I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Chapter 220: Love boldly while you are young
The two of them ate grilled fish leisurely while chatting with their friends.

Raymond Lam: "I think in the future when we do live broadcasts, we can eat hotpot while helping brothers solve their relationship problems."

Yu Huanshui nodded, but the brothers on the public screen were unhappy.

Oh shit,

Release poison late at night,

No one cares, no one asks!
Lin Feng: "You bunch of bastards, you treat me like your emotional trash can and dump your garbage on me every day. What's wrong with me eating hot pot to relieve stress?"

"I disagree!"

"I disagree!"

"I disagree"

The screen was full of protests, which made Lin Feng roll his eyes.

your sister,
The protest is invalid!

Next person.

Ding~
"Hello, military advisor."

It's a boy.

Lin Feng took a bite of potato chips and asked with a grin, "What's wrong, buddy? What's the problem?"

Boy: "Military Advisor, I know a girl who I like very much."

Lin Feng: "Where did you meet?"

Boy: "We met at a fraternity party in college."

Lin Feng: "College students, from the same school?"

Boy: "No, but the two schools are quite close."

Raymond Lam: "After the social gathering, did you chat with the other party frequently?"

Boy: "It's quite frequent. We chat every day."

Lin Feng: "Call?"

Boy: “No phone calls, but I often send voice messages.”

Raymond Lam: "What are you guys talking about?"

Boy: “Just some daily things.”

Lin Feng: "Will the other party take the initiative to find you?"

Boy: "She always talks to me."

? ?
Raymond Lam: "It's obvious buddy, I'm interested in you, what else do you want to ask me?"

"I am mainly worried about several issues."

Lin Feng: "What are you worried about?"

Boy: "First of all, my girlfriend, I will start school in September, I will go to another province to study for a master's degree, she is one year younger than me, she will be a senior at the beginning of the school, that is, if I confess my love now, I will face the problem of a long-distance relationship."

Lin Feng: "So you have concerns?"

"Yes, and I will see her for the last time tomorrow, so I am anxious to contact the military advisor. My second concern is whether the time we spend together and the emotional connection are sufficient."

Raymond Lam: "How long have you been flirting with each other?"

"Three months."

Raymond Lam: "Brother, let me ask you one last question, do you like her very much?"

"I like her very much. Her looks and personality are all what I like."

Lin Feng put down his chopsticks: "Then why the hell are you still talking to me? It's almost 12: now, go to bed quickly, dress smartly tomorrow morning, buy a bouquet of flowers, and confess your love to me."

what?
Is this... Is this okay?

Lin Feng: "You are so dithering, you are not going, right? Give me her school address and I will go."

Well. . .

Raymond Lam: "Brother, let me tell you, at the age of 22, you are 22, right?"

"right!."

Lin Feng: "You are 22 years old, just graduated from college, and are about to go to graduate school. You haven't entered the society yet, what practical problems are you talking about?

If you like it,

If you love someone, express it.

What a simple thing!

I tell you, even if there is not a good ending in the end, we will not have any regrets.

All your current concerns, all your considerations, all your timidity and cowardice come from the fact that your love is not passionate enough.

Remember this, buddy.
Sometimes it's not the damn traffic light that defeats you.

You might think that if the traffic light could give you a glance, you might have a happy ending with her.

But what is the truth?
The fact is, what defeats you is not the traffic light, but your countless cowardice and fear.

No regrets, okay buddy?

At your age, 22, it is the age to fall in love and experience things.

Don't think about anything.

Just rush first and it's done.

Remember the words of the military advisor.

Youth only comes once, be bold.

Love who you want to love, do what you want to do,
Instead of waiting for everything to sprout, for the crows to talk, for the season of snow falling all over the sky,

It is better to shape yourself into the image of love while you are still young.

Looking back without regret is rebirth."

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"It's better to take advantage of youth" and "Shape yourself into the image of love"

my God!

"My old friend has become more sublime again (crying to death)."

"So don't be afraid, be bold. Youth is bound to have regrets. No matter what choice you make, instead of expecting a good ending, it is better to enjoy the process. When you recall your youth, you can calmly say that you have no regrets."

"Brother, you really translated 'looking back without regrets is rebirth'."

“That’s awesome (thumbs up).”

"I keep saying I want to date, but I don't dare to. I'm sensitive and have low self-esteem. I don't think I'm good-looking. I don't think anyone will love me forever. I'm used to saying no. I think I'm only suitable for one person (crying to death)."

"Brother, go wherever you want to be. Don't feel inferior. Everyone is born unique. Be more confident. You will definitely shine. There will always be someone who sees you, sees you as bright, and loves you wholeheartedly (keep it up)."

