Coquettish Rebirth

After eating that meal, even two days later, Ye Jing was still a little distracted.The reason why she was absent-minded was very simple, because what Jia Hongjian said at that meal had shocked her too much, and this shock made her have to think about it!

To be honest, before hearing what Jia Hongjian said, although she, Ye Jing, knew that there was a big gap between herself and Jia Hongjian, she didn't feel that the gap was that big—even though Jia Hongjian showed all kinds of things. Excellent, with new ideas constantly appearing, but she, Ye Jing, is not bad, right?Didn't she, Ye Jing, also help Jia Hongjian pull Holmes Company in the United States?She, Ye Jing, is also a well-known Internet upstart in the United States, and she is also a particularly aura of entrepreneurial beauty!So, in her opinion, although Jia Hongjian was better than her, she didn't say that she was too good to be too exaggerated.As for the two sides, they are still in the same family, and she can also worship Jia Hongjian a little, and then try her best to be her good wife, helping him solve problems and so on.To put it a little exaggeratedly, it's not that Ye Jing never thought of becoming Jia Hongjian's right-hand man.Then he can become a character like the Condor Heroes. At that time, Jia Hongjian will be responsible for coming up with new ideas, and Ye Jing can help manage it.It won't embarrass Jia Hongjian at all, and it can develop the company very well. How wonderful is that?Even if Jia Hongjian has some new ideas, he can discuss them with her!She can help out with ideas!

However, such thoughts, such expectations for the future, were suddenly shattered by what Jia Hongjian said at that meal!That's right, after hearing Jia Hongjian's words.She suddenly realized that she was far behind Jia Hongjian!Especially on the maturity of thought!Most people say that girls are sensible earlier than boys. This kind of sensibleness generally refers to the maturity of thought.Girls of the same age do generally think more than boys. When many boys don’t know what to study for and are playing around, girls can study hard and get better in the future. This is a sign of a difference in ideological maturity.

But now she found that compared with Jia Hongjian, her mental maturity was like that of a child!She has always supported Jia Hongjian to do good deeds, and she thinks that doing good deeds is actually quite good.Especially in such a society that is slowly becoming indifferent.When everyone is slowly turning to money.When everyone else is doing it for money.We are dedicated to doing good deeds, how special is that?How idealistic, how can people feel the nobility of Jia Hongjian's soul, isn't it?

But when I heard Su Ping say that some people might hate them.Ye Jing was really surprised.She didn't expect that she would be hated if she was a good person!How embarrassing!She really didn't think of it at all.She is just like a young man in her early 20s.I think it is better to do this, and then I will do it, without thinking about the consequences and results!Next.After Jia Hongjian himself admitted that he was a fool, she really had the impulse to interject and tell Jia Hongjian not to call himself a fool!

She is most disgusted by others saying she is a fool, except for Jia Hongjian!She felt that what everyone did was obviously a good thing, and it was obviously good for more people. Why did those people hate them, and why were they said to have done stupid things!And if it is really like what Jia Hongjian described, if they are good people, they will definitely be hated by all parties. She really thought impulsively that if this is the result of being a good person, then she will not do it in the future. okay?Whoever likes to do it will do it, okay?Is it okay for her eldest lady to stop serving?She did something good for everyone, but she was called a fool by others, said she was asking for trouble, and then she was hated by the people she helped.

However, Jia Hongjian's next explanation of "I am a fool" and his outlook on life really shocked Ye Jing!From Ye Jing's point of view, how could there be such people who consider themselves fools in the world?Aren't ordinary people in the world most afraid of being called a fool by others?Even when they think they are fools, absolutely 99.9% of people will warn themselves not to do this again next time, and everyone will think about being smarter!

But what did Jia Hongjian show?He doesn't care what others say at all, even if others say he is a fool, he doesn't care.Even when he thinks that he is indeed a fool and that he is causing trouble, he can continue to do so without changing his ways!And the reason why he did it was because he would feel bad if he didn't do it!Isn't this kind of reaction completely different from other sentient beings, this kind of viewpoint completely different from sentient beings?

It can be said that Jia Hongjian's words, although he may not have paid attention to them, really made Ye Jing open the door to a new world, and made her feel that life should be like this!Let her know that this is how life should be lived!Indeed, just like what Jia Hongjian said, life is your own, as long as you are happy, why do you care what others say?Others say it's stupid, so what if it's really stupid?As long as I am happy doing it!As long as I'm comfortable after I do it!What's the use of what other people say?Do we have to follow other people's point of view, and then deliberately live in various discomforts?Wouldn't that mean living life according to various other people's settings?

