I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Chapter 224 Age Anxiety is Just a Self-Directed Farce
Girl: "Because I'm not young anymore. I'm three years older than him."

Lin Feng: "Sister, no matter how old you are, you can't pick trash."

Girl: “That makes sense.”

Lin Feng: "Right, no matter how old you are, you can't fool yourself. You say you are not young now, but you still have many decades in the future."

Girl: "Because of this incident with him, I also went to emotional counseling, and a teacher told me to be patient."

Lin Feng: "Can you bear it? Obviously not, otherwise you wouldn't have to bear it with me.

And I have told my brothers in the room more than once that if you go to find someone to redeem your relationship, most of the people out there are half-baked.
They don't care whether you live or die, they just want to give you hope so that you can repair and redeem your emotions.

Because only if you don't give up can you pay.

So in this case, can the advice they give you be truly beneficial to you?

They all give you hope first, then seize your pain points and guide you to consume.

Those people don't care whether you live or die, or whether you are happy or not.
In fact, there is something wrong with this man's nature.

What's the point of catching him back?

He will cheat again.

If you give it up, you will definitely suffer a loss."

The girl was silent.

Lin Feng shook his head and signaled Yu Huanshui to turn off the lights in the room.

Then switch to a eerie background music.

Then he hid half of his face in the room and spoke slowly in a low voice:
"I am a black-hearted relationship consultant. I will not tell you that more than 80% of the recovery services you spent thousands or even tens of thousands of dollars on are useless.

I will not tell you that most of the so-called emotional coaches who serve you have no background in psychology.

Many people are even single from birth and have never been in a relationship.

Do you think you just spend money once and that’s it?
I won’t tell you that when your service period is about to expire, I will use various reasons to induce you to make a second purchase of more expensive services.

Do you think that if you spend more money, the service will be different from the previous one?

I won't tell you, I'll just change a colleague to continue doing the same operation for you.

I will cooperate well with this colleague and fool you around so that you won't be able to find any flaws.

I will not tell you even more that if your income is good and your finances are relatively comfortable, I will continue to give you other reasons to induce you to cancel the fee for the third or even fourth time when the second service period is about to expire.

When you find problems and start complaining that the service is ineffective, I will find all kinds of excuses for you.

For example, your execution ability is not good enough.

For example, if you are emotionally unstable,

For example, if you said something wrong,

It's all your problem anyway.

I certainly won’t tell you that your problem is that you don’t need to spend money on emotional counseling;

You may even just need to spend a few dozen dollars to buy two books and read them.

Don’t tell your friends who have emotional problems, otherwise how can I continue to harvest your leeks? "

. . . . .

On the barrage

"Industry Secrets Revealed (Doghead)."

"You are really not afraid of offending people (Niupi)."

"I paid 6800 and signed a contract, so I shouldn't be cheated (I'm afraid)."

"I was also deceived. I also signed a contract and a confidentiality agreement. I did nothing all day, just watched videos and wrote my review."

"I didn't hand it in, and now they're asking me to watch the video and write a review (dog head)."

"Oh my god, it's exactly the same. I was also cheated out of 6800."

"I won't say anything more. Let's defend our rights together, sisters."

"I'm fine. I lost 45 yuan. The other party called me for 2980 minutes and asked me to pay yuan. When I was hesitating, my friend shared this person's live broadcast room with me."

"I also paid 500 yuan, and then he called me and told me I had to pay yuan. I said forget it, we don't want to make peace."

"You didn't even pay the 500 yuan. It seems like you just don't want to make peace (dog head)."

You boy.

Hahahahaha.

. . . . .

Raymond Lam: "Which one is more painful, being cheated of love or being cheated of money?

Some people say it’s okay to cheat on me emotionally but not on my money, because I can date someone else but I really can’t make much money.

In fact, for ordinary people like us, whether we are cheated of money or our feelings, it is a devastating injury.

It will take at least a year or two to recover.

So I would like to warn all my brothers here again, never look for a recovery agency.

Just listen to the military advisor's live broadcast more often, and you will understand everything."

. . . . .

On the barrage.

"I was cheated of my feelings and my money. Yes, that person was me (crying to death)."

"You can earn back the money you were cheated of in three to five years, but you may never get over the emotional cheating that happened in the past three to five years."

