Director's growth history

1077, Fangyuan is just Yao Changqing's special tool

Yao Xuan should be 16 years old. [-] In Fangyuan's impression, Yao Xuan is still very polite, but because of the lack of contact with other aspects, I don't have a deep impression. Around the age of 16 is a critical period for the formation of a person's outlook on the world and life. What kind of family they have often determines what kind of path the child will take in the future.Divorce, the psychological impact on Yao Xuan can be imagined!Comparing my heart to my heart, if I were Yao Xuan, I'm afraid I can't accept it psychologically!Fang Yuan suddenly thought of his son who was about to be born, if his son was as old as Yao Xuan, and the relationship between himself and his wife Kong Shuanghua couldn't go on, would his son hate him?What kind of impact will it have on the growth of the son?Yes, this is a problem that I have to face.

Faced with such a situation, Fang Yuan really didn't know how to comfort Yao Changqing.But Yao Changqing's pained expression also made Fangyuan feel a deep pain: for the sake of the children, sometimes there is a need to compromise in marriage, it is better not to divorce or not.

Toasts and chips staggered.In the exchange of glasses with Fangyuan, Yao Changqing talked about his 17-year relationship with his ex-wife Miao Qianqian, the love story back then, and how Miao Qianqian's parents They all disagreed with her marrying him, especially Miao Deyu, Miao Qianqian's eldest brother, who at that time showed the style of a big brother of a worker, picking his nose and eyes.Speaking of this, Yao Changqing burst into tears: "Qianqian said, I am a good person, so there is nothing to be afraid of being poor. As long as I am a good person, it is more important than anything else. Qianqian is determined to marry me, and her family has no choice but to marry me. I had to agree. But in the first few years of marriage, every time I went to her house, I became a second-class citizen. But Qianqian is very good, especially after having a son, we both respect and love each other, support each other, en Love love. With the promulgation of the "Teacher Law" in 1996, the salary of teachers has increased year by year, while the salary of workers has to follow the efficiency of enterprises. Many people were laid off and unemployed. And the teacher, the smelly old nine, gradually became the fragrant old nine. After the salary was improved, my relationship with Qianqian became better."

Yao Changqing seems to be immersed in memories, it can be seen that Yao Changqing has not forgotten Miao Qianqian until now, he still misses Miao Qianqian, and still has deep feelings for Miao Qianqian.Since the relationship is so deep, Fang Yuan can't figure it out, why the two want to divorce?

Yao Changqing said: "Actually, I don't hate Qianqian at all from the bottom of my heart. My father-in-law ate too much oil and water, and died of myocardial infarction. The whole family, except Qianqian and second uncle, blamed me for the crime. He said it was because the old man was eaten to death by the New Year’s goods I sent home during the Chinese New Year. That Miao Deyu even jumped up and scolded me. I can bear it, because I know Qianqian doesn’t believe it. But at this time, I have to think about divorce. There is nothing I can do! Thinking back to those days before the divorce, every time I frown at Qianqian, every time I see Qianqian's heartbroken and forced smile, my heart is bleeding Qianqian is a good woman and a good wife, she should not be punished, I should be punished! But I have no choice, I have to divorce. In order to make up for my guilt towards Qianqian, I gave Qianqian the house, the family I also gave Qianqian all the savings, and I didn’t want anything valuable at home, so I went out. I owe Qianqian, and I have to wait until my next life to pay back.”

"Gudong Gudong." Another glass of wine was drank down.Listening to these incoherent but affectionate words, Fang Yuan never understood why she wanted a divorce since she loved her so much?Yao Changqing didn't say anything, and Fang Yuan couldn't ask at all.In fact, Yao Changqing is able to utter these inner thoughts, he already regards me as a bosom friend.This is a trust, which is a responsibility.

Yao Changqing said: "Yao Xuan has always hoped that we can be loving and harmonious like the 2008 years before the Spring Festival in 17. But it's all over. Yao Xuan hates me, he sympathizes with his mother, he is a very righteous and kind-hearted My good boy. It’s my fault, I’m a bad guy. But Xuanxuan, do you know? Even if I’m a bad guy, I still love you! Because you are my son, I’m your father, and we have blood Connected!"

