Director's growth history

Kong Shuanghua let out a "wow" and burst into tears. 【@】Mother Kong felt sorry for her daughter and complained: "Old Kong, why are you turning your elbows outward? It's fine if you don't help your own daughter, but why are you helping outsiders?"

Confucius Tian said: "Xiao Hua, don't cry, listen to what Dad said about this matter, and see if what Dad said makes sense?"

Kong Shuanghua wiped away tears and looked at his father.Is this father the one who loves me and lets me act like a baby?She couldn't read it a little bit.

"Xiaohua, as a leader, you always hope to start from the overall situation of the school. For the sake of the overall situation, you can sacrifice some unimportant things. I already understand what you said. If I were the principal, what I have to do now is to ensure that Fangyuan got good grades in the provincial class, this is the biggest thing in the school at present, other things have to give way to this, including you Kong Shuanghua. If it is not because of the importance of this matter, the deputy dean will be dismissed You and that Song Sisi both like Fangyuan, but it has affected Fangyuan's preparation for provincial class. Of course, the school will not let you continue to exert psychological pressure on Fangyuan. So, I understand the school's leaders very well. In this matter, the school The leader's decision is correct, Xiaohua, you are making trouble for no reason."

Listening to his father criticizing him for being unreasonable, Kong Shuanghua's tears flowed out like beads.Mother Kong said distressedly: "Old Kong, Xiaohua is still young, how can you say that about her?"

"My wife, Xiaohua has been working for almost 4 years, that is, she has been in the society for almost 4 years. She should know some social things. After all, she will live independently in the future. We will grow old one day. I don't care if you spoil her in life." Object, but in terms of being a person and doing things, you should teach her how to correctly handle the relationship between people and things. So Xiaohua, "Kong Zitian turned around and faced Kong Shuanghua, "You have not done very well in several things these days. Okay, dad said it out, it’s best if you understand it, if you don’t understand it, go back and think about it slowly, and then tell me after you think it through. The first thing is that you shouldn’t contradict the leader. If the leader has done something wrong, under normal circumstances, It has nothing to do with you, and you don’t need to say it; if the leader does something right, but you contradict the leader, this is a big taboo in society. To give a very simple example, I am the dean of the School of Administration. If a teacher dares to talk to me like that, I will fire him immediately. Believe it or not? Xiaohua, you are 25 years old, and you should understand these principles. At home, you can be a little princess, a little emperor, and your father and mother are responsible for many things. You can leave it to yourself, but this is not the case in society, which has its own set of 'hidden rules'."