Director's growth history

Fang Yuan threw five bags of clothes into the rear seat, got into the driver's seat and sat down without moving. ㊣(╯▽╰). co? What surprised Fang Yuan was that his mood was surprisingly calm.This calmness does not mean that he has no anger, but that he was unexpectedly able to slowly gather this anger into a corner.Chinese New Year is approaching, and every family should be harmonious, beautiful, and loving. If we are arguing with Kong Shuanghua now, it will be difficult to restore the superficial calm within a month and a half; it will be difficult to truly forgive in our hearts without a few months. she.This is not a good thing for the family, for the father-in-law, for myself, or for the son!Maybe it will also affect the work because of Confucius Tian no longer supports, can Zhai Xinwen still treat himself as well as he is now?Can Bi Quan still treat himself as well as he is now?Will Secretary Wang of the Municipal Party Committee and Mayor Song of the Municipal Government still pay attention to him?If a person wants to settle down and start a career outside, how important it is not to have a stable and worry-free rear!What's more, Kong Shuanghua has done a good job in this aspect, and rarely needs to worry about family affairs. In terms of receiving gifts, Kong Shuanghua can also grasp a limit better, and also shows the potential of being a good wife.Kong Shuanghua is a little "crazy" again today, thinking about it carefully, it's just jealousy at work.Explore the root of this jealousy, it's actually very simple: she loves me too much, Fangyuan, and takes me very seriously, if I have too much contact with any woman outside, she will be jealous!What's more, what I saw today was Song Sisi. Before getting married, Kong Shuanghua regarded Song Sisi as his number one competitor.

Fang Yuan's mood became more and more peaceful.Fang Yuan worried about Kong Shuanghua, this woman, I don't know if she is still crying in the mall or has come downstairs.Fangyuan didn't want Kong Zitian and Kong Shufang to know about this dispute with Kong Shuanghua, and she had the idea of ​​making big things small and small things small.But another voice is also strongly opposed: to remind and warn Kong Shuanghua not to yell in front of outsiders or in public in the future, the issue of face is also very important.

The two conflicting thoughts were intertwined, Fang Yuan couldn't help but smile bitterly: This is really a problem!Originally, if the matter could be resolved, it would be a great success; if Kong Shuanghua could be effectively dissuaded from "going crazy" in public in the future, it could be described as "consummation of merit and virtue".

Fang Yuan wanted to go to the mall to find Kong Shuanghua, but felt that she was afraid to see those shoppers in the mall again.Fangyuan picked up the phone and sent a text message to Kong Shuanghua: "Shuanghua: Go downstairs. Sit in the car for a while, and I will explain to you in the car. Now, we all need to calm down."

Fang Yuan was about to send another text message, but Kong Shuanghua's text message had already been replied: "I'll be right over."

Soon, the passenger door of Zhonghua Junjie opened, and Kong Shuanghua got in.Seeing the crystal clear teardrops on Kong Shuanghua's face, Fangyuan took out two facial tissues and handed them over: "Shuanghua, wipe your tears." Kong Shuanghua took it and wiped away the tears on his face.

Fang Yuan said: "Today I went out to buy clothes with my wife. Before meeting Song Sisi, we had already bought 5 sets of clothes that fit well. You, Shuanghua, are so elegant and decent when you wear them, making you look more like a lady." .The Carrefour mall is so big that there is a constant flow of people every day. Do tens of thousands of people come in and out every day? I can’t imagine that Song Sisi and her mother are coming, and neither can you. But is it normal for people to come to the Carrefour mall? It’s so normal! We You need to buy new clothes for the New Year, and people also need to buy new clothes for the New Year!"

Kong Shuanghua said: "That's true. However, every time I hear the name Song Sisi, I feel blocked; when I see Song Sisi, I can't suppress my anger. Fangyuan, am I a little too narrow-minded?"

Fang Yuan said: "It's true that you are a little narrow-minded, but it also shows how much you love me and our family from another angle. You don't want other women to enter or affect our family."

One sentence hit Kong Shuanghua's heart: "Yes! That's what I think. Thank you husband for understanding." Fang Yuan said: "So, you are jealous again and again, and there is no shadow in the first place. You are jealous. The performance is a bit too much." Kong Shuanghua said: "That's because I love you so much. Husband, I really love you very much, I can't rub a little sand in my eyes!" Kong Shuanghua turned his body upside down and rested his head on Fangyuan in the arms.

After being silent for a while, Kong Shuanghua said: "Calm down, I'm also reviewing myself. Like today, it's a coincidence that I met Song Sisi by chance. I really shouldn't lose my temper. But I don't know what's wrong. Song Sisi, I just can't control my temper. Husband, you have to forgive me, I don't want to lose my temper."