And if you think about it a little deeper, are those people's thoughts and opinions really their own thoughts and opinions?Are they so assimilated by others?Could it be that they also did so-called stupid things back then, and then they were judged as stupid things by others, and then they didn't want to be judged like this, and finally became the others that others wanted them to be?In the end, they became someone else in turn, and then influenced more people to follow the same path as them?

Thinking about it this way, it's actually quite scary!Why horror?Because if you think about it this way, you will find that many ordinary people think that they have control over their own lifestyle, but in fact they don't have it at all!They are just adjusting their standards according to what others say, when in fact their standards are the standards described by others!They think they are living their own lives, but in fact they are only living for others.Even living for some unfamiliar people who don't know at all!As a result, they themselves thought that they were quite independent. Isn't this funny and scary?

There is a very important question in philosophy, that is, "Where will I go?" This question has always been regarded as the ultimate question of philosophy, and it has been regarded as a question of where a person will go after death.And this question is also appropriate in terms of what Jia Hongjian said, and in terms of how to go about life?What kind of path will you take in your life, and what kind of path will you take? Do you really want to do it yourself, or is it influenced by others?Is it because some irrelevant people who don't care about themselves at all inadvertently say that it's better to go this way.Then the three became tigers.Is my life going on like this?If so, what's the point of living like this?Where will it lead?

It can be said that what Jia Hongjian said at dinner opened the door to a new world for Ye Jing.After entering this door.She suddenly felt that the world was extremely new.She seemed to have suddenly found the ultimate truth of her own world.She suddenly felt that she looked at the whole world differently!Even though she is still very impulsive, she often does not consider the consequences, but now she is under Jia Hongjian's inspiration.Knowing what is the path she should take, knowing that she should choose the path she wants, not the path others want her to take!And she herself felt that after she knew what she wanted and what was most important to her in life, she found that other unimportant things could actually be ignored.

For example, taking her and Jia Hongjian as an example, what does she think is the most important thing?It was she who liked Jia Hongjian, it was Jia Hongjian who liked her!It's the two of them who like each other!So the most important thing is that two people can be together and love each other forever, right?So as long as this goal is achieved, what others say, whether others think the two of them are happy or not, it doesn't matter!As long as the two of them feel happy, that's fine, right?Even if it is assumed that at home, she is in charge of the outside world and he is in charge of the inside, even if it is said that she is working hard outside to make money while he is at home taking care of the children.As long as two people think it's okay, don't care what other people say?Others say that the heroine is not good, so is it really bad?

What's more, if Jia's family goes bankrupt and Jia Hongjian has nothing, so what?As long as Jia Hongjian remains the same, as long as Jia Hongjian is still the same Jia Hongjian, so what if she supports him?If others say that it is wrong to be inappropriate, let others say it!As long as I feel that we are together so much, I am at ease, and my conscience is not disturbed at all, that is enough!This is the direction I want to go, this is what my nature wants, no matter what others say?Others said that she, Ye Jing, was only happy when she was with Li Ka-shing's son. Could it be that she really dumped Jia Hongjian to find Li Ka-shing's son?Could it be that he didn't feel anything at all, but he still wanted to be with Li Jiacheng's son for the approval of others?right?

After the enlightening feeling of entering the gate of the new world, what shocked Ye Jing was that she didn't expect Jia Hongjian to be so mature!Even though she was older than Jia Hongjian, why did he think of so many things that she couldn't think of?When did he think about these things?Why was he already ready to wipe his ass when she was impulsively wanting to do good things and didn't expect the consequences at all?Why is Jia Hongjian's mind so miraculous and full of so many unknown things?Why does he not only seem to know everything, but also act like a particularly wise, clever, and... old mentor who can guide Ye Jing at various stages?

To be honest, after this incident, Jia Hongjian's image in Ye Jing's heart has changed.At the earliest time, Jia Hongjian's impression in Ye Jing's heart was that of a crazy playmate.They could slap Wang Hongcheng in the face at the military airport on the outskirts of the capital together. Ye Jing enjoyed this kind of thing very much. She felt that Jia Hongjian was very suitable for her, and the two of them could play together!But then when Jia Hongjian and the others started their business, Ye Jing felt the endless new ideas in Jia Hongjian's mind, and these new ideas were so profitable!So all of a sudden Jia Hongjian's impression in her heart became a little genius who needed to be looked up to!She was someone who was smarter and stronger than herself, and she adored Jia Hongjian a little bit.

But now, Jia Hongjian gave her the feeling that she was no longer smart, and even a bit like a father gave her daughter-not only caring, but also so experienced and wise!He can silently give her advice on every aspect, he can silently and secretly make all the backup measures for her, before she decides to do something, help her prepare all the ways to deal with the consequences!Such a Jia Hongjian... made her feel that she couldn't stand side by side anymore, she could only snuggle in his arms like a kitten, like a daughter, and obediently listen to him! (To be continued..)