Director's growth history

Fangyuan rushed out of the house rented by her parents, regretting it in her heart: no matter how many unbearable living habits her father had, he was still her own father, who raised her and provided for her from primary school to college graduation loved ones!What happened today, it is obvious that the father did not recognize the harm of smoking to the child, the father is at fault; is there no better way to solve this problem?If there was a more suitable way, why did he make his father so angry that he became a bastard and a white-eyed wolf like now?More importantly, in the house rented by my father, there was also a reason for my father not to smoke at home in the future, so he invited him to go back to his father-in-law's house for dinner. How can he go to eat in this state?The old people on both sides are angry, and they are all angry, but they barely sit together, how can they eat this meal?

Alas, it's not easy being a son;It's past 18 o'clock, and my parents should be hungry, so I have to find a way to solve the problem of eating. 【-】Looking at the building where the mother-in-law's house is, and then at the building where the parents live, Fang Yuan sighed heavily.

Walking out of the community, I found the familiar small restaurant, and asked the restaurant to stir-fry two dishes that Fang Yuan thought her parents would usually like to eat, and bought two bowls of porridge and two steamed buns.People depend on food, and people always have to eat.No matter how angry my father is, he still wants to eat.This matter, let mom persuade dad again.If you can't persuade him, and your father must go back, then go back.Fortunately, I have a confidante like Shao Keqing, and I should be able to get better care along the way when I go back to the Northeast. I take the train from Dongzhou to Shanghai, and then transfer from Shanghai to Dongzhou. With Sister Shao's strength at the bottom of the car, she can completely command it.Originally, he wanted to keep his parents to live in Dongzhou for a longer period of time, but Fang Yuan had a vague worry that after the son was born, there would be more disharmonious factors between his father, his mother-in-law, father-in-law, and Kong Shuanghua, and there were many differences in concepts, Differences in philosophy will accumulate more and even break out conflicts between two completely different families.I never thought before that there would be such a big conflict between the peasant family and the senior intellectual family. I thought that if I entered the Confucian family, my peasant habits and peasant consciousness would be eliminated over a long period of time. Now it seems that, As an unidentified young man, I am very malleable, and my peasant habits and consciousness have almost been transformed into nothing. Now that my parents have come, I am standing still in terms of concepts and habits. When it comes to the opposite of the father, it becomes more and more consistent with the father-in-law and mother-in-law.How can he not make his father angry with this appearance?

Suddenly received a call from Kong Shuanghua, Fangyuan answered: "Shuanghua, what's the matter?" Kong Shuanghua said: "Husband, where are you now?" Fangyuan said: "Where is my small restaurant at the entrance of the community?" Kong Shuanghua said: "You What are you doing?" Fang Yuan said, "Buy some food for my parents and I'm going to send them there." Kong Shuanghua said, "Aren't your parents coming over for dinner?" Fang Yuan said, "Now, the old people on both sides are angry. Tonight Let them have some food by themselves." Kong Shuanghua said, "That's great."

This sentence made Fang Yuan feel too harsh, but Fang Yuan held back and did not refute Kong Shuanghua.What is "too good"?Father-in-law and mother-in-law are also parents!Thinking that his son was about to be born, it was really inappropriate to provoke his wife at this time.Fang Yuan said: "Mom and Dad won't go home for dinner tonight. It's better to have dinner together when the anger of the elderly on both sides is gone. After all, we are a family!" Topic: "Fang Yuan, when are you going home?" Fang Yuan said, "I'll deliver the food, and I'll be back." Kong Shuanghua said, "Okay, come back quickly. Mom has already cooked the food, waiting for you."

Fangyuan took the prepared meals and returned to the house rented by her parents again.Gently knocking on the door, it was Mother Fang.Fang Yuan said: "Mom, I bought some food for your second elder, let's eat some for dinner." Fang's mother said: "There are so many, I can't eat." Fang Yuan said: "I have already turned on the refrigerator. Put the rest in the refrigerator. After I finish dinner, I will go to the supermarket to buy some necessities for my mother." Fang's mother said, "Why don't you come over to eat together?" Fang Yuan said, "I originally wanted to invite You and Dad went to your father-in-law's house for dinner, but now Dad is angry, so we have to spend the night first." Fang's mother said, "Come in, Mom has a word with you." Fang Yuan entered the door, and Fang's mother locked the door Take it and say: "Yuanyuan, we can do whatever we want, just don't be wronged. People regard us as outsiders, as old farmers who don't understand any rules, look down on us, we admit it. As long as they Hello, my parents are half buried, it doesn't matter if we eat together or not." Fang Yuan felt that tears were about to flow down, mother, always a loving mother.Fang Yuan said: "Mom, I'm fine, and they treat me very well." Fang's mother said: "If they are really nice to you, they can't just yell at me and your dad like reprimanding dogs like they are now. I have no education, but I have lived for more than 60 years, and I can understand some things. Yuanyuan, tell mom the truth, did you really get the injury on your shoulder at school?"

