Coquettish Rebirth

So what to do?How can the little girl not be bullied by her parents?If you think about it, this seems to be a difficult thing to do.Because no matter what, they are both parents and mothers. From a legal point of view, they are legal guardians. We are not, so how can we protect this little girl from being bullied by her guardian?Most people have nothing to do at such a time!Because our country does not have the same law as the United States to deprive guardianship!We in China do not have a guardianship intervention system for minors!What is the Guardianship Intervention System for Minors?That is to say, if the parents abuse the child, can the child be taken away from the parents, and then the government find foster parents for the child?This is not to say that adults who abuse children will not be punished. Punishment must be punished. One thing is one thing.But if the guardianship rights of the parents are not deprived, and the parents come out of prison later, who can guarantee that they will not continue to abuse the children, and how much damage will this cause to the children's hearts?

You must know that children are not as good as adults. Because children are small, not only their bodies are not well developed, but the nerves in their brains are also underdeveloped. Therefore, the harm to children at such a time is deep, and it is really possible to make children "abnormal". of!In the simplest terms, there is basically a consensus in the international child psychology community, that is, if you inflict abuse on a child aged 3-4, it is easy for the child to grow up to have schizophrenia!Isn't this ruining the life of other people's children?Adults have been abused and have psychological shadows. It will be better to see a psychiatrist, or adjust it by yourself, and live in another city and things will gradually improve.But children may develop mental illness after being abused in this way. Isn't this a problem that can be solved by seeing a psychiatrist?Even if the children study, work, get a job, or start a family in the future, they will be seriously affected, okay?

So in such a case, it is actually a system that intervenes in the guardianship of minors.That is very necessary and very necessary!Like the "Scraping" filmed by Liang Jiahui and Jiang Wenli in the early years, it actually tells such a story-a couple raised a child in the United States, and then the child felt uncomfortable, and the father performed scraping for the child.The practice of scraping is a traditional Chinese treatment, which uses special scraping utensils and corresponding techniques.Dip a certain medium, scrape and rub repeatedly on the body surface, so that the local skin will appear red miliary, or dark red bleeding points and other "sha" changes, so as to achieve the effect of promoting blood circulation and penetrating Sha.But such a trace of bleeding spots on the child is considered child abuse!Then the father was taken to court, and was even considered by the court as deliberately abusing the child. In the end, the father was deprived of custody!

If we have such a system in China now, then Jia Hongjian can actually find an opportunity to deprive Little Swallow's parents of custody.Then he found a family for Little Yanzi who was willing to adopt her, and then wouldn't it be all right?But it's really not right now!then what should we do?What else can I do?If you can't snatch the custody of Little Swallow's parents, then what you have to do... Of course, it's not to protect Little Swallow afterwards, but to treat both symptoms and root causes directly so that Little Swallow's parents don't dare to bully Little Swallow so eccentrically. finished?That's right, Jia Hongjian was ready to be tough!They are planning to find someone to take care of these parents. They bully them so that they will not dare to bully Little Swallow again in this life, otherwise they will be prepared to be killed!

Generally speaking, people of Jia Hongjian's level.As well as Jia Hongjian's own personality, he would not let him do such a thing.Too simple and rude!Then why is he still doing this?The reason is also very simple.Sometimes when dealing with peasants, you have to use this simple and rude method, which is not enough in a civilized way!It's not that Jia Hongjian looked down on farmers, but it's the experience he summed up after meeting all kinds of people after being well-informed!Farmers are not only simple, but also cunning!Be nice to them and a part of them will be touched.At the same time, some of them will think that you are so nice and soft, that you are a bully!It's people who are kind and bullied, and they can take advantage of it!But if they get tough and bully them and squeeze them like hooligans, they will be honest and dare not be a prick at all!This bullying attitude.Didn't Jia Hongjian have to be tough?

This kind of conclusion is really not what Jia Hongjian thought of!In the previous life, when Jia Hongjian and his family were renovating, Jia Hongjian kept an eye on the progress.At the beginning, when the people from the decoration company he hired came to decorate, he stayed at home all day watching the progress.Then, every day, I treat these decorators as friends—they decorate us on a hot day, and the working environment is really dusty and hot, and people’s hearts are full of meat. Jia Hongjian Can you be nice to them?So when it was almost dinner time, Jia Hongjian took the initiative to help out with a box lunch, and every day he took the initiative to buy water, drinks and cigarettes for the decoration workers!From some people's point of view, do you think Jia Hongjian is stupid? Why is he being so nice to him?In fact, Jia Hongjian also wanted to spend money to let the workers do their best!After all, Jia Hongjian wants to live in this house by himself, not a decoration worker!The home decoration workers are decorating "other people's homes"!It is impossible for people to put as much effort into decorating their own home as they do!To put it bluntly, a little bit of laziness will cause Jia Hongjian trouble in the future!