Fang Yuan suddenly felt the pain in his heart.Fortunately, I can bear it.The Japanese say that patience is the foundation of success, and there is also an idiom in China called "Bai Ren Cheng Gang".But blindly enduring cannot fundamentally solve the problem. It is no different from avoiding or escaping.In order to make Kong Shuanghua have a certain immunity to such jealousy in the future, Fangyuan decided to take the initiative.

Fang Yuan said: "Shuanghua, will losing your temper make the couple more affectionate or hurt their relationship?" Kong Shuanghua said: "Of course it is hurt." Fang Yuan said: "Yes! It is not only me who is hurt, but also you. , and even our child Ruirui. Shuanghua, is there anything that cannot be discussed? Is there anything that cannot be resolved calmly? If you lose your temper, if it makes sense, of course I can accept it; Will be angry. You and I share a common wish, that is, to hope that our family and our marriage will be loving and loving for a lifetime, right?" Kong Shuanghua said: "Yes. I also know that it is not good to lose your temper. But I just can’t control myself.” Fang Yuan said, “I’ve been married to you for one year and three months, and with the time we’ve known each other, it’s more than five years. Shuanghua, have you thought about it? How many times have you posted Temper? How many times have I lost my temper?" Kong Shuanghua was a little embarrassed: "You don't seem to have lost your temper." Fang Yuan said: "A husband and wife must tolerate each other if they want to live happily ever after. I tolerate you, but do you tolerate and understand me?" Kong Shuanghua forcefully argued: "I am a woman, you are a man." Fang Yuan said: "Equality between men and women should actually be reflected in every aspect." Kong Shuanghua remained silent.Fang Yuan said: "Every time you lose your temper, even your father-in-law can't control the situation; every time you lose your temper, it seems that it's for some unknown reason. During the more than one year of marriage, how many times have you scolded me? I have been beaten and even bitten by you so many times, the bites are dripping with blood." Kong Shuanghua sat up straight, and said in a high tone: "Why, do you still remember these things?" Fang Yuan said calmly, "Shuanghua, if these It happened to you, can you forget it?" Kong Shuanghua choked suddenly: "I..." Fang Yuan said: "Every time you lose your temper, say or do too much, it hurts people's hearts Ah! How can you forget a sad thing all of a sudden?" Kong Shuanghua said: "Fang Yuan, you hold grudges." Fang Yuan did not answer directly, but said calmly: "Just like just now, I just met Song Sisi and her mother by chance. , What did you say? What you said is definitely the most hurtful thing between husband and wife." Kong Shuanghua said: "What did I say?" Fang Yuan said: "You say, Fangyuan, I will kill you!" Kong Shuanghua's eyes Some doubts: "Did I say it?" Fang Yuan said: "You shouted it loudly in front of so many customers on the fourth floor of the shopping mall. I believe many people will hear it. Shuanghua, husband and wife In between, it was to the point of killing the other party, have you ever thought about how you hurt the other party's heart?" Kong Shuanghua burst into tears again: "I seem to have said something like this just now. I'm sorry, husband, I didn't mean it. Yes. I was in a rage and I couldn't control myself."

Fang Yuan suddenly had a subconscious mind: Is a woman who can't control her emotions suitable to be her wife?

Fang Yuan said: "Shuanghua, if someone told you, or I told you, Kong Shuanghua, I'm going to kill you, what would you think?" Kong Shuanghua remained silent.Fang Yuan didn't say anything more, it would take time to digest.The air in the car was a bit stagnant, Fang Yuan closed his eyes, but felt tears streaming down at this moment.Alas, it is one of the great fortunes in life for a man to find a virtuous wife; but how miserable life will be for a man to find a strong wife!

Suddenly, a warm face came up, gently rubbing against Fang Yuan's cheeks.Fang Yuan felt very tired, Fang Yuan didn't want to open her eyes, but the tears flowed down from the corners of her eyes more like spring water.

"My husband, I'm sorry. Don't be angry, don't ignore me."

The voice is as gentle as water, with a little vibrato.

Fangyuan was full of exhaustion, and didn't want to open her eyes to look at Kong Shuanghua again.Originally, she wanted to eliminate the conflicts and live a peaceful and healthy year. Looking back on these sad events, Fang Yuan really thought of divorce.In the middle of the emotion, the words were the voice of the heart, Fang Yuan closed her eyes and said: "I really don't want to be hurt by such a heart again. My heart is very tired."

Kong Shuanghua's face moved away from Fangyuan. She couldn't believe it was Fangyuan's words. For the first time, she felt a sense of fear in her heart. This fear made her terrified, made her angry, and made her unable to suppress her temper: " Fangyuan, what do you mean by that? Explain to me clearly! Explain to me clearly!" She grabbed Fangyuan's arm with her hand, Fangyuan didn't open her eyes, she couldn't help but grabbed Fangyuan's collar again : "Fangyuan, explain clearly to me!!"

