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"Xiaoya," Zhao Dafu said, "how about you, don't tell mom about keeping up with the times. [ ] If you make mom mad again, then you are not a filial daughter."

"Mom, I'm sorry."

"Xiaoya, when it comes to life and love, you must be rigorous to allow yourself to live a happy life. Maybe in other aspects we should keep pace with the times and keep up with the pace of the times, but in life, love, marriage, etc. On the one hand, there are still some good things in Chinese tradition that should be inherited and carried forward. I have never heard that a girl with a casual sex life will have a boy willing to marry her as a wife, and I have never heard that such a girl can have A happy and harmonious marriage and family.” Yang Fang felt that it was necessary to explain her point of view to her daughter, and she knew that the generation born in the 80s was actually facing a crisis in many aspects.During her illness, when she was free, she would read the "Binhai Metropolis Daily" bought by Su Yu'e. She remembered that there was something in today's newspaper, so she found it.

"Xiaoya, this is today's "Binhai Metropolis Daily". Take a look, the headline on page 2 announced the statistics of marriages and divorces in Binhai City by the Municipal Women's Federation in 2004. In this year, there were 5 people in Binhai City. Among the 3 divorced couples, 3 of the 1.8 divorced couples were divorced within a year of marriage, and 70% of the divorced couples within a year were only children. Lao Zhao, in a moment You also read this report, when I read it, I was very worried!"

"Yes, Xiaoya, father and mother hope that you will have a happy family and a husband who loves you in the future, and hope that you two will strive to excel in your respective jobs." Zhao Dafu continued Yang Fang's words, "We don't want our daughter to get married and leave the knot as reported. Such days will be very painful."

"Dad, Mom, I know everything. Don't worry, I won't sleep with men casually. I will only sleep with my husband in the future. That's fine. But how can I guarantee that my future husband will be Didn't you sleep with other women besides me?"

"So, Xiaoya, it's very important to choose a boy with good character and good manners as your boyfriend. You know Fang Yuan. He came to our house last summer before you returned to school, and he still remembers me. ?"