Fangyuan's tears flowed down involuntarily.Mother Fang said: "My son! You are the flesh that fell from my mother's body. You are tearing the bones and connecting the tendons! Did you suffer a wrong at your father-in-law's house? I am afraid that my mother will worry, so I dare not tell my mother!" Fang Yuan was a little choked up: "Mom, I'm really doing well at my mother-in-law's house." Fang's mother said, "Son, Mom knows you have ambition and you have your pursuit. If your father and mother come to Dongzhou to affect your Mom and Dad will go back. Mom will remember Yuanyuan's words, and one day in the future, when your career develops well, your dad and I will come to Dongzhou to take care of the elderly and live a good life." Fang Yuan nodded vigorously.Fang's mother said: "I have discussed it with your father. When my grandson is born, I will give my grandson the money for a happy meeting, and your father and I will go back." Fang Yuan couldn't help crying: "Mom!" The son hugged him and said: "Your father has been smoking dry tobacco for more than 40 years, and he can't change it even if he wants to. After you left just now, your father said, go to your father-in-law's house and stop smoking. If you want to smoke, just go back Come here to smoke. Dad and Mom are the people who love you the most in this world, and Dad and Mom will not make things difficult for their son!" Fang Yuan said, "Mom!" He was speechless again.

Fang's mother said: "Your father's anger has not completely subsided, I will persuade him again. All his life, he has the final say at home, and he must feel uncomfortable when he goes to Dongzhou to be yelled at by his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Helping him speak, of course he is angry. Yuanyuan, you have to remember, no matter what, he is your father, your real father!" Fang Yuan said, "I know, Mom." Fang's mother said: "You go back, your dad and I will eat by ourselves. Tomorrow morning, we will cook and eat by ourselves. If not, we will go to the street to buy and eat. I saw porridge, fried dough sticks and steamed stuffed buns outside the community. We won't go Your mother-in-law's home has breakfast." Fang Yuan said, "Mom, isn't my mother-in-law's cooking delicious?" Fang's mother said, "It's not a matter of whether it's delicious or not, it's because your father and I don't want to see them throw it out. face." Fang Yuan sighed and left the house rented by his parents.

When Fangyuan came home, the food on the table hadn't moved at all, the mother-in-law and wife were waiting for Fangyuan!Seeing Fang Yuan coming back, Kong Shuanghua stood up happily: "Husband, come and sit down!" Fang Yuan saw his mother-in-law was also smiling, not at all crying like she was when she came home in the evening, Fang Yuan guessed that his wife must have told her about it. Mother-in-law, the news that his parents won't come to eat, or why there are only three sets of bowls and chopsticks on the table?Fang Yuan pretended not to know, and said, "Aren't you all starving? Don't wait for me." Kong's mother said, "What can I do? Zitian is not here, and you are the backbone of the family!" Fang Yuan said, "It's too late. I’m worried that mom and Shuanghua will starve.” Kong Shuanghua said: “I’m a little hungry, but there are many delicious snacks at home, I can eat them!” Fangyuan said: “I’m really hungry.”

The taste of the food was very good, but Fang Yuan had no taste for it.What her mother said made Fang Yuan feel very sad. She originally thought that there would be conflicts between her parents-in-law and her parents, and she had imagined several possible ways to reconcile the conflicts that might arise, but she never expected that the conflicts would come so quickly and completely. Unexpectedly, smoking would also cause such a big conflict between the elderly on both sides.It's only been two days since my parents came to Dongzhou!

Kong Shuanghua kept looking at Fangyuan. Seeing that he was so silent and calm, he couldn't help asking: "My husband, why don't you talk?" Fangyuan said: "The food is delicious, I didn't expect to say anything." Kong Shufang said: "Xiaohua , eat your food." Kong Shuanghua said: "Tell me about the school, I'm bored at home alone." Fang Yuan said: "School? I've been tired all day, I really don't It took a lot of effort to talk." Kong Shuanghua said: "You want to talk! I want to hear it, I want to hear it!"

If it wasn't for her parents, Fang Yuan might hug Kong Shuanghua and tell her about the day's events, but right now she really isn't interested.If it was normal, this kind of coquettishness would not make Fang Yuan disgusted. Although there is still a big gap between this kind of coquettishness and Shao Keqing's coquettishness and Wen Ruoxing's childlike innocence, but now, it makes Fangyuan feel a little disgusted and a little uncomfortable. resistance.Fang Yuan said: "Let's talk after dinner, can we eat now?" Kong Shuanghua said: "No, I want to listen now."

