Coquettish Rebirth

"Do you like to take it slow? That's not easy to fall in love... Hehe, you know, sometimes we women trust the first impression more. Sometimes, chasing when you are not familiar is better than familiar It will be easier to catch up after you get it..." Aniston probably felt that this was the end of business, and it was time for small talk.What she said at this time did not contain any perfunctory element, nor did it mean to talk in general.Jia Hongjian had told her so much about his experience before, how heartless must she be now to chat with Jia Hongjian in general?So in fact, she was very caring at that moment!What I said to Jia Hongjian was very heartfelt!

In fact, her answer was not what Jia Hongjian wanted.What Jia Hongjian wanted was for her to ask about world outlook, life and values.However, just like the Prophet of Islam, that is, Muhammad said, if the mountains do not come to us, then we will go to the mountains.So Jia Hongjian smiled slightly at this time, looking a little lonely, "But ah, the problem is that even if there is a feeling when we first met, can this feeling last? I think love is a kind of love. As for things, if the most important of the three views do not match, then it is easy not to be together. Maybe two people have different political views, but when two people have different views on the world, it is very difficult. It’s easy to feel strange about each other. For example, if I think the world is positive, but you always think the world is negative, then it’s likely that both of you will feel uncomfortable when you’re together. But the difference in worldview is actually okay. I think if the difference is Views on love. Those days were really hard to live on, and even if you got married, it would probably be a tragedy..."

He mentioned this reason, and Aniston was immediately curious.As a girl, how could she think so deeply about Jia Hongjian?How could it be possible to think that to fall in love is to first look at each other's different views?It even seems to her that no one in the world is like this except Jia Hongjian!However, after all, the Jia Hongjian in front of me was the one who gave her a super valuable gift just now like a teacher and a friend, and then told her all the experience of being a boss without reservation. How could it be perfunctory?How could she underestimate Jia Hongjian?As the son of the richest family in the Chinese world, and as a man who owns Sherlock Holmes, which used to be the number one Internet stock in the United States, how could this young Jia Hongjian be a "weird"?I didn't find Jia Hongjian strange in the previous relationship!So Aniston was really curious at this time, and she was very concerned about Jia Hongjian's kind of curiosity! "Difference in views on love? Tragedy? How do you say that?"

"Well... the concept of love. To put it simply, it is the basic concept of love between two people. For example, if we fall in love, for example, you are the kind who requires absolute loyalty to love, not just You can’t cheat physically. You can’t even cheat spiritually. Then if it’s the seven-year itch or ten years later, the love between two people fades away. Then a third person appears, and I feel a little ambiguous about her again Now, you may not be able to bear it very much..." Jia Hongjian said here.Watching Aniston begin to nod, as if she indicated she understood.However, this is actually just the beginning, and Jia Hongjian continued, "Then the next step is the key. After our relationship has encountered a crisis, what do you think? Do you feel that your principles have been violated?" Then I feel that I would rather not have the impure things, or would I work hard for the continuation of the relationship between us? This is actually a kind of love view..."

Hearing Jia Hongjian's additional words at this time, Aniston froze for a moment.She originally thought that what Jia Hongjian said about love was loyalty or not, but who would have thought that what Jia Hongjian was actually talking about was the problem behind loyalty!She has never been aware of this problem!She has never thought about it!So for a while, she began to think about the question Jia Hongjian had mentioned.While she was thinking, Jia Hongjian continued to strike while the iron was hot: "For example, at this time, if I express regret and I want to continue our relationship, can you tolerate it? This is actually It’s about the concept of love. It’s not just men cheating, but women cheating too. If you cheat and then sincerely express your willingness to save the relationship, then I feel that love is impure and that love has deteriorated. Just let it go, or would you like to stay with you?"

