A healing writer? No, it's a depressing writer!

Chapter 53: Kill the ugly ones. I didn’t ask you to kill the ugly ones!

If a startup team wants to be successful, it generally needs five types of people:

The first type is the tiger that guards the mountain.

The second type is the far-sighted eagle.

The third type is the warlike wolf.

The fourth type is the agile leopard.

Obviously, the fat man does not belong to the above four types of people. He belongs to the fifth type besides these four types:

Loyal dog.

Of course, this dog does not mean that he is really a dog, but that his character is that of a natural dog licker.

Actually, do you want to ask whether the fat guy has any bad intentions?
No.

Not really.

Even if he saw a pretty girl on the street, he would just watch from a distance, because he knew that he was unlikely to be good enough for her, so his attitude towards girls was generally -

It can be viewed from a distance but not played with.

This leads to the fact that in the process of communication between men and women, he is often in a weaker position and has lower self-esteem.

If there are no girls who take the initiative to tease him, then it’s actually okay.

But once a girl approaches him and shows him a little kindness.
That fat guy will really treat him well without reservation and unconditionally!
In fact, Jiang Hai has known for a long time that Fatty has been chatting with Mu Tingting. Don’t you think Fatty knows that Mu Tingting is teasing him?
That's certainly not possible.

But often no one can wake up someone who is pretending to be asleep.

Even though he knew that he was just a pastime for Mu Tingting when she was bored, the fat man was still willing to do it.

There is a special term in psychology called "sunk cost fallacy", which means -

You clearly know that you are very unhappy in a relationship, and there are many things about your partner that make you dissatisfied. You have even tolerated your partner's bad temper for a long time and you are very annoyed and hate her. But when the time comes to leave her and say goodbye, you are unwilling and even reluctant.

Why does this happen?

That's because it's been so many years, and we've invested so much emotion, time, energy, and even money. If we break up now, won't we lose everything?

It is based on this psychology that in relationships——

Even if they no longer love each other, even if they know that they are hurting each other, even if both parties cannot see a future, even so, the abused party will still hold on to the other party tightly.

What do you want to say that Mu Tingting did to Yang Wei?
In fact, nothing was done.

It's nothing more than asking about each other's well-being, sharing life, and sending a couple of selfies to the fat guy from time to time:

"Which of these two photos do you think is better?"

The fat man replied: "The first one."

Then Mu Tingting immediately posted the first photo on her Moments, with the caption:

【He said this one looks good. 】

Frankly speaking, Jiang Hai thinks this method of flirting is very low-level, but it happens that a fat man who is an emotional novice.
Why do you just fall for this?
At the beginning of every month, Mu Tingting would come over very considerately to chat with Fatty, and then disappear quietly until the middle of the month.

As for why?
That's because by the middle of the month, the fat guy's living expenses are all gone.
The fat guy's family conditions are actually quite good. In terms of living expenses, he has 5,000 yuan a month. This economic condition should exceed that of 90% of college students in the country.

However, the fat man only spent one fifth of the five thousand yuan of living expenses on him every month.
The rest were used to buy gifts and prepare surprises for Mu Tingting.

The fat guy is a bit like the rich guy who gives gifts to female anchors on the Internet.

Whenever I have some money in my pocket, the female anchor would come over and say "good brother on the left, great brother on the right".

However, when the money in her pocket is used up and there is no point left, the female anchor's expression will change instantly:
"Who are you? It seems like we don't know each other very well."

Seeing the fat man's depressed look,

Jiang Hai walked up to him silently and put his hand on his shoulder:

"Listen to my advice, she is not suitable for you."

"Give up as soon as possible."

But the fat man still persisted:
"Don't say anything, Brother Hai. I have my own rhythm."

Chu Tianjiao couldn't bear to watch:
"Isn't she just a woman? The key is that she is not your girlfriend. Why do you have to be so obsessed with her?"

In fact, for a normal boy with good emotional intelligence, even if he doesn’t look very good, it’s really not that easy for him to have a relationship in school. A famous emotional lecturer once said a wise saying:

"Kill the ugly ones!"

That is to say, if you are determined to fall in love, don't worry about the other person's conditions or whether the other person is ugly.

Just rush and that’s it!
Licking a person is called a dog licker.

But if you lick 10,000 people, you can stand out from the world of lickers and become a living iron-blooded war wolf!

Frankly speaking, in order to improve Fatty's love level, Jiang Hai and Chu Tianjiao also suggested that Fatty use this "human sea tactics" and contact multiple girls on his phone at the same time.
You can't finish talking about one.

Then you talk to one hundred, one thousand, or even ten thousand people.
Then there will always be one success, right?

At first, Fatty was also enjoying this so-called "human wave tactic":
"Let me see what's going on."

However, after using seven or eight dating apps and meeting dozens of girls from his school or nearby university towns, the fat guy became more and more confused:

"Why do I feel like if I were to date them?"

"Why not just continue licking Mu Tingting?"

Jiang Hai snatched the fat man's phone and looked at the photos of the girls in his phone. He was speechless:

"I told you to kill the ugly ones, I didn't tell you to kill the ugly ones"

Frankly speaking, Mu Tingting is not particularly good-looking. She is just above the average appearance of college girls.

If the full score is 10, after makeup, it would probably be only 7 points.

But if you look at the girls that the fat guy swiped on his phone app——

Or, they are short and fat, 160cm tall and kg in weight.

Or, their height is acceptable, but their appearance and temperament are hard to describe, such as bow legs and buck teeth.
"Can't you just pick someone normal to talk to?"

"You're using dating apps, why can't you pick someone better looking to chat with?"

Facing Jiang Hai and Chu Tianjiao's questioning, the fat man looked at them with embarrassment:

"Because, I feel—"

"I'm not worthy of him"

People like Fatty are the typical type who have too little experience in love and haven't seen many beautiful girls. This is why he doesn't dare to talk to girls who are both good-looking and have good temperament.

In the eyes of Jiang Hai and Chu Tianjiao, Mu Tingting is actually quite ordinary.

But in the eyes of the fat man——

Mu Tingting is so beautiful, as beautiful as a fairy.

She is also the only top-quality woman in his circle of friends who is accessible and willing to pay attention to him!
Seeing the fat guy being treated like a dog, he lost his appetite and looked extremely depressed.

Chu Tianjiao was so disappointed that he couldn't make up for his shortcomings:

"Can't you try to get in touch with those truly high-quality girls?"

"Mu Tingting, you're really average."

"When you come into contact with those truly beautiful, outstanding girls with good looks and temperament, you will find that—"

"How stupid are you to be so depressed and depressed now, as if you are being controlled by someone else?"

Do you think I don't want to meet beautiful girls?

no!
"With my social circle, I go to class and play games in the dormitory all day long." The fat man looked helpless and distressed. "You said that with my social circle——"

"Where do you think I can find quality women?"

"I can't expect a pretty girl to fall from the sky and talk to me, right?"

The words fell,

I saw it outside the dormitory door.

A young girl wearing a brown school uniform, a pleated skirt and black tights, looked at the three people with a hint of curiosity:
"Excuse me, is this Jiang Hai's dormitory?"

(End of this chapter)