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124: Begging Ye Mingxuan's expression was a little gloomy when he heard the words. I didn't expect that even my mother would attach so much importance to the concept of family status. Thinking of Yao Changjie's words, Ye Mingxuan realized that it was not nonsense.

Yao Zijin avoids herself like this, I'm afraid he has already thought of these...

"Mother, I don't need other people's help. I can become very strong myself, strong enough to protect the people I want to protect. From now on, whether it's you or my wife and children, I can protect you well." Ye Mingxuan said very seriously Said.

The eldest princess stretched out her hand to support the tassels on her temples, looked up at her son, frowned slightly, and then said: "Ming Xuan, some things are not as easy as you think, and getting a wife is not as simple as having one more person in our family. .Sometimes you have to act according to the rules. Which aristocratic family in Kyoto you see will marry a small family as a regular wife? Not to mention that the rules from elementary school are not in tune with people like us. When I go out to be a guest, being coy and awkward is just a laughing stock."

Seeing her son's frown, the eldest princess continued patiently and said: "Miss Qianjin, a lady from a famous family, is mostly raised, offering rich clothes and fine food, and piles of silk and satin. Serve respectfully, move your breath, raise your body, and you will gradually become dignified, powerful, decent, and subtle. These can’t be learned overnight, and it will take time to develop them. , ranging from seven or eight years to as many as ten years.

In a family like ours, the most important thing is to be decent, not to mention that the daughter-in-law who enters the door has a face, even a daughter raised by a family like ours dare not slack off a bit.You can see how barbaric the six girls of the Duke of Liang's mansion are in the rumors, but when they meet each other, the demeanor of their whole body can be seen from many years of practice, and your mother still has this kind of vision.

After you get married, your daughter-in-law will go out to socialize and help you accumulate contacts. After all, you are now an official, so you don’t want to live behind closed doors in the future. If you marry a small family, you say she goes to the crowd When you stop here, even if it's not piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, poetry, songs and fu are all available, at least you have to understand what others say, right?If the donkey's head doesn't match the horse's mouth, you will be the one who will be ugly.

You have never experienced this. In the previous dynasty, Prime Minister Zhang Chengfang had a child marriage that he had ordered since he was a child. The Zhang family was a very committed person. After he won the first prize, he married the daughter of the tenant farmer entered the door.This woman has never read a book, and she has been going to the fields with her parents since she was a child. She has a very cheerful and stubborn temper.After entering the door, Prime Minister Zhang treated her very well, and it didn't matter if she was in his own mansion. Who would laugh at the mistress?But when she went out to socialize, things came up. She couldn't get in the way when others talked about Fengya, and she often spoke inappropriately, and I don't know how many jokes were made.

Gradually, the prime minister's wife didn't like to go out, and she became depressed, and died of illness within two years of getting married.This is a living example, the first wife is not an ordinary position, she is another face of you, don't harm others or yourself at that time. "

The eldest princess spoke softly and slowly released her son. She was really afraid that her son would fall in love with some country girl. If she enters the door, just think about it and you will know that there will be no way to live in the future.The two daughters-in-law over there are one smarter than the other, and they say every word, and they don't know what it means unless they think about it carefully. Even if Luo Jue enters the door, the eldest princess is still worried that two fists will be hard to beat four hands. If Ye Mingxuan really gets her A person with low background and short knowledge, the eldest princess can already meet her future self in this family, I'm afraid she won't be able to stay in this house anymore.

Ye Mingxuan sneered when he heard the words, and blurted out: "Don't be afraid, that little girl has a sharp tongue and extraordinary insight, who can make her angry?"

The eldest princess was taken aback when she heard the words, and looked at her son carefully, with a look of shock on her face, her face became stiff, and she said angrily: "You know what you mean, if that's the case If so, doesn't she know the reason why men and women can't give and receive clearly, so why would she still associate with you? Since she has an affair with you, it can be seen that this person's intentions are not righteous, and I will never agree. You can't have this kind of unruly woman who harms the Yan family."

Ye Mingxuan just blurted out a word, how could he have thought that a hat as big as his mother's would be snapped off, and he was so dizzy that he didn't know why.After thinking about it, seeing the angry face of the eldest princess, I suddenly felt a little headache, and hurriedly explained: "You just look at your own son, he hasn't taken a fancy to your son yet, so hide from me, let me go No matter how fawning, flattering, trying my best to make a beautiful woman smile, and the girl doesn't even look at you from the corner of her eyes, I can't wait to go back to my mother's womb and have a transformation."

All the parents in the world naturally want their children to look after their own family. Hearing what Ye Mingxuan said, the Eldest Princess became even angrier, and said: "You can't even look down on this girl. Her eyes are really high, not to mention your family background. In terms of appearance and knowledge, how many people in this capital are as good as you? Tell me which family's girl is so arrogant at this time, I want to see and see."