After talking about this, Jia Hongjian paused, and then began to really implant—"Actually, to put it bluntly, it is what is the core concept of love and marriage. In the words of our Chinese, Is it just to know the hand of the child and grow old together? In English, it means to hold your hand and grow old with you, even if you encounter various problems. Although this is the vow in the marriage vows, but in the United States 50% of people can’t do this. Of course, although the divorce rate in China is not as high as that in the United States, it has been slowly rising over the years... So with this in mind, I slowly came up with it One method is to combine some management methods with some HR skills, that is, how human resources personnel view applicants. In this way, the potential reactions of some people can be tested..."

"Really?" Aniston was suddenly surprised.In her eyes, Jia Hongjian is a very deep thinker. At such a young age, Jia Hongjian can research long-tail theories and viral marketing. Is this not deep enough?And such a powerful person has actually developed a method in love, and can quickly identify whether a person is suitable for him or not. Who can't be curious about this?

Then, Jia Hongjian came up with a test plan.As for the test plan, of course he made it up temporarily when he came to the United States, but it is not a random make-up, it can only be regarded as a temporary combination of things that have been used before.Why do you say that?Because Jia Hongjian, who was an older youth in his previous life, was sometimes forced by his parents to go on a blind date. Of course, a smart person like Jia Hongjian would not simply go on a blind date. It's just that it's pleasing to the eye and not pleasing to the eye, but it will really set up all kinds of "traps"!

For example, when going on a blind date, it is obvious that the introducer introduces the other party's situation, such as what company does a certain position, and the approximate annual salary.As an introducer, that may beautify the other party.As for Jia Hongjian, after meeting the other party, he would say, "I heard from the introducer that you are very good at xx company? Have you become the mainstay of the company?" The mainstay, of course, is not the question. But generally it is to exaggerate the role of the other party in the company!Why do you deliberately ask a situation that the matchmaker didn't mention?It's very simple, just watch the other party's reaction!

You must know that exaggerating the authority or ability of the other party in the company is difficult to prove!It's not that she was forced to raise her position and other things that are easy to prove. Do the colleagues in the company rely on her to do things? If they don't join this company, how can they prove it?Then after exaggerating the role of the other party or something, it depends on the other party's reaction!If the other party says no modestly, but his face is obviously dark, it is obviously a little vain.If the other party dismisses her and says that this is all nonsense from the introducer, it is obvious that such a person does not know how to get along with others-the introducer praised her well, it was for her own good, and the result She thinks that he is bragging for her own good, isn't that kind of a donkey's liver and lungs?Isn't this disregarding other people's motives and feelings for the sake of showing individuality?

Basically, it can be said that for an old fox like Jia Hongjian, in an interview...ah no, during the blind date process, it would be easy to detect the basic character of the other party without any hesitation!How can he say that he has worked hard in Fortune 500 companies for more than ten years, how can he be involved in office politics all day long, how can he be a person who is good at thinking about people!Why couldn't he detect the character of the other party?Just like "a layman watches the excitement, an insider watches the doorway", if you don't talk about many things, it is "silence is golden", once you talk, it is easy to be discovered by others!This is the same principle as when the police uncle was interrogating!The more you talk, the easier it is for people to find out!

The test question proposed by Jia Hongjian has nothing to do with Aniston and Pete, so he can make it up temporarily.He made up such a thing, in fact, to show Jia Hongjian's ability to detect a person's basic personality through various details!Jia Hongjian even made up an extra case at this time - he said that his relative's little sister was a bit interested in the man and wanted to have a deeper relationship with him, but knowing that Jia Hongjian was a good guy, he asked Jia Hongjian to come out. test questions.Then, after Jia Hongjian's interview, he found that this man seemed to have a tendency to be violent, so he did not recommend that this woman have a deep relationship with that man.But the woman didn't believe it, and it turned out that she had only been married for a little over a year, and she had already started to suffer from domestic violence...

Upon hearing this, Aniston was shocked. She was really fooled by Jia Hongjian.Then, she looked at Jia Hongjian thoughtfully... (To be continued...)