Pastoral Five Siblings

"You're just guessing what's in Yuchun's mind? You haven't seen her through all these years?" What exactly does she want? "Zhong Ion thinks that Yuchun's conditions are the most unsuitable for everyone to live in. Everyone has wives and concubines in groups, and the idea of ​​having more children and more blessings, how can they live with one wife, and those old people will not do it.

Even if I agree, the old people will not agree. They will agree for a while in order to get Yuchun. Afterwards, they will definitely rebel and force themselves to take in the house and take concubines. If they really follow the family If you want to, you have to break up with Yuchun. I don't want to end up like that. I want to grow old with Yuchun, how can I separate halfway?

Mother's weirdness, grandpa's ruthlessness, and younger sister's stubbornness are all difficult to deal with. How can it be possible that I don't listen to them?Separated from parents, separated from the family?Wouldn't that be the offspring of disobedience and filial piety?

This matter is really difficult, Chu Li wants to marry Li Xue, and he refuses to take concubines, how will he handle family relations?I can't help but have a good trick: "Chu Li, you promised Li Xue not to take concubines, what good tricks do you have to deal with your family?" Zhong Ionjun asked.

"What's a good idea, just don't listen to them." Chu Li said.

"If you don't listen, they brought in a bunch of daughters of the seventh and eighth aunts and forced them to you, what are you going to do?" Zhong Ionjun asked.

"You want it? Or you want it yourself, don't make excuses, if you dare to take a concubine, I will kill you. If you dare to betray us Yuchun, I will castrate you first." Chu Li angrily said: "Now you give yourself a concubine. Make excuses, there will be more excuses in the future, don't think you don't understand what you think. If you want to prevaricate your family, if you have someone, just do it wantonly."

"I don't mean that. I'm asking you for advice. Is there any good way to keep the family from talking about this matter." Zhong Ionjun asked.

"You think lightly, and your mouth grows on their faces. If you don't let her say it, she won't say it? It mainly depends on what you think. You are full of flirtatious, just trying to make an excuse to do whatever you want, and you will definitely push the responsibility to In the family, what mother's order is hard to disobey, father's order should be obeyed, as long as you are not a puppet, you will not be manipulated by others. It is nonsense to say that you are forced by others. It’s no wonder that you don’t accept concubines.” Chu Li was right, Zhong Ion missed people like them.There is also the possibility of being manipulated by parents?Saying you're at the mercy of your parents is really an excuse.

But how can you be tough with your parents? How can you settle down with your parents if you are not tough?Obedience.If you obey your parents, you are at the mercy of your parents. If you are not at the mercy, you are disobedient. It is really difficult. Chu Li has said so much, but there is no magic spell that can be used by parents: "Say a trick so that your family can't control you. Good move." Zhong Ionjun asked worriedly.

"You are living in vain. The trick is very simple, don't live with your parents." Chu Li said.

"How is that possible? I am the eldest son and the heir, how can I break away from the family?" Zhong Ionjun asked, "Not staying with my parents, not supporting them, not showing filial piety?"

"What's so difficult about it? It's not that you are not filial, nor that you don't support them. You can let your younger brother inherit the family business and move out to live by yourself. Although you don't live together, go back when you want to go back. Be filial if you should be filial. It's not a loss to them, it's enough to be worthy of them. Yuchun is the princess, and there will be a princess mansion, so you have the most reason to come out and live. If you stay far away, it won't stink.

At first they won’t get used to it, but it’ll get better over time. If you don’t live together, you’ll hear less chatter, and you won’t be able to live your mind. Just remember, listen to what your wife says, and don’t listen to gossip. If there are conflicts, if there are no conflicts, you will not think about things, and you will have less trouble. This is how I think. Li Xue is such an honest person, and my "mother" is no match. I decided to give up everything at home. Live a poor life with Li Xue. "Chu Li said all his thoughts.

"If you want to give up, I'm afraid your family will not allow it." Zhong Ionjun said.

"Not necessarily. We are both the eldest son. Don't you understand what your younger brother is thinking? Ziyan is so strong. He is more ambitious than you. He has his eyes on Li Xue. Why do he want to catch Yuchun? He must be thinking about it. Seize the power of Zhongli's family. The source of Zhongli's money is Yuchun. If you control Yuchun, you control the lifeline of Zhongli's family. Yan did things right to your grandfather's heart, so naturally you have to look up to him, the power of Zhongli's family will definitely fall into Ziyan's hands, don't you understand the truth that there is no second day, Ziyan is so strong, how could he If you are willing to fall behind you, you won't grab it openly, and you have already worked hard behind your back.

Your grandfather wants you to accept Yuchun, so he wants to grab it first?It's not that he likes Yuchun, but he is grabbing your grandpa's heart. He thinks that whoever snatches what your grandpa values ​​is the winner. "

"Is it so complicated?" Zhong Ionjun wondered, did Chu Li just think about it, his younger brother is just lustful, does he have so many tricks?

