Coquettish Rebirth

"How do you answer him? You don't like him, so what should you do if you don't refuse?" Jia Hongjian said as it should be, "Sometimes you should just stop and suffer from it. If the other party thinks that you are interested in him, keep pestering him." If you don't let go, do you feel uncomfortable?"

But the little girl was twitching, and she was twisting and rubbing against Jia Hongjian's body like an earthworm, "Dad~ But I'm sorry..." Tsk tsk, this little girl even refuses others. I feel embarrassed and can't hold back this face.But speaking of it, time flies so fast. When Jia Hongjian was reborn, this little girl was only 4 years old, and she could only memorize "Outside the long pavilion, beside the ancient road, a group of egrets go up to the blue sky", it turned out that it has only been a few years. , After a blink of an eye time passed, this little girl's slim Xiaohe just showed her sharp corners. Not to mention, someone has already started chasing her, and someone has given her a love letter!How unreasonable!This little girl said back then that she would be Jia Hongjian's bride!

"Lou Li, how old are you, you must never fall in love when you are in school, you know, you are under a lot of pressure to study now, you don't have any technical secondary school, you still have to study hard..." Su Ping interjected at the side at this time Dao, this tone is really similar to parents in society who don't let their children fall in love early.But Jia Hongjian took it a lot, even if he is really the godfather of the girl in his arms now, he really has the feeling and self-consciousness of being a father, but he also knows that this kind of thing can't be stopped at all !Do you really think that if parents say no, the teacher says no, then it won’t happen?Really, when Jia Hongjian and the others went to school in the previous life, although they didn't go to school so early, they started to have puppy love in junior high school.Even if they don't talk in pairs.But who doesn't have a crush in heart?

In 2012, thirteen or fourteen-year-old junior high school students were even pregnant—for example, once Jia Hongjian got off work early on Friday, and when he got home, his parents were not there, so he was at the Shacheng Snack at the gate of the community. I ate some steamed dumplings to rest my stomach, and it turned out that three junior high school students, two women and one man, were eating noodles and chatting in the snack bar.Then Jia Hongjian listened to the three children chatting over there who was a virgin and who was not, who had sex with whom for the first time and who hadn't, and then one of them asked the other if she was still a virgin, The woman was embarrassed and kept silent, and then Jia Hongjian couldn't stop listening, and even the clerk couldn't stop listening, okay?

yes.Parents want their children to study well.Because in the absence of better contacts and foundation at home, the only way to get a rise is to let the children study - although there are various kinds of bosses after graduating from primary school, but do you dare to make a statistic, Count all the people in the country who do not go to school after finishing elementary school, how many will become bosses in 10 or 20 years?Just seeing the dragon among men get married and start a business.Didn't you see the body of a loser lying on the ground?So in the eyes of many parents.That prevents children from being affected by the so-called puppy love.Hurry up and study hard, rely on a good school, and become a returnee in the future.Then go back to China and find a good job in a foreign company. After working for a few years with experience and contacts, you can go out and do it alone. This is the best life path!

But, this world is materialistic, it doesn’t mean that if parents want their children not to fall in love early, they won’t fall in love early!It's not that the child thinks that if he tells the child, the child will be obedient!When Jia Hongjian and his group were young, their parents couldn't stop their puppy love. He even had classmates who were forced by their parents and teachers to fall in love secretly. After ten years of dating, they finally got married!Aren't they also very happy?After all, this kind of thing can't be stopped at all!This was actually the case when Jia Hongjian and the others were young, and it is even more so in the 21st century!So if you don’t look at what you can do, what else can you do?Just like in the United States, it is said that few girls are good after they go to high school. In that case, can you expect your daughter not to fall in love?I can only ask my daughter not to get pregnant by accident, and not to be a drug addict!

Of course, Jia Hongjian didn’t mean to leave it alone when he found it unstoppable. This kind of thing was put in the era of Dayu thousands of years ago. When Dayu’s father saw the flood coming, he thought about all kinds of obstacles. Did it get blocked?In the end, it was Dayu's turn to play. Facing the unstoppable flood, did Dayu choose to give up?Who said that if you don't block, you just give up?Of course, under the idea of ​​blocking it is better to avoid it, how to guide this kind of thing, Jia Hongjian has no time to come up with a perfect plan for parents all over the country that can be directly applied-otherwise these parents will It's too easy. I don't know how to understand and influence my children, but I just want to reap the results directly?Besides, Jia Hongjian had never been a parent in his previous life, so he naturally couldn't have a mature plan.In this life, when it comes to Luo Lizi or his own children in the future, Jia Hongjian can only think too much, and then use different methods to induce and guide the children according to their temper.

