Coquettish Rebirth

To be honest, although the appearance of this group of newcomers has been "updated" with a "new version", the appearance is good-looking, but their temperament, words and deeds are still a little behind!So, the next three weeks of classes are basically teaching them how to improve their temperament and learn various elegant manners!Jia Hongjian wanted to sow them out as seeds!That is to exist as a teaching company, to make others envy them and want to be them!Only in this way can the group of people inside Tietong be conquered from the bottom of their hearts, and they will want to learn from Jia Hongjian's set of things!

Two or three weeks passed quickly.As for this group of newcomers, at the beginning, not 100% of them took the initiative to accept this kind of demeanor.The girls accepted it obediently, after all, for girls, they can't refuse to become more beautiful and noble!Especially when they see that some modification of makeup and appearance can greatly increase their beauty level, especially when they know that there are no ugly women in the world, only lazy women!Especially when they knew that Japanese women used makeup as a courtesy one by one, and they would never go out without makeup!Almost all the beauty-loving natures of these girls were aroused!Who doesn't want to look more beautiful!After all, this is biological instinct!In nature, some females and some males rely on their beautiful appearance to attract the attention of the opposite sex!

As for the boys, there are some criticisms.In this day and age.The men are more classic and pure men!What is a more classical pure man?That is to say, I don't think men should have any deliberate grooming!You know, this is not the 21st century, not 2012!In 2012, it was normal for some male customers in the beauty shop to come to trim their eyebrows, shave their faces, make a mask to remove blackheads and so on!But in this day and age, most men just ask for a face shave and a haircut!

Why is this so?Because China was still an era of hard work, the requirements for men were relatively "masculine"!In this regard, some foreign scholars have researched and believed that the era of peace has lasted for a long time, and there is no need for men to feel the "violent" feeling of preparing to go to war, and the entire society's requirements for men will gradually soften.In the 90s, relatively speaking, it was not long after the war era—the battle between the two mountains in the 80s and so on.That lasted from 84 to 90!How long has China been out of war until now?It can be said that the United States and NATO participated in two wars in the 90s: the Gulf War and the Yugoslav War.That is basically the war that China and the former Soviet Union ended 90 years ago is the closest war!Even the Falklands sea battle was something that happened in the early 80s, and it didn't last long!But in the 21st century, China is gradually moving away from war.Then it caused young people to slowly become mothers.That's also understandable.

In this day and age.Most men just clean themselves up and forget about it. How can there be so many beauty programs!Don't say anything else, young people of this age.When I was growing up, I never used facial cleanser. I used to wash my face with soap at most when I was a child. How can men in their 20s and 30s accept facial cleanser, which is used by women to wash their faces?You must know that in this era, there is no facial cleanser for men!The ad for facial cleanser is full of girls washing their faces!Then the facial cleanser is milk at every turn. How can a man not be a bitch after using this kind of thing?Therefore, in this era, there is nothing to sell facial masks on the market at all. Women who want to buy facial masks are not necessarily easy to buy, and men still make facial masks to remove blackheads?Isn't that the sissy index exploded?

Although Lao Mao didn’t ask the boys to make facial masks, but to teach them about body shape, it easily reminded them of walking with a T-step, and they must be subconsciously a little bit unhappy ah!However, what Lao Mao wants to teach them is really not a T-step or something like that. It is not to make them sissy, but to make them more handsome and masculine!

What this old mao is going to hand over to them, it can be said that the knowledge points are full of all aspects - from the tone of voice when speaking, to the tone of voice and gestures, to the movements when walking and how Erlang's legs curl up after sitting down!All of these are regulated!Of course, this kind of norm is not to make everyone look the same, but to let everyone not make strange moves, but to make their actions look handsome and decent!

How to be generous and decent?First of all, when a man is sitting, the placement of his legs is also particular.Girls generally pay attention to keeping their legs together and placing them at a slant, so that when they wear skirts, they will not leak their small underwear to others.Such an action looks good on a woman, but a man can't do it. Even when a man is sitting, it's best not to put his legs together!If the man puts his legs together, even if he doesn't tilt them, he looks too like the kind of rushing when the hairy son-in-law comes to the door and tries hard to show that he is a good baby. No more, I immediately feel weak and off the charts, okay?

