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"Li'er, you think too much. Bai*Xiao*Sheng (www.aoye) My attitude towards Ye Yan and Xi Bing is not irresponsible, but I think some changes need to be made in the current situation." What change? Haha, it’s actually very simple, it’s the social scope of women.”

Li'er didn't quite understand Tang Shaozhe's words, she blinked her big eyes and looked at her husband innocently, begging for an explanation.

"Well, Li'er, let's put it this way, what do you think a woman's social identity is? Well, I don't understand what a social identity is? Well, what role should women play in society!"

What else can a woman do?The man dominates the outside and the woman dominates the inside. This has been the case for thousands of years.The most important mission of a woman should be to carry on the family line, right?After thinking about it for a long time, Li'er only thought of this reason.

Tang Shaozhe smiled and nodded in agreement: "That's right, reproduction is indeed one of women's social responsibilities, but it's not all. In fact, the meaning of women's existence is to regulate yin and yang. If there are only men in the world, then wouldn't it be Is it all messed up?" Plane Travel Guide 1032

Regulate yin and yang?Li'er nodded half understanding, blinked her eyes and continued to listen to Tang Shaozhe's fooling around.

The so-called solitary yin does not grow, solitary yang does not grow, and yin and yang complement each other is the right way.However, the current society completely confines women within the family and cuts off the mutual connection with society. This is actually a very abnormal state.

Although men occupy a dominant position in this society, the important role of women cannot be denied.Women occupy half of human beings, and they are completely confined to the internal affairs of the family and do not have contact with the outside world, and many problems are prone to occur.

Seeing Li'er half understanding, Tang Shaozhe knew many concepts that were completely out of the blue for her.

"Well, let me give you an example. Li'er, do you know why temples and nunneries are called the most obscene places in the world?" Tang Shaozhe recalled some Ming Dynasty stories he had read, such as novels like "San Yan Er Pai" .

Hearing her husband's question, Li'er blushed immediately.But back then in Hongxiu Zhao, it was considered a place where dragons and snakes mixed together.Therefore, he had heard many rumors and knew a little about Tang Shaozhe's topic.

"Bah, that husband is talking about "slut" girls, "sluts" and "women", not serious women!" Just listening to Li'er's words, Tang Shaozhe knew that she also understood the intention of his question just now.

In ancient times, women's contact with society was very narrow, especially the female relatives of some wealthy families.If there are not too many accidents, the social aspects that can be touched in a lifetime are almost limited to family and a few girlfriends.

However, although social rules restrict women from contacting men outside their families, they are lenient towards monks.Not only some nuns can often come into contact with the female relatives of the big families, but even many monks are frequent visitors of the female relatives of the big families.

At this time, if a nun or a monk has some evil intentions, it is easy to seduce the female family members of a wealthy family to have problems with their life style.The biggest reason is that the women's relatives have too little contact with society, so they are easy to be deceived or attracted by the new world.

No matter whether the female relatives of the family have "adulterated" with the monks, or were seduced by the nuns to have an affair with outsiders, in fact, the root cause lies in the entire social system, and it is not all the fault of these women.

However, Li'er disagreed with these points of view: "My husband is trying to excuse those shameless women. If they insisted on keeping their innocence, how could they commit such infidelities? Not only are their natures broken, but Those "obscene" nuns and monks are not good things either! How can they look like a monk who seduces a decent girl and ruins her family style!"

After hearing what Li'er had said, Tang Shaozhe couldn't help but smile wryly.This is to completely push all the responsibilities to internal factors and completely ignore the role of external factors.Although moral factors are important, the social system must also keep up.

Chinese civilization has been a state of etiquette for thousands of years, and the fundamental rule is that everything is based on personal moral cultivation.Although all kinds of moral rules are reasonable, how many people can really do it?

If you really regulate yourself according to this moral rule, then only saints will be left in this world in the end.

But human nature itself is composed of countless desires, and even the progress of human civilization is driven by desire itself.

All kinds of excellent tools and advanced systems are designed to better serve human society.From a certain point of view, all kinds of living materials are created for the better enjoyment of human beings.

Gathering wild fruits and hunting for a living is too dependent on external conditions, so humans have learned to farm to harvest food steadily to ensure food sources; it is too inconvenient to use stones as tools, so humans gradually began to use wood, copper and iron.

When hunting, they will encounter ferocious beasts, so humans have created fighting skills; individual human life is too fragile, so humans have assembled into a whole with clans and countries; various environments in nature are dangerous, and humans have begun to transform the environment.Plane Travel Guide 1032

Therefore, the moral code of Chinese civilization expects everyone to become a saint, which is obviously unreasonable.But just using morality to suppress the dark part of human "nature" is actually very difficult to do without the necessary supervision.

