I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Chapter 189: Fighting a Fight

Raymond Lam: "Come on, sister, tell me, has he ever had a trauma? Has he ever been deceived by others in his previous relationships? Or has he ever been hurt?"

Girl: "I think so, because he told me that he had a girlfriend in school, they dated for five years, and finally this girl went abroad to develop her career."

Raymond Lam made the final decision.

Now we have found the cause of the disease.

"After dating his ex for five years, he left her to go abroad. It was like all his efforts were in vain. So from now on, everything must be fair."

younger sister,

I'm telling you,
Dating is not like a debate competition. If you really want to debate, you can debate with netizens online.

You ask him to download a software, this ap is called Weibo,
Let him discuss it with others on Weibo.

I tell you, he will definitely be scolded badly on Weibo."

Well. . .

. . . . .

On the barrage.

Gouzi: "Weibo, famous toilet (dog head)."

Xiao Ming: "It's still the women's room (smile)."

Clicked.

Hahahaha.

Tangtang: "Every time I feel bad, I go to the bathroom on Weibo (hit me)."

Xiao Wan: “The food on Weibo is really good, but stay away from super chats (laughing to death).”

Yaoyao: "It's too late. I made a random comment in the super topic yesterday, and I don't know what landmine I stepped on, but I got scolded and hung up (drunk)."

Little Cake: "Same, just now I saw 4000+ comments and thought I was famous, but I got criticized (scary)."

Lao Wang: "When I opened it, I found that it was full of curses. They cursed everything (it was scary)."

Hahahaha.

Cheerful netizen: "Why use Weibo? Because I can post random things anytime and anywhere. My electronic circle of friends allows me to go crazy anytime and anywhere (a little bit)."

“So the quality of the people on Weibo is touching (dog head).”

“Douyin is almost there (sunglasses).”

"No, no, no, Douyin is okay, it still has positive energy, and if you feel uncomfortable, you can report it successfully, and no one will pay attention to your report."

"Yes, the most amazing thing about Weibo is that you can never find customer service."

"Baby, can I borrow your Weibo to help me vote?"

roll

Hahahahaha.

. . . . .

Lin Feng: "Then let's talk about how he gets along with you. Why does he always discuss issues about male and female rights?
What is the background color behind it?

In fact, I have already given you the answer just now.

It's all about so-called fairness!
I must value your kindness to me before I can be kind to you.
If you don't treat me well, I will never treat you well first.

why?
Because he had been emotionally hurt.

I worked hard for five years but got no response.

Now a kind of self-defense mentality has formed.

In such a relationship, I would probably feel quite depressed and tired. "

Girl: “Yes, I am really tired.”

Lin Feng: "You, your skills are still too shallow. Listen to me, let him download Weibo. Doesn't he like to talk about power? It can teach him what real boxing power is."

. . . . .

On the barrage.

"You Think You Have Rights" and "Actual Fist Power"

"This punch is the result of thirty years of hard work. I wonder if you can withstand it (dog head)."

My loafers!

"In real life, I am inferior and cowardly, I swallow my anger, I dare not conflict with others, nor do I dare to laugh at others, for fear of being beaten. But on the Internet... I am full of vigor and vigor, I strike hard, and I wantonly insult netizens."

"My punch goes through eternity, even Tiga can't stop it (covering his mouth and laughing)."

"You made Taro look like Teddy (Sunglasses)."

Hahahaha.

"Sir, why are there only three dimensions in the universe now?

Don’t you know that there was a boxer who broke the dimensional wall with one punch, and the dimensions above the third dimension were directly annihilated. "

"Download Weibo, I'm going to fight, brothers, cheer for me (Oli Gei)!"

"Emperor of Heaven, please stay!" Hahahahahaha.

. . . .

Girl: “He actually buys me some things, but he doesn’t spend a lot of money.”

Lin Feng: “Actually, there is nothing wrong with what he said, the key point is that it cannot be discussed.

You said that when two people are in love, when the other person makes sacrifices, do you also have to give something in return?

For example, I give you a gift and you give me a gift.

I treat you to a meal and you treat me to a movie.

Give and take, and give and take, this is the right way to start a relationship.

This is actually not a problem at all.

But if you take these things to the surface and argue and demand them, then it becomes a bit distorted.

Because the other person feels uncomfortable.

I wonder why you are so realistic and calculative.

The sweetness of the relationship will decrease, and the experience of love will be gone."

Girl: “I realize that, but I don’t know how to tell him.”

Raymond Lam: "You can't say that, just let him go to Weibo, there's no other place to go."

Girl: "Then I will try to avoid these in our lives."

Lin Feng: "Right, the most effective and simple way is to not discuss it. Why are you discussing this? Both of you are just idle."

Uh. .

Raymond Lam: "I still say the same thing, there is nothing wrong with his concept.

But if we were to debate, it would deviate from the relationship between the two of us and become a gender conflict.

There is no way to warm up your relationship.
Because you will feel uncomfortable and tired after listening to it.

So you decide for yourself, I have already analyzed it thoroughly for you."

Come on down, sister.

"Okay, thank you, military advisor."

. . . . .

On the barrage.

Shi Yuji: "Why are you talking so much? Do you still want to get married? (Funny)."

Jiuli: "If you want to get married, you can't talk too much."

Scorpio man: "One chat and the whole drama ends (dog head)."

Toast: "Scorpio, just hide yourself. Hide yourself for the rest of your life (smile)."

"Just hide, just hide!"

I'm a Scorpio.

Hahahahaha.

. . . . .

Hang up the mic,
Raymond Lam said to the live studio:
“Maybe there is a misunderstanding.

Three views,

It’s not that we can’t chat.

It depends on the time.

As to whether couples should talk about their worldviews, when to talk about them, and how to talk about them, I have actually talked to everyone in the live broadcast room before.

I said that this can only be talked about after two people have confirmed their relationship and their feelings are very passionate.

I remember there was a comment saying, why not during the ambiguous period? If you chat during the ambiguous period, you can also judge in advance whether the person is right or not, and whether he is suitable or not.

But there is a problem here.

The problem is, if you talk about this value during an ambiguous relationship,

There are no two values ​​in this world that are exactly the same.

Everyone has their own ideas.
If there is no certain emotional foundation and the other person does not particularly like you, he or she will definitely not tolerate you and will definitely not buy into your values.

But if you two really like each other in the early stage, that is, the concentration of this ambiguity is very high, you will find that when you talk about these issues again after confirming your relationship,
Even if what you say is not what I think, I will agree with you and cater to you because you are my girlfriend or boyfriend.

This thing represents that there is an emotional foundation, do you understand?
What is preference?

The prerequisite is that you like it enough.

And there is a certain emotional foundation.

Without this foundation as a guarantee, just talk about it.

One person dies after talking to him.

(End of this chapter)