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Chapter 87 Qiao Yingzi changed her heart!

"You are absolutely right!" Qiao Yingzi agreed deeply.

The reason why she didn't attend morning self-study and secretly went to her father's house to play with building blocks was because she was too depressed in her daily life. She studied from morning to night and had no time to rest.

Her mother graduated from Chunfeng Middle School and now teaches in a cram school. She always gets home from evening self-study at almost ten o'clock. She also assigns her several sets of papers to write.

Seven days a week!
If her grades fluctuated slightly or her performance in a certain subject was not ideal, her mother would immediately give her a few more test papers to strengthen her test.

The 'Oh my god' she said when she was mad was not just a casual remark, but came from the bottom of her heart.

Seeing that she worked so hard but her grades didn't improve, while He Chen was so leisurely and making rapid progress, she admired He Chen more and more and of course wanted to imitate him.

"Uncle Qiao, with Qiao Yingzi's grades, if she studies normally, she will be admitted to Peking University or Tsinghua University, and she will be admitted to a 985 university at least. Are you satisfied?" He Chen said with a smile, "In your opinion, is there a big difference between Peking University and Tsinghua University and a 985 university?"

"I'm definitely satisfied! No matter what school Yingzi chooses to go to, as long as she likes it, I can accept it!" Qiao Weidong said quickly: "It's just that her mother can't accept it!"

"So this is mostly your fault!" He Chen said bluntly, "If you hadn't made her develop the habit of saying what she means, Qiao Yingzi's life wouldn't be so difficult now!"

"Yes, yes..." Qiao Weidong said awkwardly, unable to shirk the responsibility.

"What should I do?" Qiao Yingzi looked at He Chen pitifully.

"Of course you have to present the facts and reason with her, reject her unreasonable demands, and follow your own pace!" He Chen reminded: "You are an adult! With Uncle Qiao providing you with strong support, you can completely follow your own ideas."

"Hiss!" Qiao Weidong and his daughter both took a deep breath, both stunned by He Chen's words.

He Chen actually wants her to fight her mother. This is simply Zhang Yimou's one-shot filming - very bold!

"I dare not." Qiao Yingzi smiled bitterly.

Although Qiao Weidong didn't say anything, his expression was similar to his daughter's.

"It's not that you don't dare, it's that you're too brave!" He Chen laughed, "As expected of a father and daughter, they do the same thing!"

"What do you mean?" Qiao Yingzi was stunned.

"Hey, aren't you planning to learn from your father and keep tolerating your mother until you can't stand it anymore, then completely break up with her and get rid of her?" He Chen pretended to be surprised.

"I didn't! I'm not! Don't talk nonsense!" Qiao Yingzi immediately denied it three times, totally unable to accept this statement.

That's her mother!
She always loves her mother!
no way!
She is an adult now and has a pretty good IQ. She sees her father living a prosperous life, while her mother is devoted to her alone and has no intention of finding another man. As time goes by, this becomes increasingly unlikely. She also understands her mother's desire to hold on to her and control her.

It’s just that sometimes I can’t stand it and can’t accept it all the time.

But at most she wanted to stay away from her mother for a while and have some space of her own, and she definitely had no intention of leaving her mother.

"You have!" He Chen said sternly, "Peace survives when you fight for it, but it dies when you compromise!

You are an adult now, and you are obviously depressed and even painful because of your mother, but you have been enduring it, never expressing your true feelings to her or saying no to her unreasonable demands!
Or you drive yourself crazy.

Or you follow in your father's footsteps.

You said it's not the latter, so are you going to go for the former?"

"No!" Qiao Weidong couldn't bear to listen anymore.

He would rather his daughter choose the latter than the former.

Although Qiao Yingzi didn't want to choose either, if there were only these two options, she would rather choose the first one than choose the second one.

"Since neither of you wants it, then learn to say no to her from now on!" He Chen encouraged with interest.

"You are so smart. If you think rationally, you will know the current situation. It is she who cannot live without you, not you who cannot live without her. As long as you know that if you continue to tolerate her, you will not be able to bear it in the future, and you must make changes, insist on saying no to her, resist her soft and hard tactics, and let her slowly adapt to you, your life will get better and better.

And you can definitely use her own tactics to fight back and learn the same techniques she used on you.

Give him a slap in the face and give him a sweet date.

This trick is old-fashioned, but very practical.

You are already invincible, and you will soon be able to use this trick to perfection!
Many elderly people become afraid of their children when they get old and frail. Why?
It is because they know how they treated their children in the past and have never changed. Knowing that the world has turned against them, they are of course afraid that their children will treat them in the same way.

If you don't actively make changes now, your best future state will be another mother. Imagine your mother getting along with you like this when she's old, or even your children getting along with you like this? "

"..." Qiao Weidong's mouth twitched when he heard this.

He didn't need to think at all.

He is watching it with his own eyes now!
"Let me think about it again..." Qiao Yingzi hesitated, but couldn't help her heart beating fast.

If she could gain her mother's understanding as He Chen said, considering how much she loves her mother and she is not as emotionally unstable as her mother, the mother-daughter relationship would definitely be more harmonious.

What a beautiful picture this is!

But to achieve it, one must withstand the strong backlash at the beginning.

Her mother would definitely not be willing to accept it. She could imagine how her mother would cry and scream. She doubted whether she could bear it.

He Chen didn't say anything else. He had said everything he needed to say. If Qiao Yingzi really didn't want to change, he was too lazy to persuade her anymore.

Even though he was very interested in the scene where Qiao Yingzi rejected Song Qian and Song Qian was furious.

But I won’t force it.

The four of them stopped talking about this and started to enjoy their meal. After the meal, He Chen said goodbye and took Ruan Liuzheng back home.

Qiao Yingzi had a thoughtful look on her face. Seeing this, Qiao Weidong opened his mouth to say something, but when he thought about how he was nothing in He Chen's eyes and a complete negative example, he really didn't know what to say and simply kept silent.

Let your daughter decide for herself.

Because although he really wanted to help his daughter, when the truth really came out, there was actually very little he could do, and in the end his daughter had to deal with it on her own.

Qiao Yingzi also knew this truth. On the way back, He Chen's words kept echoing in her mind. When she arrived at Shuxiang Yayuan, she was originally planning to go to her father's house to play until the self-study session was over, but the phone rang.

It's her mother's!
Both father and daughter knew that it must be Li Tiegun who notified Song Qian. After looking at each other, Qiao Yingzi went straight home and answered the phone: "Mom, I know you are anxious, but don't worry..."

After quickly explaining the matter, facing Song Qian's rage, she took a deep breath, hung up the phone, and walked into the house.

"Self-study is voluntary. What's the big deal if I take a night off? Yes, I went to dinner with my dad. I know my limits..."

Song Qian was originally angry with a cold face, but the more she listened to her daughter's words, the more she felt something was wrong.

In the past, whenever she got angry, even before she got angry, her daughter would worry and be afraid, trying her best to cover it up, and when she failed, she would explain.

What's going on now?

Completely honest?

Do not!
This means you don’t care about her!
Song Qian was both angry and felt boundless fear.

My daughter has changed her mind...

(End of this chapter)