Concubine's Child-raising Strategy

"As long as we fight hard, no one in this mansion can bully Wutongyuan." Whether it's his own mother or his own sister, Sima Ji thinks so.To forge iron, you have to be strong yourself, and you can't expect the kindness of others.Because the kindness of others is the most unreliable thing in the world.

In Sima Ji's previous life, it can be said that he has tasted all kinds of life, and even knows the unpredictable of the human heart.He will not pin his hopes on others.

"Second brother's words are correct." Sima Xiu also nodded in agreement with Sima Ji's words.

The two brothers returned to the Indus Garden in silence after they had spoken.Of course, regarding the fact that Shouning Hou Sima Jin went to Yuanjing Garden, the two brothers were also very silent, but they didn't mention a word.

Yuya never asked about the whereabouts of Sima Jin, Marquis of Shouning.At least, she won't ask explicitly.Because, Yuya felt that some things could be asked because she did not step on the bottom line of Shouning Hou Sima Jin.But there are some things that are not necessarily true.

What's more, as far as Yuya is concerned, she wants to win.As early as the favor of Sima Jin, Marquis of Shouning, turned into trust.

Trust does not necessarily have much to do with feelings.Of course, it cannot be said that there is no relationship.

In Yuya's career, trust is the essence of emotion.She needs this kind of thing, because it will make her more special in the Shouninghou mansion, especially in the heart of Shouninghou Sima Jin.At least, this trust made Shouning Hou Sima Jin not be blinded by others, which directly affected her perception of her.

Sometimes, people's impressions are so important.It is so important that it may look like a small amount, but it affects the final result of the matter.

"Brother Xiu, Brother Ji, are you tired from homework recently?" Yu Ya asked this question when she was digesting after a meal.Listen to Yuya's question.Sima Xiu and Sima Ji naturally shook their heads. Both brothers said that homework is not tiring.

Listening to the positive attitude of the two children, Yuya is quite satisfied.However, after thinking about it, she still replied: "Homework is important. Your body is more important. Mother doesn't expect your homework to be good, that's what your father is worried about. Mother just hopes that you will not be tired every day. It's over. On weekdays, you might as well play more and rest more."

Look, Yuya's words are in line with what she has heard people say, the days of waiting for the children of the clan.Anyway, one cannot pass the imperial examination; the other cannot enter the martial arts examination; this depends on Zong Zhengfu's salary to live.Then add an errand that may be rewarded by the Holy Majesty.

Therefore, Yuya felt that it was better for this child to grow up safely.For the rest, since you don't have to do that work, you don't need to work too hard.

You know, there are staff members who are officials.In addition to the staff, there are also masters and so on.

Yuya never thought that this is really a child of the clan, except for listening and waiting to drink.That is besides dawdling in the capital, there is too much to do.certainly.If it is in groups of three or four, it is even more common to go to a poetry meeting, or to go on a certain cruise ship, enjoy some festivals, drink some wine or something.

request for the son.Yuya is low, she just grew up safely.For the rest, Yuya looked at Sima Jin's hard work of Shouning Hou, so she understood that she was a mother, so she didn't need to worry too much at all.

It really gave Yuya a headache.Or daughter Sima Qing'er.This girl's future marriage is really what Yuya cares most about.After all, her girl's temperament, and her temper, need to find a match.It's really difficult.

No, who made this an era of patriarchal society?

The Shouning Marquis Mansion is not the top imperial family in the capital.Therefore, as an ordinary clan girl, or a clan girl who probably doesn't have a title in most cases, Yuya is even more worried about her daughter's marriage.

When the adopted daughter gets married, she has to worry; when she gets married, the mother has to worry about how she is doing; so, after Yuya's daughter Sima Qing'er's current temper is revealed, she is worried all over.

If the method of this era is used, it will really correct her daughter's appearance, Yuya doesn't know that it will work.However, Yuya can't be messed with, she knows the way of raising girls in this era, waiting for everyone's girls is no different from any exams.Although there are specializations in techniques and different directions, the difficulty of them all shows that they are all advanced knowledge.

Just when Yuya was thinking about her children.

When Sima Jin, Marquis of Shouning, came to Yuanjing Garden, he talked with Shen Yiren about his sons and daughters.

"Sister Wan sent a letter to the mansion, saying that everything is fine in the men's mansion of Cheng County. Don't worry us." Shen Yiren really handed over the letter that Sima Waner had just sent back to her natal family. Sima Jin, Marquis of Shouning.Sima Jin, Marquis of Shouning, opened it and read it, then put the letter back on the table, and then asked, "Since it's all right, I feel at ease as a father."

"However, Ma'am, do you intend to ask Sister Wan to go back to the mansion, or do you go to the Cheng County Men's Mansion to see her?" Sima Jin, Marquis of Shouning asked this question again.

After listening to the question from Sima Jin, Marquis of Shouning, Shen Yiren hurriedly replied: "I was thinking about it, I should go and see Sister Wan. After all, she is a married woman, so she will go back to her mother's house after all. I'm afraid it will always provoke criticism."

