I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Chapter 165 Because I like you, I am willing to accept any stupid tricks
“What’s wrong with a monthly salary of 5,000?
Just not live anymore?

Are you not worthy of getting married?

He is only 24 years old!

How much do you think he can earn at this age?
Have you guys played Douyin too much and think that the average monthly income should be at least 100,000 yuan?
Bros,
Every time I face this kind of connection, I feel helpless.

Why do you feel helpless?

Because there is no problem in the relationship between the two people, and they have been dating for quite a while.
The two of them walked together for a long time, but because of practical problems and poverty, their relationship broke down.

So when you were with him, didn’t you know his monthly income?

If you value material conditions so much and you want to find someone who can make money, then you shouldn't start with others!

As for you on the public screen,

Worry less about other people's affairs.

When things are good, their monthly income is 10,000 or 20,000 yuan, and when things are bad, they can still earn 5,000 yuan.

Don't feel sorry for others, and be more considerate of yourself.

People always say that a poor couple has many sorrows.

I am really impressed too.

You can't deny the entire society just because you chose the wrong person.

First of all, you have to ask yourself why you thought you had chosen love.

But is that really love?

If you don't have the ability to judge people, and at the same time don't have the ability to live independently away from your original family, and you are a bit of a temper.

Then it is inevitable that you will not live a good life.

And you think in reverse.

Even if you didn't choose him at the beginning, but chose material things.

Are you sure you can live well?

I saw someone say on the public screen that those who lived well in the end were those who chose material things in the first place.

Some people also said that the best friends around me all lived happily in the end.

Think with your toes.

What kind of good person would make public his or her suffering and the grievances he or she has suffered in marriage?

When you see others living happily, is it possible that they are trying to fill their own inner emptiness by owning luxury cars and mansions?

only the guy drinking water knows it's cold or hot.

When young people, especially girls, are led astray by such concepts and ideas, you are walking into an abyss.

remember,

If you take material conditions as the only reference standard, you will have to pay it back with the rest of your life and body.
If you don't become a good wife and mother,

If you don't try to be an obedient housewife,
Why don't you give birth to a child for him?

Let me put it more simply.
You are married,

Three years later,

When you get home from get off work and see someone you don’t love, you’re so annoyed that you can’t eat, don’t want to go to bed, and don’t want to talk. Will you regret listening to your family too much?
Still married,
Three years later,
When you get home from get off work, you see that the person you risked your life to marry is really annoyed with you, only knows how to play games, and doesn't even bother to talk to you.
Look at the messy house, the noisy children, the unwashed dishes, and he doesn’t even want to go home. Will you regret not listening to your family?
Bros,
No matter what choice you make in life, there will be regrets.

Don't keep glorifying a path you never took.

Again.

If you are conflicted, you can't make a decision.

Then refer to the marriage formula.

If you have strong personal abilities, you can choose it yourself.

Because you have your own back.

Even if the result is bad, you have a self-protection.

But if you don’t have the personal ability, you can only cooperate with your family’s arrangements because you don’t have the right to choose.

After Lin Feng finished speaking, he ignored the public screen.

Directly start the next round of live broadcast.

no way,
This topic is too controversial.

It is a problem of the entire society.

It's not something he can explain clearly in just a few words.

It is even less likely that others will change their opinions because of one or two words from him.

Ding~
"Hello, Military Advisor!"

It's a boy.

Raymond Lam: "Hello buddy, have you encountered any emotional problems?"

"Military Advisor, I'm 26 and my girlfriend is 22. She lives in my hometown and I live in another city, but the two cities are not far from each other. The high-speed train only takes one hour."

Raymond Lam: "How did you meet? How long have you been together?"

"We were introduced by a friend. We have known each other for a month. I confessed my love to her last week. I invited her to my home and gave her gifts and flowers to express my love to her."

Raymond Lam: "It means we are in a relationship, right?"

"Correct!"

Raymond Lam: "Did you have any intimate relationship after the confession?"

"We just held hands and hugged each other, nothing else."

Lin Feng nodded: "Go on."

"Then the next day I invited her to my house again, and we chatted for a while. She took the initiative to tell me about her ex-boyfriend who she had been dating for two years and why they broke up.
Then she talked about her personality and she said it's not too late for you to regret now.

But I definitely didn’t say anything. I just said we could still talk.”

Lin Feng knocked on the blackboard and said, "No, buddy, explain it to me clearly. What kind of personality did she tell you?"

"She said she has an avoidant attachment personality."

After hearing this, Lin Feng was delighted.

"Brother, you made me laugh. Do you know what I mean?"

The boy shook his head blankly: "What do you mean?"

Lin Feng: "Brother, people are giving you a vaccination.

The general meaning of this sentence is,
I am a person who is easily upset.
When I encounter a problem, it is not easy for me to solve it.

If the problem can't be solved, then I will solve you."

Uh. .

. . . .

"I Can't Solve the Problem" "I Will Solve You"

My dear,

It's quite scary.

"I'm different. If I can't solve the problem, I will solve the person who raised the problem (dog head)."

Hahaha.

"It has to be you."

"Fire sign: I may not be good at solving problems, but I am definitely good at solving people."

"What about two fire signs (grin)?"

"Both were dealt with."

Hahahaha.