"Taurus girl, if you cheat me in love, I will cry for a few days, but if you cheat me in money, I will cry for a lifetime (grin)."

"Capricorns won't let this happen. Lending money is the same as cheating me out of money. Anyone who wants to cheat a Capricorn hasn't been born yet (tsundere)."

"You can cheat me of my feelings and money, but don't do it right away. It makes me look stupid (picking nose)."

Indeed, the next day after I added her as a friend, she told me her mother was dying and I transferred 50,000 yuan to her (I was impressed).”

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Lin Feng: "My Advisor is just making a blind guess. Sister, you are 34 this year, right?"

Girl: “Hey, how did you know?”

Lin Feng smiled and said: "You said you are not young anymore, most likely you are 30+, if you are 31 or 32, you won't be too anxious.

Only when people are around 33 or 34, they will experience severe panic and anxiety. "

Girl: "Yes, I've been very anxious recently, and my mom keeps urging me to do it, because she likes him very much, too."

Lin Feng: "Sister, be obedient. We won't compete with the elderly. Your mother likes it, so let her come first."

Uh. .

Raymond Lam: "I really hate people who create age anxiety now.
If you say he is only one year older, I can understand that.

What does it mean to be two years old?

And there are also three or four year old boys.

There are always people telling you that you are almost 30 or 40 years old.

what?

I will be dead after I turn 30.

It seems that our whole life is always spent in anxiety.

You have to be in a good university at the age of 20, right?

25, 26 You have to have a partner at least, right?

27, 28 You have to get married and have children, right?
Can you live without a car or a house after you turn 30?

You will find that everyone around you is urging you to do something.

What's wrong?

Can I enjoy myself after I finish all this?

You are so anxious and pushing me, why don’t you let me prepare things for my next life in advance?

Correct,
You are all doing this for our own good, so it’s probably because we’re not working hard enough.

But the fact is, everyone is working hard.

You will find that people are in a hurry to do anything nowadays.

Really, just watch and be anxious. The more anxious you are, the faster you will be reincarnated.

I think everyone who works hard and loves life can live a wonderful life at any age.

There is nothing that can only be done at a certain age.
Bros,
Times have changed.

You have to tell those who make you anxious that I have my plans, and unless you can outlive me, we'll see."

. . . . .

The comments on the barrage are "Just be anxious" and "The more anxious you are, the faster you will be reincarnated"

Hahahaha, I'm dying of laughter.

"Really, it feels like a person's life is just about that. Whoever finishes it first gets to go first (dog head)."

"If you can speak, please say more (like)."

"Haha, it really feels like this. Get married and buy a car and a house. After marriage, pay for the house and the car. When you're done, you die (sunglasses)."

I'll die after I finish this.

Hahaha.

"Chinese people's life: do things according to your age, who the hell decides this (I give up)."

"The key is that he doesn't use age, he also uses virtual age (laughing to death)."

"I don't understand the Chinese age system either. I feel like it's used to speed up marriage and life (I give up)."

"Really? I'm only 26, but my mom says I'm 30 (smile)."

"What a coincidence, I'm a little over 30, and my mom said you're almost 40 and still not married (covering face)."

"It's not an exaggeration. My husband started counting his age the moment he got pregnant, and he was already two years old when he was born. Look."

puff~
Hahahaha.

"Hey, for our generation, prenatal education is crucial, preschool is crucial, kindergarten is crucial, elementary school is crucial, junior high school is crucial, high school is crucial, college is crucial, and having children before the age of 30 is crucial. So we are all key people."

"Wrong, we have to make do until we get married (raised eyebrows)."

"Really, nothing else matters, once it comes to marriage, just find a good match."

"If there is a screenwriter, I have thought of the following words: You choose your own path. Your father and I are too old to help you. It's up to you how you go about the rest of the way. I don't expect you to take care of us in our old age, but the child is still young, so you should think more about the child."

"Fuck! Don't be so real (crying)."

"Just reading the text makes me fucking upset."

. . . . .

Lin Feng: "Really, brothers, if we have a chance we really need to go out and see the world.

You will find that our age anxiety seems to be a farce directed and performed by ourselves.

We have been learning Tang and Song poetry since we were in our mother's womb.