"Because your son's conditions are so good, he didn't dare to climb high, so he kept hiding. He didn't even look at the things he gave her and returned them. He looked for a chance to talk to her. When I saw it, I turned around and left. I finally caught him. It was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to confess to her, but in the end I broke up with her. I have never seen such a cruel woman. My heart has been riddled with holes for a long time, but you and your father want me to marry, she I didn't want to see me at all, and I wanted to avoid suspicion when I heard about the girl from the Luo family. I am helpless now, and I am asking my mother to help me find a way. You pity your son. As for the things you are worried about, I dare to shoot I assure you with all my heart, you just need to rest assured, she will definitely not embarrass you." In order to make his mother have a good impression of Zi Jin, Ye Mingxuan tried his best to smear himself, coaxing Gao Zijin's great image, and making her mother-in-law dislike him even before entering the door But taboo.

The more the eldest princess heard it, the more depressed she felt. She raised her eyes to stare at her son, and hated iron and steel when she looked at him: "Look at your talent, and treat other people's daughters as precious as jade. His son is like a idiot?"

Ye Mingxuan giggled, and said with a smile: "Mother, do you think it's rare to see such a person who knows how to advance and retreat? If someone else doesn't know how to move forward, she keeps avoiding me."

The eldest princess looked at Ye Mingxuan, and asked: "Which girl is it that makes you so infatuated? I'm really curious, you can't even look down on Luo Jue, what kind of person can fall into yours?" Eye?"

Ye Mingxuan thought about it for a while, his expression became serious, and he calmed down and said: "I like her just because I like her. Where are there so many reasons? Just like when Mother fell in love with Dad at first sight, what reason does she have? I like her only because I see her When I saw her, she would become happy. When she was young, she was chubby, like a little meat bun. Every frown, smile, and every word can surprise me, and sometimes she will say something amazing. language, often makes everyone very happy..."

The more Ye Mingxuan said, the more suspicious the Eldest Princess became, a vague image surfaced in her mind, she was secretly startled, and suddenly remembered that it was precisely because of what Ye Mingxuan said to her that she went to see that girl, listening to her son The meaning in the words is that you fell in love with him when you were very young?So that brat Ye Mingxuan was going to pave the way for that girl at that time, to make himself treat her differently?This is too scary...

"Are you talking about the fifth girl of the Yao family?" The eldest princess interrupted her son and asked with a straight face.

Ye Mingxuan rubbed his head, and said embarrassedly: "You guessed it?"

"It's so obvious, don't you just want me to guess it?" The eldest princess snorted coldly.

Ye Mingxuan smiled embarrassingly, pulled the eldest princess's sleeve and said in a soft voice: "Mother, for the sake of your son being so pitiful, you agree? You have met the fifth younger sister. She is well-educated, prudent, and has a good hand. He is good at needlework, has read books and often helped old lady Yao copy Buddhist scriptures, can play chess, and writes well, except for his low background, what is not better than Luo Jue?"

"What do you know, this matter is not so easy. The civil and military are inferior, your father is a military general, the Yao family is a civil servant, and our family is a distinguished family, and we are relatives of the emperor. The Yao family is a civil servant of Qingliu. These are different positions and are hostile to each other. Besides, although Yao Qian is upright, he lacks some flexibility. He may be a drag on you in the future. None of the children of the Yao family have achieved fame, and... Yao Qian is now the head of the Hanlin Academy. Many things involve strife among various forces in the court, and he is stubborn. It is safe to be friends, but you have to think more about marrying children and in-laws. "The Eldest Princess' complexion sank, her brows were frowned, she never thought that her son was looking for that little girl Zi Jin whom she liked very much.

To be honest, the eldest princess liked Zijin very much, but it was one thing to like Zijin, but another thing to be a daughter-in-law. (For example: Mother Jia likes Lin Daiyu again, but Xue Baochai is the one she most wants to choose a daughter-in-law for Jia Baoyu. There is a similarity in the same way but the same effect.)

Civil and martial arts are light on each other, and gentlemen are more important to each other. This has been the case in all dynasties and dynasties.The eldest princess has never thought of marrying a civil servant's daughter for her son, and she is only a fifth-rank official. It is really...

"Mother!" Ye Mingxuan shouted, he originally thought that his mother liked Zi Jin so much, so she shouldn't strongly oppose it, but who knew it was just a matter of rules and principles.

"You, it will only add to the chaos. I'm afraid it won't work. Not to mention that I can't get through here, even if I can promise you, I can't get through with your grandmother or your father. You'd better give up your mind." The eldest princess said in a deep voice.

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