Fang Yuan's voice was full of vicissitudes: "Shuanghua, don't you speak calmly? Isn't your current behavior a new psychological injury? Am I not your husband, but a criminal, and I was dragged by you like this? Are you here for trial?"

Kong Shuanghua let go of his hand dejectedly.She no longer knew what to do.She is now full of fear, afraid that Fang Yuan will no longer pay attention to her, afraid that Fang Yuan will divorce her, and afraid that Fang Yuan will be separated forever.Kong Shuanghua burst into tears, and threw herself into Fangyuan's arms again: "Honey, I really love you very much, don't leave me, and don't want to leave me, okay? Okay? Okay?"

Fangyuan didn't push Kong Shuanghua away.Recalling the sad events of the past, Fang Yuan couldn't help expressing his feelings: "Do you still remember when a piece of meat was bitten off my shoulder? The pain really hurt my heart, it hurts so much. It hurts the body, and it hurts the soul." , and one more point, I am afraid that you, Shuanghua, have not realized until now: you have hurt my dignity! Men love face, and men who have achieved a certain leadership position love face even more. At that time, I was a student in Dongzhou No. 5 Middle School Vice-principal, if the cadres and teachers of the school know that my wife bit off a piece of meat from my shoulder, will I still have the face to get along in Dongzhou No. 5 Middle School and Dongzhou Education? Shuanghua, have you considered me? face? Today, in front of hundreds of shoppers, I, as the party branch secretary and principal of Dongzhou No. 5 High School, was told by my wife to kill me. Where is my dignity? What's the face? Shuanghua, can you guarantee that among the people shopping today, there is no teacher from Dongzhou No. 5 Middle School? No one who knows me? If nothing else, rumors about me have already started to spread tonight. By tomorrow, there will definitely be a lot of rumors coming out. Where is the dignity of a principal like me? How can I manage the school and the teachers in the future?" Fang Yuan became more and more angry, and couldn't help raising his tone by an octave.

Kong Shuanghua was even more frightened, it was from the bottom of his heart.Kong Shuanghua was not afraid of Fang Yuan losing his temper, but afraid of Fang Yuan leaving her.Kong Shuanghua suddenly realized: If I killed someone today, it would make Fangyuan lose face and dignity even more than biting off a piece of flesh from Fangyuan's shoulder. What's more, as Fangyuan said, people with ulterior motives would make rumors and affect Fangyuan's future development. .Kong Shuanghua didn't know how to face this problem. From childhood to adulthood, it has been smooth sailing. Kong Shuanghua's mind has never experienced any complicated situations. Today is the first time he has been deeply touched, but he is helpless and can only repeat it clumsily. One sentence: "Hubby, I'm sorry." "Hubby, I'm sorry."

Fangyuan's cell phone rang, Fangyuan opened his eyes, and it turned out to be Zhai Xinwen's call.Fang Yuan said, "It's Chief Zhai's call. Get up quickly." Fang Yuan pushed Kong Shuanghua away, a little rough.Fang Yuan pressed the answer button: "Hi, Director." Zhai Xinwen said, "Where are you now?" Fang Yuan said, "I'm in a Carrefour store." Zhai Xinwen said, "It really is you! Who are you with?" Fang Yuan Said: "I am with Kong Shuanghua." Zhai Xinwen said: "You let Kong Shuanghua answer the phone." Fang Yuan said: "Okay. Shuanghua, Uncle Zhai asked you to answer the phone." Kong Shuanghua answered the phone: "Uncle Zhai, I am Shuanghua Hua." Zhai Xinwen said, "Have you been with Fangyuan tonight?" Kong Shuanghua said, "Yes, I have been with Fangyuan all the time. We have not been separated since Fangyuan came back from school in the afternoon." If Zhai Xinwen Thinking about it, the person who put on eye drops just now seems to be spreading rumors again. Hey, there are always such people in this society!Zhang Yuanqing, Zhang Yuanqing, I know you are jealous of Fangyuan, but you can't be so blatant.Zhai Xinwen said, "That's good. Let Fangyuan answer the phone."

Fang Yuan took the phone: "Director, what instructions do you have?" Zhai Xinwen said, "I heard just now that a woman yelled in the mall and said she was going to kill you! What's going on?" Fang Yuan was vicious. He gave Kong Shuanghua a serious look, which made Kong Shuanghua's heart go cold all of a sudden.Zhai Xinwen's voice on the phone was loud, and Kong Shuanghua heard it too.Damn it, who is this, spreading rumors to Zhai Xinwen's ears so quickly.Apart from being afraid, Kong Shuanghua hated the person who spread the rumors even more. He wanted to find a knife and kill that guy. This feeling was exactly the same as that in the shopping mall on the fourth floor just now.

Fang Yuan didn't know how to answer, this is a very difficult task!Can you tell Zhai Xinwen the truth?This is also a very embarrassing question; if Zhai Xinwen is not told the truth, how can this matter be explained clearly?Fang Yuan didn't know how to answer.