"Is the fire sign so awesome? Go talk about the earth sign (dog head) instead."

"disagree."

"Why don't you agree (sunglasses)"

"Want me to die?"

"As a fire sign, I admit that earth signs are attractive, but my experience tells me that I can't help but run (humph)"

"If you don't run, you'll be caught as a black bass (laughing to death)"

"She tricked me into using her ultimate with just one basic attack, sob sob (crying)."

Hahahahaha.

Boy: "Actually, when we first met, we chatted every day and quite a lot. After we confirmed our relationship, she would also send me messages, but not as often as before."

Lin Feng: "Dude, have you ever thought about the possibility that she is avoidantly attached, but she is avoiding you and is attached to someone else?"

Uh. .

. . . . .

On the barrage.

Confirmed.

"Only avoiding you, hahahaha."

"Break it straight, what are you avoiding?"

"Why are you still in a relationship if you're avoiding each other? Isn't it better to be alone forever?"

"Who can pull off the avoidance? Probably God."

"Don't be an avoidant type all the time. What's wrong with me? I'll take the blame for you every day."

Uh. .

. . . . .

Boy: "I don't know, because I've never been in a relationship."

Raymond Lam: "Dude, you're 26 years old and you're still in your first love?"

"Ah."

Awesome!
Lin Feng: "Come on, tell me about your current situation."

"We are chatting normally every day, but she is preparing for the civil service exam in December, so she goes to the library every day.
I thought about meeting up on the weekend.

She also agreed and said she would come.

But you won’t come to my place every two days, you still have to find time to go to the library.”

Lin Feng nodded: "No problem, I didn't hear anything wrong."

Boy: "I just want to know if we can continue the conversation under these circumstances?"

Lin Feng: "No, buddy, why are you so anxious?"

How many days have you confirmed your relationship?
If you really can't wait, don't let her come to you all the time. You should take the initiative to find her.

Increase the time the two of you spend together and find ways to enhance the sweetness of your love.

You will get along naturally.

Boy: "Before, I was the one who picked her up and brought her to my house."

Lin Feng: "No buddy, is there no other place for you to date besides your home?"

Boy: "Military Advisor, you don't know, it's too hot here, it's over 40 degrees outside."

Dude,

You really made me laugh.

Raymond Lam: "There's only curbs outside your house? There's no shopping mall or coffee shop?
It must be hot for you to sit in the hot sun.

Tell the truth.

Why do you always ask people to come to your house?
In addition to air conditioning, does your home also have a bed? "

Well. . .

. . . . .

On the barrage.

"Do you have a bed besides the air conditioner?"

Military Advisor: I have seen through everything (sunglasses).

Hahahaha.

"Whose nice guy has dates at home every day?"

"This kid has bad intentions."

"Impatient (laughing to death)."

"What's the big deal? I just want to try out the new mattress at home (dog head)."

Hahaha.

"It's so nice to have a home, save money and get started quickly."

"Not spending a cent?"

Tsk tsk,

"What a fucking stingy person to drink cold water."

"Marry a wife with short legs?"

Hahahahaha.

. . . . .

Lin Feng: "Dude, I finally know why she avoids you. You invite people to your house every day, she is afraid of you."

Uh. .

Lin Feng: "I would wonder in my heart, does this guy like me, or is he just after my body?
Even if the girl has a good impression of you, she doesn't think too badly of you.

Home,

It's a private place.

It must be with the people closest to you.

You said you've only been in a relationship for a few days, but you bring girls home every day.

Girls have a mentality.
It's me who's here.
Does it make me look casual?
Especially when the other person has just confessed to you that he or she had a two-year relationship.

Your outrageous actions will make girls wary and cautious of you.

I feel like you're just playing tricks on others.

Do you understand me, buddy?"

After hearing this, the boy suddenly realized: "Fuck! Brother, you're right, I never thought of this.

It was indeed my fault. I did not think about the problem from the other party's perspective.

I asked her why every time I asked her to come to my house, she would hesitate and not be very willing.

So that's how it is! "

Lin Feng: "It's not too late to understand now. The girl must have a crush on you, otherwise she wouldn't have come to your house so many times.
now what,
The girl feels that you always ask her to your house, and she starts to feel a little wary.

Another reason is that they are preparing for the civil service exam and really don’t have time.

So man, now’s your chance to shine.”

Boy: "Military Advisor, can you teach me a few more moves?"

Raymond Lam: "No, buddy, do you still need me to teach you how to date? Do you want to push your girlfriend to me and I will help you date?"

Uh. .

Boy: "Military Advisor, this is really my first love, I don't really know those techniques."

Lin Feng smiled and shook his head: "Dude, you are wrong, there is no such thing as skills in dating, only when you are chasing girls, you need skills, you are already in a relationship now.

You like her and she likes you.

At this time, all you have to do is show your true heart.

remember,

She is the one you like.
You are the one whom you want to protect and love.

How to love her,

Do you still need me to teach you?
If you don't understand, ask her.

If you don't know, ask her.

If you can't figure it out, ask her.

Let her feel your sincerity and passion.”

Attached

[Military advisor’s words: If you really like me, don’t get to know me from others.

Because I like you, so... I am willing to accept any stupid tricks.】

(End of this chapter)