Fang Yuan felt anger rising in his heart again.Fang Yuan put down his chopsticks and said, "Okay, now I will tell you about my day at school!" Fang Yuan started talking about his day at school, and the experience of the day was really impressive. It was such a busy and tiring day!After Fangyuan finished speaking, Kong Shufang and Kong Shuanghua were a little stunned.Kong Shufang said: "Xiao Fang, you are still injured, you can't work so hard, if this exhausts you, what will Xiaohua and I do?" Fang Yuan said: "Actually, I work every day. Basically, they are all busy like this. Mom, I am very tired. I am already very tired when I get home, and I have to worry about things at home. Xiaohua, let me have a quiet meal, okay?" Kong Shuanghua said: "I have to Call Principal Yang Fang, how can my husband be so tired? Isn’t this using my husband as a donkey?” Fang Yuan said: “Do you think that Principal Yang is not tired? There are more than 3000 teachers and students in the school. , Why don’t you need Principal Yang’s decision? What’s wrong, why don’t you need Principal Yang to take responsibility? Shuanghua, you have also been a teacher, and you know the hard work of being a teacher; If you also take the main course, it will be harder than ordinary teachers." Kong Shufang said: "Yes, Xiao Fang is too hard. Xiao Hua, eat, let Xiao Fang rest." Kong Shuanghua said: "Understood. But you shouldn't With such a long face, we are not in a good mood to eat!"

I really can't eat this meal.Fangyuan stood up: "I won't eat. I'm going to the mall to buy some daily food for my parents. You can eat." Kong Shufang said: "I'm so tired, how can I not eat? Xiaohua, what's wrong with you? Xiaofang tired, you should be more understanding and considerate as a wife, how can there be someone like you?" Kong Shufang persuaded Fangyuan again: "Xiaofang, Shuanghua hasn't seen you for a day , I miss you in my heart, and hope that you can talk to her more, and you understand! Sit down, and go buy it for your parents after you are full. If you don’t have enough money, Mom has it here. "

Fang Yuan sat down, but she didn't want to get into trouble with her parents-in-law and wife at this moment.There are enough troubles, this Kong Shuanghua, is still adding trouble at this time?Alas, was my original choice wrong?Fang Yuan asked herself silently in her heart.

Kong Shuanghua said: "I'm sorry, my husband. Your smile is very important to me. When you smile, my heart lightens up. I'm not happy when you look sullen. I know you're in a bad mood. You can eat, I won't affect you anymore. .”

There was no more words at the dinner table, and the dinner became dull.However, Kong Shufang still picked the essence of the dish into the round bowl chopstick by chopstick.After listening to Fangyuan's talk about her experiences during the day, Kong Shufang's heart was also bleeding: "My son-in-law is really good at fighting. If he looks like this, he must eat more good food to make up for it!"Tomorrow morning, I must let my son-in-law drink a bowl of nourishing soup at home before going to work. Tonight, I will prepare it for my son-in-law.

After Fangyuan finished his meal, he said to Kong Shufang and Kong Shuanghua: "Take care at home. I'll go to the mall and buy something for my parents." Kong Shufang said: "Wait a minute."

Kong Shufang ran to her bedroom, and came out again in a blink of an eye: "Xiao Fang, here is 2000 yuan. You take it. If your in-laws need anything, you can buy it." Fang Yuan said, "Mom, I still have money on me." "Kong Shufang said: "Your money is your money, this is my mother's kindness, take it quickly." Fang Yuan took it and said to Kong Shufang: "Thank you, Mom." Kong Shufang said: "Thank you for what Thank you, we are all one family, don't talk about two families. Go early and return early." Fang Yuan said: "Got it, Mom. I'm afraid I can't return early. I still want to communicate with my parents and talk. I I have persuaded my father to smoke in the afternoon, and I will talk about it in the evening. The health of Shuanghua and the child is very important. No matter what, I must try to prevent my father from smoking at home." Kong Shufang said: "Yes, smoking has many disadvantages. To persuade him."

When Fangyuan was shopping for all kinds of food and non-staple food for his parents in the mall, he received a call from Shao Keqing.After saying hello, Shao Keqing said, "Brother, you are in a bad mood, aren't you?" Fang Yuan sighed, and said, "A little bit." Shao Keqing was secretly happy, and said, "Come to my sister, and tell her Let me just say, relax here, sister."

Fangyuan's heart moved.Fang Yuan said: "I'm in the mall to buy some daily necessities for my parents!" Shao Keqing said: "Are you alone?" Fang Yuan said: "Yes." Shao Keqing said: "That's just right, and there is no need to ask for leave. □Let’s go to my house, my sister has finished washing at home, and I’m waiting for you.” Fang Yuan didn’t even think about it, and immediately agreed: “Okay.”