A man in his 40s, in tears!It seems that this is the pain and helplessness that has been accumulated in Yao Changqing's heart for a long time.Today, at this moment when only Fang Yuan was with him, Yao Changqing seemed to have found someone to confide in.How many days have passed, and I feel uncomfortable in my heart!Qianqian is a good woman, but love and family affection are so fragile at the critical moment that concerns the future of fate!It is not difficult to continue to maintain a marriage relationship with Qianqian, and it is not difficult to return to the way it was before, because a smile on her face can make Qianqian happy for several days. This marriage is full of vitality like spring; but will it work?Liu Mei's belly is getting bigger and bigger. If there are no accidents, she will give birth in mid-to-late October.If it is a child born outside of marriage, in a word, it will end up the same as Liu Ming!Even Director Zhai still wants to protect Yao Changqing, but what about Director Zhai's political opponents?Will they let Director Zhai go?Will they let me go, Yao Changqing?If there is no principal position, if there is no teacher's salary, can the marriage with Miao Qianqian be maintained?Wouldn't the Miao family have turned upside down even more!The relationship with Liu Mei may still exist, because I can run Songbai Culture Economic and Trade Co., Ltd., but I can no longer have the final say like now. To a certain extent, I have become a vassal of the family and Liu Mei's support people.The only way to keep the principal's position is to resolutely divorce Miao Qianqian and marry Liu Mei in a low-key manner.However, by doing this by himself, how much harm has been caused to Qianqian!How much harm did it bring to the growing son Yao Xuan!I still remember that night, when Yao Changqing took out the divorce agreement and put it in front of Miao Qianqian, Miao Qianqian burst into tears.Yao Changqing still clearly remembers Miao Qianqian's words, "Changqing, don't leave me, don't leave this house, I admit that you beat me and scolded me, I can't leave you!" Yao Changqing's heart was cut like a knife.But what can be done?Yao Changqing said: "Qianqian, you are a good woman, and I am not a good man. I have no choice but to divorce, really no choice. I divorce you, the house belongs to you, and all the savings in the family belong to you. I don't want anything. I'll go out." Miao Qianqian knelt down in front of Yao Changqing with a plop, hugged Yao Changqing's leg, and never let go.Yao Changqing still can't forget the crying scene: "Changqing, don't leave me. If you leave, I can't live anymore! You can show me a cold face, as long as you return to this home! I know that my elder brother is sorry for you, I know my mother is sorry for you! Didn’t you tell me not to go home again? I agree, I agree, I will never go back! Changqing, don’t leave me, don’t leave this house! Woooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo "Yao Changqing's heart was shaken by crying, whoever meets such a virtuous wife, who has the heart to hurt her, is really a bastard!"And now, isn't he just being this bastard?Yao Changqing hardened his heart and said, "You still have to live well. Your son Yao Xuan has not grown up yet, so you still have responsibilities! I am not a good husband, nor a good father! I also have to fulfill my responsibilities. After divorce, I will deposit at least 10 yuan into your salary account every month, there is no limit to more, at least 1000 yuan. Qianqian, I must divorce you, it is useless for you to cry."

The door was knocked open, Yao Xuan's eyes were fierce, and he rushed forward: "You are not my father, you are a bastard, you are a bastard!" Punch after punch, hit Yao Changqing's chest, hit Yao Changqing's face superior.Yao Changqing's nose was bleeding, but he didn't move. This is owed to the two of them. This is the punishment he deserves!Miao Qianqian hugged her son's leg: "Don't hit, don't hit your father, he is your real father!"

Yao Xuan yelled: "Why don't you run away? Why don't you fight back? Huh, huh, huh..." Seeing his father with a bleeding nose, Yao Xuan couldn't beat him anymore, sat on the ground, and Miao Qianqian Hug my head and cry.

Yao Changqing's heart was broken.So what if it's broken?If you get divorced, you will be safe, and Miao Qianqian and Yao Xuan will have no worries about food and clothing; if you don't divorce, you will have nothing. Isn't that good?Miao Qianqian stood up, took the facial tissue, and wanted to wipe it for Yao Changqing.Yao Changqing pushed Miao Qianqian's hand away, and said calmly: "I will pay for Yao Xuan's school expenses, whether it is high school or college in the future. This is my responsibility! Qianqian, you should sign the divorce agreement." , I’ll go out, the house, savings, home appliances, everything belongs to you! I am sorry for you and my son, but I have made up my mind and I will not look back!”