Of course, the Chinese civilization has also created its own set of punishment and supervision system based on the moral system.Although its powerful deterrence can barely deter most people from complying with the moral code, it is not a long-term solution after all.

"No, what my husband said is wrong! Well, some of it makes sense, but some concubines think it's wrong." Although Li'er couldn't understand a lot of Tang Shaozhe's modern vocabulary, after explaining it in detail, he still understood what he meant.

Hearing his little wife's objection, Tang Shaozhe couldn't help but smile: "Oh? Then Li'er, tell your husband what's wrong?"

Li'er opened his eyes wide, raised his head from Tang Shaozhe's arms very seriously, and said seriously: "Although Li'er was born in Hongxiu Zhao, he also knows the words'propriety, righteousness, integrity and shame'. These are all right, obey These rules are also correct. If others want Li'er to betray her husband, then Li'er would rather die than do it. So my husband is wrong, and we are willing to abide by some principles, not because we are "soaked in a pig cage" ' or 'riding on a wooden donkey'."

Looking at the earnest face of the little wife in his arms, Tang Shaozhe gently stroked her lovingly.Xiao Nizi quickly blushed her cheeks and lowered her head, and slipped into her husband's warm embrace with a "wow".

"Well, my Li'er is not wrong. There are indeed many men and women in this world who sincerely abide by the moral law and will not be easily "confuse" by foreign objects. But Li'er, you should also know that such a There are very few people."

The little wife blushed from being touched by his big hand, and she whispered yes in Tang Shaozhe's arms, but she didn't know if she really heard it clearly.

However, Tang Shaozhe has another example: "Look, why women's chastity will be commended by the court, and the chastity memorial arch will become a great honor for women's widowhood? Haha, it is because there are too few, so the government will encourage and commend with great fanfare. So this is Exceptions, not exceptions. The laws of the world are not explained by exceptions, but normal responses.”

Speaking of this, Tang Shaozhe actually felt a little emotional in his heart.Although social responsibilities are different between men and women, the purpose of protecting social rules should not be achieved by limiting women's social activities.

On the contrary, expanding women's normal social contacts will eliminate many problems at the root.People with really bad character cannot be restrained by the three obediences and four virtues.And people with good moral cultivation will not change their minds by expanding their social contacts.

The so-called country is easy to change, but nature is hard to change!

Tang Shaozhe decided to change some wrong rules of this era for the sake of the power of faith of women all over the world in the Ming plane.

Of course, he wouldn't say these words to Li'er.I can only tell her that it is to liberate some of the suppressed needs of women.For these great goals, Tang Shaozhe must first set an example by himself, so as to drive people all over the world to follow suit.

Li'er just widened her bright glasses, looked at Tang Shaozhe with admiration, and said seriously: "My lord must be right, it's my concubine who misunderstood my husband. If sister Yeyan and Xifeng knew about my husband's good and suffering If you work hard, you will be happy.”

"Hahaha, since you misunderstood me, do you have to pay some price to compensate me?" After laughing, Tang Shaozhe carefully hugged Li'er's slender waist, and whispered a few words in Xiaonizi's ear .

I don't know what he said, but Li'er immediately covered her blushing face with her small hand, shook her head slightly and said, "I don't want to listen, my husband is really bad! I want to use those embarrassing gestures again If you bully a concubine, a slave will not obey you!"

"Hahaha, what is this? Husband and wife Dunlun gifts are human nature, so what's wrong? Come on, let's try first! You didn't agree last time, so don't stop this time." It's over! I'm going to do that pose with you..." Amidst the laughter, Tang Shaozhe stood up abruptly, picked up the blushing little girl by the waist, and strode towards the bedroom.

"Oh, that pose is so embarrassing, my husband! Let's... let's not do it, okay? Besides... besides, I really can't do that...that..." Li Er Qi Ai couldn't tell why for a long time.

Tang Shaozhe couldn't stop laughing, and deliberately asked: "That? What is that? What is Madam talking about?"

"Hmph, my husband is necrotic! It's that...that shameful posture! I don't care about you, bad husband, always bullying others!"

"Hahaha, madam, don't worry. This question is actually not important, and Caiwei can help you out!" While speaking, he hugged his little wife tightly, wishing he could hold her tightly and never let go.Plane Travel Guide 1032

Li'er has long been flushed with embarrassment from her husband's whispers, and now she only feels her heart "thumping", but she is reluctant to leave her husband's warm embrace no matter what.

After struggling a little bit, Li'er just whispered in a very low voice: "Husband, you can't do it now, you really can't do it! It's still... It's still daytime, I... How can we do such shameful things?" thing!"

"Hahaha, don't be afraid, don't be afraid, Caiwei, Caiwei, come and help, your lady needs an assistant! Oh, hahaha..."

(Special thanks to: book friend "freedom dark night" for supporting!)

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