I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Raymond Lam: "If you don't have a bottom line, you won't win the respect of others. You won't leave even if you are beaten, so he knows that about you.
I guess if you keep enduring, you'll still get beaten up.

Although the word ping pong sounds cruel, it is definitely a ping pong game when played.
Because think about it, if he hits you, you will definitely hit the furniture and dishes in the house, that must be the result of ping-pong.

They were all born by their fathers and raised by their parents.

As for?
There is no cost for beating you, and you still want to reconcile and forgive him.

People like you are what the Master calls a saint.

You have such a broad mind that you won't get angry even if someone hits you with a ping-pong stick.

You have entered the realm of sainthood.

I am just a mortal.

So don’t bother me with this kind of thing anymore.”

Next person.

Ding~
"Hey bro."

It's a girl.

Raymond Lam: "Come on, sister, tell me your problem."

Girl: "Just before, I went home to visit my grandpa, and I bought him a pack of Huazi cigarettes. Elderly people are reluctant to smoke.

He might only take some out and distribute them when guests come. Basically, he just keeps them in the cabinet.

Then my uncle's daughter was in junior high school and she was in her rebellious period. She took the cigarettes to school and was caught by the teacher.
Maybe the teacher's words were rather harsh when communicating with my uncle,
Because my cousin is quite rebellious and ignorant at school, this kind of thing happens all the time.

So my uncle got furious that time, but he didn’t scold his kid. He came over and scolded me.

They said I shouldn’t have bought that cigarette, that I was good for nothing, that no one in my family loved me, and that was very unpleasant to hear. I was really devastated at the time.”

Lin Feng said speechlessly: "No, sister, what's the point of just collapsing? You should have fought back.

You said you didn't fight back at that time, but now you come to me to review the situation.

I was convinced too.

Let me tell you, the most shameful thing about people is that you lost the argument, and when you look back on it,
If you don't review, people will scold you.

When you review the situation, you find that you have hurt yourself four or five times, which is equivalent to others scolding you four or five times.

Think about it yourself and see if this is the truth.

Originally, your uncle scolded you once, saying that no one likes you and that everyone hates you. Originally, this scolding was over, and you didn't take it seriously, so it was just a thing and passed.
But you can't let it go in your heart. Every time you think about it and go over it, it's like your uncle scolding you twice.

What your uncle said once hurt you four or five times.

Your uncle is Bian Que,
The poisonous one, one, two, three, four, five layers of poison,
He just used a basic attack, and you used your ultimate skill."

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

"Your uncle Bian Que has stacked five layers of poison on you, hahahaha."

"If you don't review, people will scold you once. If you review, it's like they scold you four or five times. That's right, it's me (crying to death)."

"I'm not good at quarreling either. I often review the situation and it makes me feel uncomfortable (grin)."

"I found that whenever Dragon people lose a fight, they like to review the game (covering their face and laughing)."

"That's right. How much of the Dragon Kingdom's 5000-year history is there? The two thick volumes of modern history are all accounts of being bullied (dog head)."

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Hahahaha.

"Five thousand years of civilization are mentioned in one stroke, and a century of humiliation is covered in three large volumes (sunglasses)."

“With a long history, this is called traditional style, hahaha.”

“No, then foreigners don’t need to review the game? (laughing and crying)”

"It's mainly because foreign countries have the Equality Device. If you win, the other person's life will be restarted. If you lose, your own life will be restarted. So there is no need to review the game (Wang Chai) at all."

Absolutely.

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . . .

Girl: “No, the reason I didn’t yell back was because I was afraid it would be hard for my grandmother because the family relationships are complicated.

And my mother didn't defend me at that time.

Then I suddenly realized something, that is, what he said was very true, that is, my family members really don’t love me.”

Lin Feng rolled his eyes and said, "I don't love you, you weakling.

If you don't fight for your own rights, how can you expect others to support you?

You can't do it yourself, so blame your parents, you are such a loser."

girl:"...."

Lin Feng knocked on the blackboard: "I'm telling you, sister. I've understood a truth since I was a child. When relatives quarrel, parents always try to smooth things over. What does that mean?

No matter who wins or loses the fight, the result is the same.

For example, today my cousin stole my toy. What can my mother, as his aunt, say?
It must be because your cousin is young, so you should be more considerate of him.

Then you feel wronged.

But to be honest, if my cousin snatched my toy, I would beat him up right away.

What would my cousin’s mother say?
You deserve it. Who told you to steal your cousin's toy? Now you get beaten.

At worst, she would tell her cousin behind his back that her cousin was a bad guy and that he should not play with her anymore.

Your mother won't really beat you just because your cousin cries. She will just comfort your cousin with a few words.

But I got the toy back and beat him up.

Do you understand what I mean?

All the matters between relatives and family members are about smoothing things over.

You lost the fight, so you're just trying to smooth things over.

You won the fight, but you still try to smooth things over.

Because everyone is trying to smooth things over, I have to stand up and defend my own rights first.”

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"When it comes to trivial matters involving relatives, if you lose the fight, you try to smooth things over. If you win, you still try to smooth things over..."

What the hell!

suddenly see the light.

"I only realized this when I was 32 years old. Last time my aunt scolded me, I didn't dare to confront her because I considered her face. But when I got home afterwards, my mother said I was useless and that my second uncle's sister was a bad mouth. She was the kind who would scold elders. At the time, I thought to myself, they are all elders, what can I do? So this is what she meant (covering her face)"

"Because everyone is trying to smooth things over, I have to stand up and defend my own rights. This is so essential (strong)."

"No wonder we call him Big Brother, he is so clear-headed, quick to react, and hits the nail on the head. (Thumbs up)"

. . . . . .

Lin Feng: "So don't say that your mother doesn't protect you. It's you who don't protect your own rights. What can your mother do?
Uncle is her brother.

Only if you win the argument, will your mother be able to defend you and stand on your side and smooth things over.

Only then would I say to my uncle, hey, she is the younger generation, you are an adult, why are you arguing with a child?

Now that you don’t dare to curse or fight for it, how can your mother support you?

You held back your tears and dared not speak. You were like a punching bag. What could your mother say to you?

If I were your mother, I would curse in my heart, you useless thing.

If he scolds you, won’t you scold him back?

But can I say this clearly?

Isn't it just teaching you to commit crimes against your superiors and to ignore your relatives?
What will others say about me then?

Now that you don’t fight for your own rights, who will protect your rights?

I tell you, relatives are always trying to smooth things over.

You are such a useless thing. You originally had a grudge against your uncle, and now you bring this grudge to your own home, affecting your family relationships.

One word from your silly uncle has caused chaos in your own family, and you've begun to doubt whether your mother really loves you.

So I said, your uncle only needs one normal attack and you will use your ultimate move.

You are such a loser! "

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"At 38, I benefited a lot from listening to this young boy (amazing)."

"I suddenly thought of myself. My parents both love me, but they are all silent. I am so slow that I can't understand anything (crying to death)."

"If I had heard this before, I would not have admitted it. But since I had a child, I have really adopted this mentality as a parent. When my child has a conflict with a relative, even though I say I am trying to smooth things over, I actually hope that my child will win. But how can I teach my child this in public (covering my face)?"

"This may be the difference between the north and the south. If I were my cousin, my mother would not reply to the letter, and you would probably slap me on the spot (grin)."

"Maybe your mom is too concerned about her reputation, but let me ask you, did you beat up your cousin? Will your cousin dare not show off to you anymore in the future (dog head)?"

What the hell!

I understand. (End of this chapter)