Yao Changqing left the house with the signed agreement wet with tears and a nosebleed that was not wiped.Behind them were Miao Qianqian and Yao Xuan crying.It's my fault, I should be punished alone, why should I hurt my good wife, why should I hurt my good son?Yao Changqing also burst into tears.

Back at Liu Mei's rented home, Liu Mei was startled by Yao Changqing's face. Seeing the blood on her lips, Liu Mei also felt heartbroken. She quickly brought hot water and asked Yao Changqing to sit down and wipe it carefully.Liu Mei said: "How could Miao Qianqian treat you like this?" Yao Changqing closed his eyes, his heart ached like a knife: "I deserve it. I feel better after hitting me!" Taking out the divorce from her arms, The agreement was placed by the bedside, and Liu Mei knew that her forced marriage plan was complete!Yao Changqing treats Miao Qianqian so much, he is a good man; he will treat himself like this in the future.Liu Mei looked at this mature man who closed his eyes and accepted her wiping, thinking that from today onwards he would really only belong to her, she still couldn't help showing a sly smile at the corner of her mouth.

Divorce, remarriage, everything is very low-key.During this period, Yao Changqing's father was so angry that he wanted to sever the father-son relationship with Yao Changqing. Yao Changqing's father said, "You don't recognize this daughter-in-law. Your mother and I recognize this daughter-in-law. Qianqian is always my daughter-in-law and my own." girl.Yao Changqing could only keep silent.At school, at work, at meetings, Yao Changqing's impression of outsiders has not changed, but Yao Changqing knows the pain in his heart.This pain is not so easy to heal the wound, maybe this pain will last a lifetime.Half a month has passed, and a month has passed. Yao Changqing really wants to know how Miao Qianqian is doing now, and how his son is doing now.It's not easy to call my ex-wife, so I call my son. After several phone conversations, they all broke up unhappy.On Liu Mei's side, she spent 70 yuan to buy a 140-square-meter four-bedroom apartment as a future new house for her, Yao Changqing, and their upcoming child. After all, you have to take care of the children!The child's room is temporarily prepared for the child's grandmother to live in. When the child is about to be born, the mother will be taken over to help take care of the child.For Yao Changqing, Liu Mei's warm kiss in the morning, a greeting phone call at noon, and an elegant dinner in the evening, not only kept Yao Changqing's heart, but also kept Yao Changqing's stomach.Liu Mei was very happy. She knew that it would take time for Yao Changqing to completely forget his ex-wife, but she could endure the humiliation of forced marriage. Now this is her own man. Are you afraid that he will not forget?

So Yao Changqing really seemed to have fallen into the pile of blessings.Smiling in front of my colleagues, smiling happily in front of my new wife, but the pain in my heart has become a big reservoir with nowhere to vent. More and more water is leaking into the reservoir, but I don’t know how to drain it.Thinking of Fangyuan, it was not only about his son, but he also found someone he could talk to with confidence.Under the stimulation of alcohol, Yao Changqing finally expressed his guilt and nostalgia for Miao Qianqian and Yao Xuan happily.

Yao Changqing was drunk, drunk to a mess; Yao Changqing was sober, Yao Changqing knew that Fang Yuan would definitely take care of Yao Xuan, and Fang Yuan would definitely tell Yao Xuan what he said today; Yao Xuan would also tell these words to Miao Qianqian .that's enough!No one is more trustworthy than Fang Yuan, no one is more reassuring than Fang Yuan!Of course, Yao Changqing refused to disclose the reason for the divorce, and Yao Changqing did not tell Fangyuan about the news of his marriage to his new wife.It is inappropriate to say such a thing at this time.When the time is ripe in the future, everyone will gradually know about it, and everyone will accept it.Now that it has spread, there is only one social response: Yao Changqing changed his mind and was seduced by younger girls. He is a typical Chen Shimei.This is a result that Yao Changqing absolutely cannot accept!

Fang Yuan also shed a lot of tears with Yao Changqing. Although he didn't know why Yao Changqing divorced, there must have been unspeakable difficulties.Fang Yuan didn't ask, although he was a little curious.Fang Yuan has really been educated. After much deliberation, he still feels that it is better to treat his wife Kong Shuanghua; Feelings, tell Yao Xuan.Fang Yuan wants to tell Yao Xuan, don't hate Dad, in this world, Dad, like Mom, is still the one who loves Yao Xuan the most!