Director's growth history

Faced with the nail-like questions of his father-in-law, Fang Yuan simply couldn't answer them. 【&】To say against his will that he loves Kong Shuanghua wholeheartedly, I am afraid that his father-in-law will not believe it; if he honestly says that he does not particularly love Kong Shuanghua, that is simply asking for his own death.Father-in-law is a master, this is unavoidable, while learning many things from him, trying to lie and play smart in front of him, it is really more difficult than going to heaven.

But now, there is no more time to think about how to answer is the most perfect.Fang Yuan decided to tell his father-in-law some of his true thoughts in his heart, to prepare for the worst, but still to work hard for the good.Fang Yuan said: "Dad, I still love Shuanghua. Shuanghua is a very kind and dedicated girl. She is devoted to me, and I know it very well. In front of Dad, I can only be honest and truthful. Report my inner thoughts, let me love Shuanghua wholeheartedly, I can do it before marriage; after marriage, I feel that I don’t love Shuanghua as much as I did before marriage.”

Kong Zitian's face was very ugly, he was very disappointed by what his son-in-law said, but at the same time he had some comfort: Fang Yuan did not lie to him, he told the truth.Kong Zitian said: "Why don't you love Xiaohua like you did before you got married?" Fang Yuan raised his head and looked at Kong Zitian without fear: "Dad, since you asked about this matter today, I will also tell you what I think in my heart. You confess. If you feel that I am no longer worthy of your daughter, then I will withdraw wisely; if you think that Shuanghua and I still have hope of returning to the past, then I will work hard in this direction." Confucius Tian Feeling that my heart sank a bit: "Speak." Fang Yuan said with a righteous expression: "Dad, I fell in love with Shuanghua and decided to marry Shuanghua. This is my own choice. Shuanghua showed a lot of attractiveness before marriage. My strengths: I am motivated at work and care about me in life. In the process of preparing for my classes, Shuanghua brought meals to school many times, which made me feel her love for me. Under such circumstances, I found that I also fell in love with Shuanghua. At that time, there were several female teachers who also expressed their love in various ways, but since I decided to establish a relationship with Shuanghua, I firmly rejected other people. , wholeheartedly talked about love with Shuanghua until they got married. I believe that you, Dad, basically understand this process.” Kong Zitian said: “I know. I heard that there is an entrepreneur named Song Dacheng. Daughter Song Sisi also liked you very much, didn’t she?” Fang Yuan nodded: “Yes.” Kong Zitian said: “Then after marriage, is there any difference from before marriage?” Fang Yuan said: “Yes. After marriage, I Do you know how many times I was scolded by Shuanghua? Do you know how badly I was scolded by Shuanghua? Do you know how many times I was beaten by Shuanghua? Dad, maybe you know some, but maybe you don’t know some! Dad, I am also a man, a positive young man. In the unit, I am the teaching director and the vice principal, and I have my own face and dignity, but when I come home, does Shuanghua give me such face and dignity? No Once screamed, tell me to get out of Kong’s house, and never come back again; used to be hoarse, let me die; once bit down on my shoulder, and I got eight stitches! Dad, wife loves husband , Is there such a thing as letting your husband go, let your husband die, and even bite your husband's shoulder like this?"

Kong Zitian knew all the examples Fang Yuan gave.Kong Zitian sighed: "Xiaohua is also doted on by your mother, and sometimes she can't handle it properly." Fang Yuan said, "Yes. I usually do it the way I usually do. Dad, you have seen it too. The salary card Hand in, although I don’t have much money; after pregnancy, as long as I don’t go on business, I walk with her every day; when I don’t work overtime on weekends, I always stay with her. I know that she sometimes has a bad temper, and she is always humble Yes, never looking for trouble. I just hope that through my respect, care and consideration for her, I will win her respect, care and consideration for me. But what do I get in exchange for my respect, care and consideration? She treats me How much respect? How much care and consideration? Under such an unequal relationship between husband and wife, can I love Shuanghua wholeheartedly?"

