Coquettish Rebirth

If this allows Jia Hongjian to accompany his father and uncle to shoot scenes like the Little House, he will definitely ask why he chose this building and not that one. Will the father and uncle tell him to choose a different building for filming? reason?Can outsiders learn these things?Absolutely can't learn!How many years of experience in filming are condensed in it!Is this something a newcomer who doesn't understand anything can figure it out casually?When the time comes to design martial arts moves, if Jia Hongjian is a small house, he will definitely come to help him think of ideas. ◎, Although as an inexperienced young man, the idea he came up with is ridiculous and unrealistic, that’s for sure, but the problem is that we gave the wrong answer, wouldn’t my father tell us what the correct answer should be, and then tell us Why are we wrong? "Why were we wrong?" This is really an experience that many people can't buy with money!As far as movies are concerned, a person who has no experience in martial arts, assuming he is a new director who graduated from a film academy in China, even if he seizes an opportunity to make a movie, what the hell can he do? Is it enough to invest in big-budget action movies?If people want to know that they have problems in scene selection and action design, how many detours will they have to take, and how much money will be spent by investors before they can come up with a set of effective methods?

It can be said that the experience in these aspects is completely the experience of crossing the river by feeling the stones.Where there are pits in the river, and where people can't go when the water is flowing, these are all summed up by the seniors who have suffered a lot and burned a lot of money. You must teach a lot of tuition and you must suffer a lot.And newcomers have no investors who are willing to believe it. If investors are deceived again, it will be more difficult to get investment in the future, so it will be difficult for newcomers to grow into masters!But now that the Little House is in the position, you can directly know why your thoughts are wrong.He can directly absorb the experience of his father, who is so powerful and has suffered a lifetime, as long as he can apply what he has learned, then his little house is directly equivalent to crossing such a river!When his peers were still on the other side of the river and were just starting to figure out how to cross the river, and even slipped and fell and got soaked, his little house started directly on the side of the river. How much ahead of others?How big of an advantage is this?Therefore, if Jia Hongjian had this opportunity, he would desperately seize it!Even being laughed at by dad and uncle.That doesn't matter, what are you afraid of if you lose face?It's better to lose face in front of people close to you than in front of outsiders, and the key is to learn a lot of knowledge worth real money!

From a certain point of view, this really made Jia Hongjian feel emotional—maybe it was because the little house was Cheng Long's son that he couldn't seize the opportunity at all?As for Jia Hongjian, although his family conditions were good since he was a child, his parents went to Hong Kong to live in a pigeon coop to sell clothes in his previous life, so his family is not considered rich.Therefore, Jia Hongjian, who knew early on that opportunities were rare, was better at seizing them.At least he is better at seizing opportunities than people like Little House who can live a good life without seizing them!For Little House, when he had no opportunity to seize opportunities since he was a child, his parents have arranged for him, and no one will grab what belongs to him. In this way, if he and Jia Hongjian have the same Opportunity, how could he earn more than Jia Hongjian?So from a certain point of view, maybe many second generations really have defects in this regard?In fact, in terms of seizing opportunities.Maybe those second generations are completely inferior to their outstanding peers among the common people in terms of seizing opportunities?

Thinking of this, Jia Hongjian reminded himself to think about cultivating his children's ability to seize opportunities in the future.Don't let your children be like Little Houses in the future, unable to support them.On the other hand, he also tried his best to tell the little house the truth about how to seize the opportunity. "Think about it, your dad has been getting old for a few years, and he hasn't been able to make movies for a few years. Take advantage of these few years to learn everything he knows, and take advantage of his ability to act. In the last few years, you can convince him , our own family pays, you will be the director, he will be the leading role, and pave the way for you. In this way, you can make a few films in the future. Although you can’t be an actor or a singer, it’s not bad to be a good director. In this way, your parents will be very pleased after all? They will always feel that you can't help you? And you are so close to the water and have learned all kinds of experiences from your father. When the time comes, you will be absolutely outstanding among your peers. , when the time comes, you may be the only one in the country or even the whole world who can make Cheng Long-style movies. Although the starring role is not you, you are also very awesome! In this way, you will even take over your father Class? After all, your dad is not only an actor, but also a director and movie boss!"