While thinking about the various puberty problems that his daughter may have in the future, Jia Hongjian smiled and said to his daughter: "Baby, this is easy. Aren't you embarrassed to refuse directly? Then Dad will teach you How about a way to decline? How about you, just tell him that you don’t believe in love at first sight, and you think it’s fake. You believe more in the kind of love and blandness after the two parties get to know each other completely. But it is in a warm mode, so you can't agree to him now, but you and him can start as ordinary friends first, and start trying to understand each other..."

After hearing the method given by Jia Hongjian, the little loli's eyes lit up all of a sudden. "Thank you Dad! But Dad, what if he really wants to be my friend? I mean, what if he comes over after a while and asks if it's suitable?" Then the little guy suddenly asked curiously. "Haha, little fool, you can still say that at that time, just say that you don't know him very well. If the other party really keeps pestering you, you can say that you have discovered yourself during this time." I like someone else. When he asks who you are, you just say it’s not from your school, you like it very much, and just make up one. You didn’t explicitly reject him like this. It’s his business that he wants to chase you, but Whether we promise or not is our business, right?"

Jia Hongjian taught his children in this way, which is actually a lot of painstaking efforts - too many parents in the 21st century are concerned about making money and disregarding their children's education, or pampering their children too much at home, so that the children have not experienced setbacks at all , As a result, boys and girls confessed to being rejected, some people wanted to jump off the building, and some people really jumped!Although Jia Hongjian cared about the lives of other children, he also cared more about little Lolita's psychology - don't turn around and be psychologically shadowed by such a suicide by a classmate!So I really can't refuse this matter too firmly, I really coax it slowly, cheat as much as I can, this is also good for everyone.

When Jia Hongjian said this, little Lolita nodded sensiblely, and secretly kept her godfather's teachings in her heart. "But Dad, didn't you and Mom teach me not to lie? Is this a lie?" Hey, this little loli has really grown up!They actually asked each and every one of them!But could Jia Hongjian be stumped by such a thing?He smiled and touched his daughter's smooth and tender face, "Baby, you are growing up now, so dad can tell you the rules in the adult world? That is in the adult world, there is no There are such obvious rules in the children's world. It's not that there is a distinction between lying and non-lying when you speak... For example, when the police uncle is interrogating the bad guys, the police uncle can directly show all the evidence in front of the bad guys without lying Is it?"

Just after Jia Hongjian finished speaking, Little Lolita nodded subconsciously after thinking about it, "This way the bad guys won't be able to deny it!" I didn’t do my homework at night, and then you are a teacher. You just said that you saw me playing outside last night, so it must be because I played too much so I didn’t do my homework. Although this is the truth, I know it You know what, then I can say that I don't go to play much, and I have to do my homework when I go back, but our house has a power outage, or something, anyway, I just can't do my homework.

As a teacher, you don't know if my house had a power outage last night, what should you do?You can't contact my parents, what should I do?So what the teacher and the police uncle should do is like this. They pretended not to know what evidence they had, and asked me why I didn't do my homework, and then I said that my house had a power outage yesterday.Then you asked when the power went out, and I said the power went out very early.Then you asked me, did I play outside last night, I said no, I said I was at home all the time.Then you throw out your evidence at this time, so will the lie be exposed?So you pretended not to know that you had evidence before, is this a lie?It's not a lie, but it's not telling the truth, is it?So you see, can the police tell the truth to the bad guys?So if the PLA uncle is captured by the enemy, the enemy will ask the PLA uncle how you plan to attack us next.If this uncle of the People's Liberation Army knows, but can he say it?Surely not?So is the PLA uncle right to lie? "

Little Lolita thought of this, and nodded suspiciously. "So, you see, in the world of adults, there are no such strict rules. Many times, you have to choose different statements according to different situations. Maybe the PLA uncle can't lie to his superiors, but he must lie to his enemies. So what? How to distinguish such a boundary? When you grow up, you can gradually grasp it. Now that you are still young, you often can’t grasp it well, so just obey your parents obediently. Do you understand?” Jia Hongjian smiled After finishing speaking, seeing the little Lolita nod obediently, he smiled in relief.But when he was laughing, he saw Ye Jing on one side with a lonely expression like those old girls who have never been married at other people's weddings—lonely and a little envious and jealous... Hiss!Oops, I forgot to greet Ye Jing! (To be continued..)