"We'll go to Chengdu to express our opinions tomorrow, let's do it, brothers." "Come on!!"

. . . . . .

Boy: "Mainly because I feel that I am not good enough now, and I want to work hard to become better."

Raymond Lam: “Dude, this is something you should think about after you are sure you are in a relationship.

Remember my words, when you become excellent, everything will have changed.

When you are 30 and buy something you liked when you were 18, you won’t feel the same way as before.

A good relationship allows you to become better while being in love.

There is not so much time left in this world, only the impermanence of things and the good times cannot wait. "

The boy was silent.

Lin Feng: "If you don't chase me, buddy, the military advisor will give you a prediction today.
You are 22 this year.

When you were 22, you met someone you liked.
You want to be with her, but you have too many concerns.

I thought I would come back to him when I could become better.

Always thinking that there is still a long way to go,

I even feel that I will meet a lot of attractive and suitable people.

So you turned around and left without looking back.

At the age of 24, someone confessed to you.

You think that you have nothing to do anyway, so why not try talking to her?
You know what, she's really nice to you.

But you always feel that there is something missing that little bit of heart-pounding feeling.

At the age of 25, you are mature and sensible, and you want to have a relationship with the purpose of getting married.

You think as long as you put your heart into it, you will succeed.

But people of that age are very busy, busy with life, busy with work, and in the end she even forgot to marry you.

So you feel particularly unwilling to accept the fact, and you think to yourself, I love her so much, why can't I get her in the end?
When you were 28, you found that you had been single for a long time and seemed to have gotten used to living alone.
I feel like it doesn’t matter whether there is someone with me or not. I don’t care anymore.

Time flies and I am already 30 years old.

You find yourself at the age where you should get married.

But there is no suitable person around me.
You are too lazy to make new friends of the opposite sex.

So you have to admit that after a certain point in your youth, the impulse for love is really gone.

If you let others down, you must pay it back.

If you let yourself down, you will regret it for the rest of your life.

One day, you suddenly realize that the reason you broke up with her when you were 20 seems so far-fetched and so funny.

If you had been a little gentler and braver at that time, could you have been married long ago?

Looking back at your youth, you find that you were very stupid and ridiculous.

It's all because I was too young to cherish and to get along with others slowly.

I always think that there will be someone suitable for you waiting for you in the end.

In the end, you are left with nothing and crying.
I found that my youth and love were gone.

Dude,

That's how people are.

When you’re 20, you can afford the toys you couldn’t afford when you were 10, but you don’t have that sense of anticipation.

When I was 30, I had the courage to pursue the girl I didn’t dare to pursue when I was 20, but the girl had already been a wife for many years.

Life is short, if you miss it, you will only regret it.

And what is the most terrifying thing about regret?
You think you missed just one person, but in fact you missed your whole life."

. . . . .

On the barrage

"Oh my goodness, I'm so depressed about my online music at night."

"Although I'm not as old as the military advisor said, I really took it to heart."

"I'm glad that he and I have known each other for ten years. We cried and broke up, but in the end, we didn't separate. From the age of 20 to 30, we walked hand in hand together."

“There aren’t many lucky people, so please cherish the rest of your life.”

"I lost her when I was 19, and now I'm 23 and I can't bear to think about her anymore. I can't stand it."

"If you let others down, you will have to pay them back. If you let yourself down, you will regret it for the rest of your life."

"I will probably regret it for the rest of my life..."

"I wish I had heard this a few years earlier."

Hey!
. . . . .

Raymond Lam: "Why do we all envy the male and female protagonists in movies and TV series?

I think it's because no matter how much they quarrel,

How big is the contradiction?
How far apart are we?
How long has time passed?
How impossible it seems.
We all know in our hearts outside the screen that they will be together in the end.

But where can we find this kind of unquestionable sense of security in this unreliable real world?"

. . . . .

On the barrage.

Where to Find

What the hell!

I'm always worried.

"There is always kindness in movies, allowing people who have missed each other to meet again."

"But in reality, you've already seen some people for the last time, but you just don't want to admit it."

"Movies always come together after going around in circles. When we say goodbye, we never see each other again."

"Yeah, if we really break up, even if we live in the same city, if we don't have a common circle of friends, it's hard to run into each other on the street once in a lifetime."

"When cars collide, it's a car accident; when people collide, it's love. But cars always give way to each other, but people always miss each other."

“That’s often the reality.”

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[Military Advisor’s Remarks: Whether you are afraid or not, this life is the next life that the last life talked about...]

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