Confucius Tian felt that his heart was a little cold: "So, you don't love Xiaohua anymore?" Fang Yuan said: "No, I still love Shuanghua. Because of Fang Rui, I still love Shuanghua. Hua is Fang Rui's biological mother; because I love this family, you who are knowledgeable, and your hardworking and kind mother, I still love Shuanghua; every time I think of Shuanghua's kindness to me before marriage, every time I think of The pain Shuanghua suffered during the 10 months of pregnant Fangrui can make me love Shuanghua. Dad, please allow me to be honest, do I put all my thoughts on loving Shuanghua? My answer is , No! I am willing to put more energy into my work, because I can find a sense of accomplishment, self-confidence and dignity in my work.”

Confucius was silent.It can be seen that what Fang Yuan said today is from the heart.Being able to speak out what was in his heart at least proved that Fang Yuan still trusted him as his father-in-law.But Kong Zitian was also conflicted: Fang Yuan no longer loves Kong Shuanghua so much, is it necessary to maintain this marriage?Can a son-in-law who doesn't love his daughter very much bring happiness to his daughter?If the daughter divorces her son-in-law, can the daughter find another young man with potential like Fang Yuan?However, Fang Yuan does not love his daughter wholeheartedly. Of course, it is his daughter's responsibility, and the responsibility is still very big. Doesn't Fang Yuan have any responsibility?Confucius Tian thought of Shao Keqing, thought of how Shao Keqing looked at Fang Yuan with eyes as clear as spring water and soft as cotton wool, and thought of Shao Keqing's ability to personally go to Shanghai for Fang Yuan's parents. How can this be something ordinary friends do?Thinking of this, Kong Zitian's heart became uneasy, and even a little bit of anger slowly rose.

Confucius Tian said: "Shuanghua is used to some bad shortcomings, I admit it. This needs to be guided slowly and gradually changed. Xiao Fang, can't you see Xiaohua's progress?" Fang Yuan said: " I saw it. After being bitten last time, Shuanghua was more polite to me; this time when my parents came, they were also friendly to me; this time when my parents left, Shuanghua even offered to give 3000 yuan. I see that I am really happy for Shuanghua's progress, and every bit of her progress will make me love her a little more than before the progress." Kong Zitian said: "Just now you also agree that Xiaohua loves her wholeheartedly. Yours, no matter whether she scolds or bites. As Xiaohua’s father, as your father-in-law, I still hope that you can love Shuanghua wholeheartedly. You love Shuanghua, and this marriage maintains Premise and foundation. If you don't love Shuanghua anymore, do you think it is necessary to maintain this marriage?"

Sweat dripped from Fangyuan's forehead.Could sending parents home mean the end of this marriage?If this marriage with Kong Shuanghua ends, can he still make progress?If Confucius Tian really took the initiative and asked Zhai Xinwen to punish himself, would he die a miserable death, or even have no chance to make further progress in his life?Fang Yuan dare not imagine.

Fangyuan said: "Dad, I still love Shuanghua. I am very honest today. What I am reporting to you is that because of Shuanghua beating and scolding me, I don't love Shuanghua like I did when I was in love. I put I put more energy into my work, and my love for Shuanghua is still single-minded." Kong Zitian suddenly sneered: "Single-hearted? Xiao Fang, ask yourself, are you really single-minded?" Fang Yuan gritted his teeth in his heart: "I It’s really one-hearted.” Confucius said, “Then what’s going on with Shao Keqing?” Fang Yuan said, “Shao Keqing is like Brother Miao Dongshun, an ordinary but good friend.” Confucius said, “I don’t believe it. , an ordinary friend who can go to Shanghai to send your parents off in person, is it necessary for her? Does she have this awareness? I think that a good friend can help you buy tickets and settle your luggage. They are already very good friends; personally escorting your parents to Shanghai, this is probably not something that ordinary friends or close friends can do."