So how should a man sit?Look at the whole temperament of the individual!If some people are naturally cautious, it is obviously inappropriate for him to show Jia Hongjian's absolute pressure. Here he speaks cautiously, but the sitting posture over there is the same as Jia Hongjian's. Full of oppressive force, as if the person sitting in front of him doesn't agree, it's too disobedient, okay?So, for those who are relatively cautious, it is necessary to design a sitting posture for them that does not look so weak, and then fits their personality better—for example, keep the width of a fist between the two knees, so that Sitting, it won't be too girly, and then it can show their more "rigid" character.

At the same time, everyone's speaking style will also be changed.Because most of these people are studying in universities in Shanghai, even if they are foreigners, they will often be infected by the talking style in Shanghai after four years, and it is easier to speak There are modal particles.If there are too many words like this, it will easily appear a bit girly, so from this point of view, they also need to be changed!Even Lao Mao followed Jia Hongjian's request and tried his best to ask everyone to speak like a real leader—to scold when something is wrong, but to encourage what is right, and The tone should be as confident as possible, and try to give confidence to the team members!

To be honest, Jia Hongjian was not aware of the tone of voice before, but after he realized it later, after paying attention and researching, he really found that the leaders with different tone of voice brought the team members a completely different feeling. It’s different—it’s about two or three years after Jia Hongjian graduated. At that time, he was still working as a small grassroots leader in a multinational company.To be honest, I have been in the position for about three years, but there is no bright future.

Later, once Jia Hongjian met with an old classmate, the old classmate took him to play online.Then when Jia Hongjian was watching movies on the Internet, his old classmates started playing a game called "Legend". It happened that there was a city siege event that night.What matters is not how well his old classmates perform, but a big brother who is more than ten meters behind Jia Hongjian and the others.This big brother drives about 27, so he must be a member of the society.And this big brother is obviously playing legend, Jia Hongjian was still watching a movie, but when he went to the bathroom, he heard that big brother's voice was thick and powerful, and he could hear it clearly from the entire Internet—"Okay! Go up and chop Let him go! Mage, come on! The soldiers did a good job...the Taoist priest let the baby go!" Literally, what the elder brother said may be nothing, but combined with the elder brother's tone and tone, Jia Hongjian, an outsider, felt a little His blood was boiling -- the elder brother's voice was very thick and confident, and he tried his best to focus on praise and mobilize the staff below.

After going to the toilet, Jia Hongjian listened curiously to the president's voice in the earphones of his old classmate - their president was full of foul words, scolding this person and scolding that person at one time, as if everyone did it. It's not right, it seems that everyone is stupid x!To be honest, after this kind of comparison, even if Jia Hongjian didn't play online games, he immediately felt that he would rather be a subordinate of a big brother who had never met on the Internet, okay?Following the president of the old classmate association, I feel that the president is very resentful. It feels like the union has encountered great difficulties. It feels very hard!But the big brother who has never met before, his voice is sonorous and powerful, he is full of encouragement, and he is also very confident. Even if the team members make mistakes, he criticizes what should be criticized, but after a few criticisms, the main thing is to encourage!In this way, it makes people feel energetic to work with him!

It can be said that at this time, Jia Hongjian discovered that being a leader is really an art, which needs to be studied carefully!As a leader, sometimes a word or a small action may affect the morale and appearance of the entire team. The so-called soldiers are raging, and there will be a raging nest!This is to say that being the boss has an impact on the entire group!It can be said that it was after this time that Jia Hongjian began to think about what kind of leader he would like to have to lead him if he were a member of the team?Then he began to demand himself with such a goal little by little, and only then did he become who he is today!It can be said that thinking about what kind of leader is a good leader is the beginning of changing minds and the journey of black belly and knowledge!As for him, now he wants to work with Lao Mao to quickly tell these newcomers his experience, the experience he summed up after suffering a lot...

Sure enough, it is better to come early than coincidentally. These newcomers are so lucky that they can get almost half of Jia Hongjian's experience in one fell swoop... (To be continued...)