If nothing else, let's talk about laying wooden floors.If the workers who lay the floor don't care about it and just try to be quick, and beat the floor boards with wooden hammers desperately, then the gap between each floor will be too small in the end, and it will definitely warp when it expands and contracts in the future. The floor will definitely There will be drums!These things may not be visible when you first make them, but what should you do when they come out after a while?Who will be disgusted by then?Isn't Jia Hongjian disgusting?Even if the time comes to find the owner of the shop and let him come over to rework, but the money has been collected, and it will be considered kind-hearted to be able to come after ten days and a half months, okay?If the character of the black spot is almost inferior, people will procrastinate all day long!If you dare to make trouble with others, you are not afraid of trouble, so you directly invite a group of people to come out and surround them, and fight if you have the ability!If Jia Hongjian smashes someone's store, call the police!So in Jia Hongjian's view, this kind of thing must please people!It's like saying don't offend the waiter when you eat in a restaurant!If you offend the waiter, it's possible for someone to spit into the dish!This picture offended the waiter by talking happily for a while, who would be disgusted later?

But the problem is that Jia Hongjian treated the decoration workers well, but in the end, his kindness was treated like a donkey's liver and lungs!He is so kind to these people, and those people are so fucking fooling around!At that time, Jia Hongjian saw it and fucked it!Apart from anything else, he found some people from "vigorous social groups" he knew in the society. Jia Hongjian invited such a group of people to have a good meal, and then gave each person a few packs of good cigarettes. As for the friends in the group, they went directly to the decoration company, and then "negotiated" with them to let the decoration workers come back to rework, and it was free!After these decoration workers came back to rework, they were as honest as sheep!A friend of one of the "vigorous social groups" has been helping Jia Hongjian to watch the scene, and he doesn't show good face to the decoration workers at all!What mineral water drink?Buy what you want to drink yourself!After buying it, come back and rush back the delayed time!Have a meal?Buy it yourself and spend your own money!Bring me another copy, I have no money, understand!You guys are in for a treat!As a result, these workers really reworked honestly and seriously!

What do you think Jia Hongjian will say about this?He thought that everyone would have shame, and if he treated others well, he would treat us with shame, but the result was not good!Unless someone is a fucking toast and does not eat fine wine, unless someone is shameless!Only when someone smiles at him and talks to him, he treats you as a bully, kicks him and scolds him, can he seriously work for you!What do you think Jia Hongjian should do with such a person?Even if the farmers are rehabilitated, some urban people are like this!If you treat him well, he will think that you are a bully, and he just wants to take advantage of you!Only when you get upright and don't treat her as a human being, will he persuade you and be obedient to you!Not only some people in the society, but even young people in school actually do the same—for example, a college student who graduated from a normal school and went to school to become a teacher.

This student is still quite idealistic, thinking that if he becomes a teacher in the future, he must get along with the students and have a completely different teaching!But believe it or not, if you get along well with the students, the students will not take the teacher seriously?Because prestige is gone!Such a thing as prestige needs to distance itself!Just like a dad who hangs his face at home every day, it must be more deterrent to the child than a dad who smiles and plays with the child all day long!The former stares at the child, and the child may not dare to speak out, while the latter stares, the child may not take it seriously!So it was only after such a decoration that Jia Hongjian slowly figured out that being a leader should be a combination of kindness and power, and he really can't completely mingle with the people below!

Even if they can mingle, it can only be at the lower level, and if they are promoted to the middle level, then they must distance themselves!It's like a department manager takes the employees in the department out for a dinner party, eat at six or seven o'clock, and eat at ** o'clock, the manager must pay the bill and leave first, because the people under him will not dare to let go After making a fuss, I didn't even dare to let go of eating and laughing!This is a side effect of prestige, so leaving early is good for everyone.It was only after Jia Hongjian learned these things that he learned how to be kind and powerful, when to be ruthless, and who to be ruthless to!Management, it really requires different tricks for different people, there is no one trick that is popular all over the world! (To be continued..)