What a sharp question!Fang Yuan knew that this question was difficult to answer, but he had to answer it bravely, and he had to die without repentance.Fang Yuan said: "Yesterday when I was collecting the tickets, I asked Sister Shao. She said that she happened to attend a special meeting held by the Shanghai Railway Bureau and took a train. She was not here to escort my parents to Shanghai, but The meeting was on the way. Because I was on the way, I was able to take care of me on the way.” Confucius Tian said, “Is that true?” Fang Yuan said, “It’s absolutely true. If you don’t believe me, I’ll tell you the phone number of Deputy Director Shao Keqing. You can check it now. Dad, you are the leader of Dongzhou City, you can call the train station tomorrow and ask if Director Shao is on a business trip to Shanghai."

Confucius Tian didn't expect Fang Yuan to reply so fluently. After thinking about it, he still said ambiguously: "Of course I want to ask, but not now. Xiao Fang, I have already told you about Shao Keqing's past, do you not believe me?" What did you say?" Fang Yuan said: "I absolutely believe what Dad said. I believe that Sister Shao was able to achieve her position today because she betrayed her mother." Confucius Tian said: "I also raise my hope that you will have less contact with Shao Keqing in the future. Contact, you promised me." Fang Yuan said: "I have never had any contact with Shao Keqing except for getting the ticket last night. Dad, after you told about Shao Keqing's growth experience, I was really touched. , I didn't expect Director Shao to be such a person. However, please allow me to truthfully report my true thoughts to you. Yes, Director Shao betrayed her, but my contact with her was not a relationship with her. It's not a lover, let alone a husband and wife, but an ordinary friendship. Whether she has ever betrayed her mother to her superiors, what does it have to do with me? For her to have such an experience, I definitely disdain to have any relationship with her I don’t think so.” Confucius Tian said, “It’s best not to get in touch.” Fang Yuan said, “Dad, I remember you once said that in order to better understand this society, you must get in touch with people of all kinds. Director Shao is a prostitute, but I don't want to fall in love, and if Dad allows me to contact a big brother in the underworld like Miao Dongshun, will he not allow me to contact a prostitute like Shao Keqing?"

Confucius Tian did not expect that Fang Yuan's analogy would make Confucius unable to find a suitable reason to refute Fang Yuan.But Kong Zitian really didn't want Fang Yuan to keep in touch with Shao Keqing, so he said coldly: "Xiao Fang, if you still want to maintain your marriage with Xiao Hua and have a chance to love Xiao Hua, then treat Xiao Hua wholeheartedly." Right. The premise is: You must never see Shao Keqing again! If you still insist on going your own way and still come into contact with Shao Keqing, a high-ranking prostitute, then Xiaofang, I'm sorry, I can't allow a son-in-law who has second thoughts about my daughter to stay. In my Kong family. A man should treat his wife wholeheartedly. If he fails to do this, he should be criticized by the whole society and condemned by the public opinion. As long as you no longer have contact with Shao Keqing, then no matter whether you still love her or not Xiaohua, then I will treat you as loving Xiaohua, because I am confident that through my efforts, I can transform Xiaohua well and make you fall in love with her wholeheartedly."

This is forcing myself to express my opinion!Fang Yuan is really helpless, alas, Sister Shao, I'm sorry, for the sake of my personal future, I can only abandon you!Of course, although I am very reluctant, there is indeed a shadow in my heart. When I think of your body that has been slept by so many old men, my passion seems to no longer be the same as it used to be.Miss Shao, I'm sorry.

Fang Yuan said: "Father, I agree not to have any contact with Shao Keqing. But what if there is a matter of buying train tickets?" Confucius Tian said: "Let me handle the train tickets for our family. It’s very simple for a sub-department to ask the Dongzhou University Office or the Standing Committee Office of the Municipal People’s Congress to buy a train ticket.” Fang Yuan said, “Okay. I will try to do what I promised my dad right away. I have a question. Ask Dad for advice, what if she calls me if I don't take the initiative to contact her?"

Confucius Tian didn't say a word: "Resolutely don't accept it."