help The Circus is looking for a reason, isn't it?Such a person is not worthy of trust, so who is worthy of trust?

Not to mention Zhou Ruihan, even Li Yan, who was the culprit, thanked Jia Hongjian at this moment!What does Li Yan say, he is a 21-year-old young man, he has not seen much of the world, and has not had much contact with the society, so he is completely indifferent to the mind and skills of the society. He didn't understand, he didn't know that Jia Hongjian was selling him and asking him to help count the money - in fact, Jia Hongjian deliberately said that he was actually sick, so as to damage Li Yan's image, Then, if you say good things for Li Yan, then let Jia Hongjian look super kind!

Therefore, Jia Hongjian at this time was the process of the sophisticated uncle molesting the little Zhengtai.And Li Yan, the young lady, was so fooled that she didn't even know that she had been sold or used, and she kept thanking Jia Hongjian for saving face in her heart!

At this time, Jia Hongjian was smiling all over his face, looking absolutely kind, with no trace of evil at all!That is inevitable.One must know that Jia Hongjian was intriguing in the office in his previous life, so how rare is that?Do you know how he discovered that the rules of being a "good person" handed down by his ancestors are absolutely correct?That's because he's been through office wars!That's because he discovered that when competing for positions, it's like playing chess to "grab the black and give way"!

What is "grab the black and give way first"?Play Chinese chess, red goes first, black goes second!So when the old men play chess, the etiquette is to let the other party take the red piece, while he takes the black piece, and sometimes even when two people become polite, they really want to grab the black piece. !This is exactly the same as the Chinese rushing to pay after the wine table!this custom.When Jia Hongjian was young.I think it's too ridiculous!But later, when he grew up, he realized that Nima is really the truth in the world!Definitely follow suit!

Why do you say that?To put it simply-everyone wants to compete for the position of leader of a certain project team, and Jia Hongjian has almost the same qualifications as everyone else, so anyone can get it.Nobody can get in.Then Jia Hongjian wanted to get this position in this competition.Even if you can't get it.You can't be hated by those who are on stage!Otherwise, there will be endless small shoes!What should he do?After n times of experience, he found that he should give up the "red chess" to others and let others go first!So he always goes to a competitor a.Then he told the other party that he, Jia Hongjian, had no intention of competing for the position of team leader, but instead he was very optimistic about Little A.So he is going to be very neutral on the outside, but in fact he supports a in private!

Now that A has people's support, it is clear that it is going to compete for the team leader. These other competitors will definitely stumble or try their best to fight for the limelight, right?And in this office war, most of the time, the result of everyone competing for a position is not to try to make themselves stand out, but to make it impossible for competitors to qualify for promotion!After all, how can it be so simple to make yourself stand out in a short period of time?It's very simple to prevent others from going up - as long as there is a black history!

This kind of black history may be in state-owned enterprises or government agencies, and it may be about various issues of relationship between men and women or various possible corruption issues. Rumors, or simply black history, black material!With these black history and black materials, it is very easy to force a person to give up!So it is very possible that Jia Hongjian supported a, but it didn't take long for a to be punished by others!Because at this time, with Jia Hongjian's support, A's strength must be greatly increased-even if everyone's strength is about the same at the beginning, but little A is equivalent to having two forces of him and Jia Hongjian!

Then after a's side collapsed, Jia Hongjian went to support b and pushed b out to "attract bees and butterflies".The so-called early rafters rotted first, and not long after, this b was also taken down... and then c!Although both a and b have been killed, it doesn't mean they will let c go!So at the end of this matter, there may be a fight between abcde and everyone, making each other unable to get promoted, and in the end Jia Hongjian supported all of us alone, and then everyone felt that it is better to let others go up It is better to wear small shoes for yourself than for Jia Hongjian. In the end, Jia Hongjian, who is gentle, courteous and thrifty, ascended to the throne.

Of course, could such a process really be so perfect?Of course not necessarily, maybe little a or little b or little c will be on stage, but so what?Jia Hongjian withdrew from the competition and told them that he would support them on stage.Therefore, other competitors may have small shoes in the future, but Jia Hongjian does not, and Jia Hongjian may even become the second most profitable person, and be treated as half of the direct line by the biggest winner!Therefore, Jia Hongjian basically only wins but never loses. At most, there is only the difference between big wins and small wins!

And this is the secret behind the kindness, courtesy and thrift in Chinese culture—don’t forget, the land of China has been one of the most densely populated places since ancient times, and the competition between people here is very fierce , much more intense than other places!So in such a place, a set of "strategies" summed up over thousands of years may be just a silly and meaningless etiquette?Ignorant children look at the humility of the adults, and feel that the adults are too pedantic, why they give up the position they want to others. In fact, the children don't know that when the adults give in to each other, they are actually letting each other die first!If the child follows his own ideas and actively proposes that he wants to go to that position, then he will be the first to die when he goes there! (To be continued..)