Jia Hongjian's persuasion really moved Little House's heart!This little house itself is a bit cowardly, but he really wants to prove something, otherwise why would he insist on entering the entertainment industry despite the objections of his parents?In fact, he doesn't need to enter the entertainment circle at all, his father told him a long time ago, with the qualifications of the small house, he can't be popular!And his mother also tried to persuade him not to enter the entertainment industry.So Little House itself can use his father's relationship and money to start a company. If he has the ability and interest, he can run it by himself. Anyway, his father has a lot of money, so he doesn't have to be afraid of losing money!Spend money to buy experience in business!If he is not interested in running the business, then find a few professional managers to help him manage it, and he spends the money he earns every year, no one knows, right?He is even interested in music. If it doesn’t sound good, he starts a music company and becomes his own boss. Then he doesn’t have to enter the entertainment circle, and he can make money by relying on his father’s relationship. Can't get up?

From such a point of view, this little house still wants to make progress, and still wants to prove that he can be supported and that he is worthy to be Cheng Long's son, that's why he wants to enter the entertainment industry!As for Jia Hongjian's current behavior, it means that he was given a way to gain a firm foothold in the showbiz circle, and now he has become a supportive state, which can prove himself up!He is no longer a wimp who can't do anything, and he is no longer "how did Cheng Long give birth to such a son"!To be honest, before this little house was all kinds of Alexanders, and also all kinds of confusion. If Jia Hongjian hadn't pointed out a clear way for him, he always felt that there was no way out, and he always felt that he was nothing and felt that he was useless. It becomes "habitual helplessness" in psychology.

What is habitual helplessness?For example, put a puppy in a big cage, and put a button on the side of the cage. If the puppy accidentally touches the button, and food suddenly appears in front of him, he will Knowing that pressing a button has something to do with appearing to eat.And if you accidentally touch the button, the entire cage will be energized. Although it is not fatal, the puppy will definitely suffer if you touch the button, so it will not touch the button.But if you put the button, you don’t care whether the puppy touches it or not, but just electrify the cage as you like, then the puppy will be very helpless. Those who are in pain, and those who are desperate will give up resistance in the end!

This desperate state of giving up resistance is called habitual helplessness.Putting it on a person means that the person has given up his efforts and despaired, and it means breaking the can!This little house has such a successful father, he wants to prove that he is worthy to be Cheng Long's son and enter the showbiz, but he can't do anything, how hurtful is this?Just like Jia Hongjian has heard of the most insidious way to punish a person, that is, instead of using a huge blow to punish a person all at once, but to repair a person with small setbacks every now and then in a slow-cooking way, Let such a person do nothing smoothly, and finally cause this person to start doubting his own ability, and start to feel that he is a waste. At this time, even if this person has ability, it will be useless!Because even if a person is capable, but starts to doubt himself, starts to shy away from doing anything, even enters habitual helplessness, starts to resign himself to fate, starts not to resist or fight, this person is really screwed up!

If this little house can’t do anything after a few years, then you will really feel that you are a waste, that you came to this world to be ridiculed by others. It's broken, it's not surprising that it turns into some kind of poisonous insect and ends up being neither human nor ghost!It can be said that his efforts to find the wrong direction turned out to be a tragedy in the end, which Jia Hongjian has already understood!In this matter, Jia Hongjian felt that Cheng Long was also responsible—this father was too extensive, and his son wanted to develop in the film and television industry. Even if the father knew that his son was not of this type, he would try his best to find a way Son find a way!If my son can't sing or act, let's see if I can make my son a director. If I can't be a director, let's see if I can make my son the owner of a film company!Move the tree, move the dead, move the living, the position is wrong, the performance is not good, let's change it to other aspects, there is always a person who can't do anything in the world?People in the industry in such a position as a director say that anyone can be a mess, isn't this small house can also be a mess in the future?As a result, the father knew how to find opportunities for his son to sing and act, and then he repeatedly turned over and caused his son to fail. In the end, he was quite angry, thinking that his son couldn't help him up...wouldn't this lead to tragedy?

Of course, Jia Hongjian also knew that it was useless to blame Cheng Long for this matter. Cheng Long was not a careful person in this regard!Cheng Long is usually all kinds of big and thick, although he is said to be a mask, but in fact he is quite thin inside, but he is not thin in everything!That is to say, he is relatively careful about movies, and he is a rough person when it comes to wives and children, brothers, and all kinds of buddies!And just like parents who don't know how to encourage their children, Cheng Long never thought about encouraging them, nor did he think about finding a suitable way for them.In his opinion, there may be roads all over the place, and he will support the child if he wants to take this road, but he never thought about whether the road chosen by the child is right! (To be continued..)