Can not doing what one wants be called rebirth?

Chapter 32 32. His sudden smile of relief
"Look! This is the first time I see Jia Jia smiling so happily at her phone~"

After taking a shower and blowing her hair, Xu Ya happened to bump into Ni Jiayun, who was holding her cell phone and grinning.

"No way, that's not happening!"

Ni Jiayun chuckled and quickly covered half of her face with one hand: "I just found Liu Yisheng quite interesting to chat with."

"He can actually guess what my zodiac sign is!"

"real or fake?"

The three sisters quickly surrounded Ni Jiayun and looked at the last WeChat message sent by Liu Yisheng.

[I found that you pay attention to many small details at night, which is very considerate. ]

[Isn’t it Virgo? 】

"See? This is called getting on the pile."

Lu Jincheng tapped the screen with one hand and explained with examples.

If all chat topics are to be extended, they are inseparable from the three thinking framework directions in NLP theory: stacking, cutting, and parallel.

NLP, also known as Neuro-Linguistic Programming.

In order to establish an atmosphere of agreement with the other party, use words with broader meanings to imply common meanings, thereby establishing a sense of acceptance of the other party and allowing the other party to lead.

Because "meaning" exists in a person's subconscious mind, it is very subjective and cannot be fully expressed.

Therefore, when a consistent sense of meaning is achieved at the language level, the other party will be led to a new direction of thinking. This technique is called "chunk-up."

In general, it is about bringing in bigger, broader things or meanings to resonate with the other person.

[Yes, how did you know? ]

【Cat head question mark emoticon pack】

Ni Jiayun responded quickly and also sent a cute emoticon, which clearly showed that she was interested.

"How do you know she is a Virgo?"

Liu Yisheng widened his eyes, looking incredulous.

He probably understood the conversation skills that Lao Lu talked about, but how did he guess the other person's zodiac sign?
"Can you use your brain before you pick up girls? This post in late August says "coming of age ceremony". What do you think it means?"

Lu Jincheng shook his phone and pointed to the answer to the question.

"Awesome, you can see so many details in such obscure copywriting, Lao Lu you are really awesome."

Zhang Gaoqiang, who was listening attentively and almost taking notes, gave him a thumbs up.

"You have to learn to ask questions with answers so that the topic will not be lost."

[Just a random guess, I think Virgo traits are more similar to yours. 】

[You are considerate and generous, and you look gentle and sweet on the outside. When you sing, you can feel that you have a passionate side in your bones~]

"Okay, I'm going to bed and rest. I won't show you anymore!"

Ni Jiayun snatched the phone, her red face burning hot.

"Oh my god, this boy understands you so well~"

Not only the sisters who were watching the show, but even Ni Jiayun has now discovered that Liu Yisheng seems to have something.

Although he didn't say much in total, every word he said was to the point and coincided with her self-perception!

[You guessed it right.]

[I didn't expect you to be so good at chatting online, much better than at night. ]

【Cat head making a heart shape】

Ni Jiayun stepped onto the ladder, quickly got into bed, and started replying to messages on her cell phone.

The clown chat that can be shown to sisters and the one-on-one private chat have completely different positions in girls' minds.

"This method of defining people by observing and analyzing their words and deeds is called cold reading." Lu Jincheng was really like a teacher, crossing his arms and pointing, giving a lesson to the three brothers present.

"Wait a minute, Mr. Lu, I really need to take notes."

Liu Yisheng rummaged through the boxes and drawers, found a pen and a notebook, and began to take notes attentively.

“So cutting down means to narrow the focus on what the other person said and magnify some of it.”

“Parallelism is to find other possibilities that have been proposed by the other party and are at the same level of nature.”

Lu Jincheng did not hide anything and told everything he knew, explaining it all to his roommates.

It’s just a chat skill. Whether you can really gain something from it is something on another level.

Seeing Liu Yisheng and Ni Jiayun chatting about everything from details of behavior to zodiac signs and personalities, they easily broke the ice in just over ten minutes and started sending emojis to each other.

Even Ni Jiayun wanted to emphasize that chatting online is more interesting than chatting offline!

"Brother Lu, you are really this."

Ni Jiayun's unusually positive chat response shocked even Qiang Zhihao, who had not taken it seriously at first.

It seems that Lu Jincheng is not only very familiar with chatting, but also has systematic theoretical support!

Didn’t we all graduate from high school? How the hell did you do it?
This is a very close summary
How many girls has Lu Jincheng slept with?
Qiang Zhihao thought again of the look Zhou Si Ning gave Lu Jincheng.

Thinking of the long street kiss that I accidentally saw in front of the Moulin Rouge.

And what he had never seen before, the charm of Zhong Ruixi with her starry eyes half-closed and wrapped around the man's neck.

He suddenly smiled with relief.

After the military training, it was soon time for the freshmen to start their official classes.

After class at noon, Lu Jincheng came to the comprehensive building of the School of Management and knocked on the door of counselor Guo Minjie's office.

"Teacher Guo, I'm here to report to the Youth League Committee of the college."

Most counselors of a college also serve as deputy secretary of the college’s Youth League Committee, while Cai Shangdong serves as both secretary and director of the student affairs office.

"Well, I'll take you to the office upstairs."

Guo Minjie nodded, stood up and walked out of the room.

Today's counselor wore a pair of half-frame glasses, which made her watery eyes look even deeper. Her silky smooth hair was piled up high with a hairpin. The skin under her slender neck was as delicate as jade, which made her look even more elegant and charming.

A white shirt and slim-fit trousers are a very common work outfit, but when worn by Guo Minjie, they make her look intellectual and capable while also highlighting her graceful and well-proportioned figure.

A man and a woman, one in front and one behind, Lu Jincheng just stared at her as she walked up the stairs, her buttocks hidden under her slim-fitting uniform trousers constantly rising and falling, gently swaying with the steps of her high heels.

"If you come over next time, sit here first."

Guo Minjie opened the Youth League Committee office of the college and reserved a workstation for Lu Jincheng.

"By the way, Mr. Guo, I want to take advantage of the Hundred Regiments Campaign to recruit some people, but my studio is not considered a club. Is this okay?"

After the military training for freshmen is over, as per convention, the major clubs of Nanhu University will set up stalls at the intersection of the cafeteria to recruit new members and attract talents from all over the world.

"Turning stones into gold, right?"

Guo Minjie pushed her glasses and remembered that the last time Lu Jincheng gave her the business plan, the instructor had signed his own signature.

She pondered for a few seconds and nodded.

"If you set up a stall, I'll say hello to the school youth league committee. It doesn't matter."

"Is it not a bother to you?"

Lu Jincheng asked.

"It's okay. We may not be able to recruit anyone anyway."

(End of this chapter)