This is the case at this time, the married daughter, who is close to her natal family, may return once or twice a year.If it is really far away, I am afraid that after she got married, she would never return to her mother's house.Who made it so that at this time, there are two big mountains on the head of an ordinary daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law and the husband.

All this housework is useless.Can I still go back to my mother's house?Shen Yiren said that unless the daughter-in-law wants to gossip, or wants her mother-in-law to hate her in her heart.If not, then naturally I have to be careful to serve my mother-in-law.

A word of filial piety is really not enough to explain how pitiful the daughter-in-law is in this era of patriarchy.

Therefore, there is an old saying that a daughter-in-law has "boiled" for many years to become a mother-in-law.

"Ma'am, it's fine to go and have a look." Shouning Hou Sima Jin replied back.Shen Yiren listened to what he said, and said again: "Speaking of which, Sister Wan also married into Cheng County Men's Mansion, and she has been younger for two years."

"Master Hou, after this incident, there are fewer and fewer younger sisters in the mansion. You see, that Zhang Su'er also served Master Hou for some years, but what about the example of my aunt?" Shen Yiren said for Zhang Su'er at this time Said.

Sima Jin, Marquis of Shouning, really didn't have much impression of Zhang Su'er as a housemate.It can be said that at this time, if Shen Yiren didn't mention this person, Shouning Hou Sima Li didn't know where this person was at all.

Regarding these matters, Shouning Hou Sima Jin thought about it for a while and replied: "Since Madam said so, that's it."

After all, Shen Yiren also mentioned the eldest daughter, and Shouning Hou Sima Jin remembered that she had borrowed the eldest daughter, and it was time to get away.For this daughter's current life, why not care about two points.Therefore, Shen Yiren, the aunt who raised Sima Wan'er, Sima Jin, Marquis of Shouning, still gave her a little noodle.

"If there is Lord Hou, then I will ask Zhang Su'er to kowtow and serve tea to Lord Hou tomorrow, and then set up a table in the house to celebrate one or two, will it work?" Shen Yiren asked again.

After listening to Shen Yiren's detailed explanation, Shouning Hou Sima Jin did not refuse, but said: "Madam's opinion is fine, and this Marquis has no objection."

After saying this, Sima Jin, Marquis of Shouning, stood up again, and said, "Seeing that it's getting late, madam should go to bed earlier. This Marquis will send me and my brother back to the front yard."

This meant that Sima Jin, Marquis of Shouning, made it clear that he didn't want to stay in Yuanjing Garden at all.Shen Yiren's face did not change after hearing what Shouning Hou Sima Jin said, but anyone could see the disappointment in his eyes.But Shouning Hou Sima Jin just turned around without paying attention, and then ordered someone to lead Sima He out, and then asked the child to accompany him back to the front yard.

When Sima Jin, Marquis of Shouning, came out of the main courtyard, he met Zhang Su'er, who had come all the way, on the corridor.

At this time, Zhang Su'er was really beautifully dressed.Speaking of which, when Shouning Hou Sima Jin first noticed the woman walking towards him, he noticed the familiarity.This looks familiar, unlike those real women who look like Yang Ning.

"The servant has seen Lord Hou."

Zhang Su'er gave a blessing, and then hurriedly gave a blessing to Sima He and said, "I have met the third young master."

Shouning Hou Sima Jin looked at Zhang Su'er's coiled hair, then at the familiar hairpin on Zhang Su'er's head, after thinking for a while, he asked, "Are you Zhang Su'er?"

Zhang Su'er was overjoyed at the question from Sima Jin, Marquis of Shouning, and hurriedly replied: "This servant is Zhang Su'er."

Zhang Su'er was delighted, Sima Jin, Marquis of Shouning remembered her name, which naturally showed that she still had a place in the heart of Sima Jin, Marquis of Shouning.

But what Shou Ning Hou Sima Jin said next was to make Zhang Su'er happy, and it was swept away.

"Where did the hairpin on your head come from?" After Shouning Hou Sima Jin said this, he even said: "This is a step-shaking hairpin, with your identity, how can you wear it on your head? "

Although, this Great Jin Dynasty is no longer like the previous dynasty, and only women of the third rank and above have to be conferred by the imperial concubine before they can bring Bu Yao.But this step is still not something that ordinary people can take on their heads.

This piece of Su'er said it well, it was the one-night dew marriage of Sima Jin, Marquis of Shouning; to be honest, she was called Tongfang maid, and she was still a slave.

This servant took the steps, which was purely overstepping.

Sima Jinruo, Marquis of Shouning, said that while looking at Zhang Su'er, Yang Ningzhen was half as handsome as Yang Ningzhen, and at the same time he said something surprising.After he watched and understood what he was waiting for, the amazed mood completely disappeared.

But Zhang Su'er, listening to the words of Shouning Hou Sima Jin, turned pale. (To be continued..)