In order not to lose at the starting line, young parents emptied their wallets to buy school district houses.
Then I got up early, enrolled in high school and went to college.

I didn’t dare to stop during my junior and senior years. I looked for internships and worked hard in the workplace.

Either you take the postgraduate entrance examination or the civil service examination.

At the right time, it becomes a resume on the blind date corner in the park.

Educational background, height and age have become the criteria for us to marry, have children and have children.

Then repeat everything our parents did for us in the next generation.

Brothers, if you have the chance, you must go see the world.

A few years ago, I spent a year as an exchange student at an overseas university.

On the first day there, I suddenly realized that people can stop.

It is possible to start over and find another way of life.

The universities there have students of almost all ages.

Sitting in the first row of the classroom is probably a 45-year-old man.

There are many neighbors living in the apartment, some of whom changed their majors two or three times during their undergraduate studies.

Some gave up physics and turned to philosophy.

Some people suddenly went home to get married and divorced halfway through reading.
There are also a lot of people in their 30s who quit jobs they don't like and return to school.

These seem very common.

It seems that in their eyes, there is no age limit for what to do.

This concept makes them make choices based not on age but on their preference for the thing itself.

During a job interview, no one will ask you when you plan to get married and have children.

You don't have to explain what you did during that free time.

Outside, age is not a shackle that limits your life. There is nothing that you must do at your age.

There is nothing that you cannot do at your age.

There is only one thing you have to do, and that is to do what you want to do.

There is only one kind of life you want to live, and that is to live the life you like.

It's not about worshipping foreign things, brothers.

What the military advisor wants to talk about is this attitude towards life.

Your life should be your own decision.

Stop feeling anxious because of pressure from others.

If you say that the national conditions and environment are different.

it is good.

I respect you.

Go worry about it.

Bet your life on being responsible for other people's opinions."

. . . . .

On the barrage.

"Don't get excited, I don't think the military advisor meant to say that foreign countries are so good and we are so bad, but to tell some people that no matter how old a person is, they can do what they like. People should be free as long as it is not illegal or immoral."

"Really? I'm studying for a master's degree in Spain. Next to me there's a 65-year-old modern history student. We say he is modern history, hahahaha."

"The 65-year-old student is so cute haha."

"I'm 28 now, and I want to quit my job and go to graduate school. I don't dare to tell anyone because they will say I'm sick (grin)."

"Our environment is indeed not very tolerant of your situation, but the military advisor is right, you are the master of your own life (come on)."

"Really, the collectivism is too strong. Everyone follows the rules. If someone is different, they will be excluded. Few people can break through this layer, and those who do will be regarded as freaks."

"I am that freak. I am 31 years old and I am going to study abroad for my undergraduate degree. You can laugh at me as much as you want (dog head)."

"Who's laughing at you, bro? I'm envious."

"real."

“Come on youngsters (thumbs up).”

"Young man... I am really crying my heart out."

"The military advisor is right. Success is not linked to age. So now I support my parents in taking the postgraduate entrance examination. I hope my mother will become a phoenix and my father will become a dragon (sunglasses)."

"Brother, you... it's really hard to not support me (haha)."

"Fifty or sixty years old is the right age to study hard and serve the motherland (dog head)."

"So I decided that I would sell everything I had to support my parents to go to school."

"Put pressure upwards (covering face)."

"Yes, I am a fragile post-2000s generation, and I am only suitable to be a rich second generation (lying flat)."

“Fifty and sixty years old is the right age to fight hard.”

"The pillars of the country are all fine at this age."

Hahahahaha.

. . . . .

Girl: "Military Advisor, I understand what you mean, but it will be difficult for me to get over my emotional investment."

Raymond Lam: "If you can't come out, don't come out, sister. I still say the same thing to you, everyone has the right to make their own choices.

But correspondingly, you must also bear the corresponding consequences.

What will be the consequences for you?

I'll give you a prediction.

1. The boy comes back to you, marries you, and lives a life of love with you.

Second, the boy refuses to change, and the cost of your silence becomes higher and higher. By the time you are 35 or 40, you have really narrowed your path.

All right,

Having said that, there is no need for us to continue with this microphone.

I’ll carry you down, sister.”

Ding~
The mic is broken.

(End of this chapter)