"This is my analysis. You can't be wrong. After you practice it, you will understand. When you say that you don't want Zhong Lijia's family business, just look at your second brother's expression. Then you will obey me. You are a fan of the authorities, and the brotherhood you grew up with won't make you think about that. You are still a compatriot of the same mother, and you are loyal, so how can you be suspicious of your own brother.

Your mother dotes on Ziyan very much. If you marry Yuchun, your mother will favor your younger brother because she doesn't like Yuchun. Yuchun's ability to earn money will make her jealous. She might be happy if you leave the house. .

Just try it and you'll know, it's not that I want to provoke right and wrong, nor do they have hatred with me, I'm just discussing the facts, I want you to be well, let Yuchun be well, I hope you understand, don't take kindness as a donkey's liver and lungs. ?

"It makes sense, it makes sense." After all, Zhong Ionjun is not the head of the dead gourd, and he understands Chu Li's words.

"Anyway, even if I don't want anything, if I abandon my parents and elders for my daughter-in-law, it is also suspected of being unfilial and will be cast aside by the world. We are all scholars, how can we make such a face?" Zhong Ion thinks this is good or not , It’s unreasonable, as long as your parents don’t kick you out, you’re not filial, how can a family live together with one heart and one mind without conflicts, the father is kind and the son is filial, and they live happily.

"Let me tell you, you are still inferior to me. You are in serious trouble. Your mother doesn't like Yuchun. She will let you take a concubine within a few days of marriage. She doesn't want to do anything else. The only thing she wants to do is to scare Yuchun. She, control her, don't let her feel at ease, anyway, Yuchun is not happy, it is her comfort, if what I said is wrong, I will grab my head and kick it like a ball." Chu Li talked eloquently.

"It seems that you have done all these things before. How do you understand it so well? You are full of bad thoughts. What kind of stuff is in your head? Such a strange idea." Zhong Ionjun said with contempt.

"I am the best at analyzing people's hearts, because I have such a "mother" by my side. I know from my own experience that many women, especially those who are mother-in-laws, think that the son was born by her, that the son belongs to her alone, and that the daughter-in-law she likes It's better, if she doesn't like it, she will think that the daughter-in-law has taken away her son, and she feels very uncomfortable.

My "mother" is even worse, she thinks she raised me, she feels a loss, and wants to control me firmly, thinking that I have value, for the benefit of her children, how can she let go of me.

Yuchun gave her half a bowl of porridge in the ruined temple, because Yuchun was a girl, so she hated her that much, fearing that she would get involved with me, she was determined to find a daughter-in-law who could control us firmly.

If she finds a daughter-in-law she doesn't like, she will have to pick her nose and eyes all day long, and she also tightly controls my second brother's marriage.

"So what, if you think about it, it's okay, but if you really do it, it's unreasonable." Zhong Ionjun thought about what he said to his mother. She really couldn't tolerate Yuchun, or she was in a dilemma. I abandoned Yuchun's words.

Now that Yuchun has become the princess, her status has changed drastically. The whole family thinks that the benefits of her marriage are not just a matter of squeezing skills. , even if she is more popular with her, I believe she will not marry into Zhong Li's family.

"Think of a way for me, as long as you don't let Yuchun get in touch with your family, there will be less trouble." Zhong Ionjun said, also worried. In this era, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are inseparable after all. Yuchun might not be able to bear this one, why wouldn't mother make things difficult for Yuchun?This problem is the most difficult to solve.

"Actually, Yuchun has advantages. As long as the emperor grants her a house as the princess's mansion, your family will not be able to live in it. You can separate it by yourself. Yuchun doesn't have to serve several generations of old people. There are few people to see each other, only on the New Year's Day, if you don't want to stay longer, stay less, and there will be no trouble." Chu Li said the best way, but there are also disadvantages. If Mrs. Zhongli wants to make things difficult for Yuchun, she will also He will think of tricks, and tie Zhong Ionjun at home, which can also cure Yuchun.

Chu Li thinks about it, it is best for Yuchun not to marry Zhong Ionjun, the two sides have already caused an emotional rift, no matter how they get along in the future, it will always be difficult to bridge: "Zijun, I will give you a piece of advice, Don't pull Yuchun into the water, take your thoughts away, Yuchun is still young, and things may happen in the future, so don't wait anymore, Yuchun is not suitable for you, so don't pester her.

As far as your family is concerned, looking at Yuchun's identity, you are envious, and you are jealous of his humble background. You want to take advantage of him, but you are also full of disgust, and you don't understand your family's mentality. "When Chu Li said this, Zhong Ion didn't want to listen, so he gave Chu Li a look and snorted.

"Isn't your family the same kind of virtue? They think highly of Li Xue? You will be in even more trouble. How do you tell your family?" Zhong Ionjun felt that Chu Li's result was difficult to do.

"What's difficult in my family? My father is not as cunning as your grandfather. He is just a rough man, not so difficult to get along with. As long as my "mother" is under pressure, he will be honest." Chu Li said. (To be continued. If you like this work, you are welcome to vote for recommendations and monthly tickets. Your support is my biggest motivation.)

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