Rebirth in 1993, My Dad is a Returned Youth

Chapter 227 Educational Philosophy
People born before the 21st century, such as those born in the s, s and s.

Before going to college, I was often beaten by my teachers.

The golden stick theory was popular among teachers at that time, and they believed that good people would be produced under the golden stick.

Not only do parents not think it is a bad thing, on the contrary, they also encourage teachers to beat their children.

Even at home, I have to help beat him.

As a result of this, some were temporarily suppressed, while others became extremely rebellious.

The strange thing is that the rebellious people born in the 1980s and 1990s did not continue to follow the Golden Stick Rule like their previous teachers.

Maybe it’s because I got caught in the rain when I was a child, so when I grew up I wanted to hold an umbrella for others.

Li Kang understands the old man's educational philosophy but does not agree with it.

"Old Yu, in this era, especially in Shanghai, it is no longer appropriate to use the old educational concepts."

Who would have thought that this sentence would directly irritate Old Yu. "Who said that! I was beaten by my father and teachers when I was young, but I still became a successful person. It's not my fault, it must be the fault of this era. What kind of reform is this? It makes people very impetuous. Children in the past were so good, all of them were obedient and good children, but now, they can't stand being beaten at all, and even parents don't support it."

Old Yu was a little drunk and started to complain to Li Kangda.

He regarded Li Kang as a colleague and shared his mental journey over the years with him.

It can be said that it is like riding a roller coaster, falling from the top of the mountain to the bottom of the valley.

Suddenly one day I discovered that children nowadays are disobedient and don’t like to study.

He said with deep sorrow: "Can the future of the country be handed over to a group of children like this? We fought hard to conquer the world and created a peaceful and prosperous society, but we are handing it over to these children."

Li Kangxin said, "You really have a broad mind and great ambitions. But you can't even manage a primary school like this."

"Old Yu, you are drunk."

"Old man, stop drinking." Old Yu's wife came over and helped him back.

Before leaving, he apologized to Li Kang: "I'm so sorry, Old Yu likes to act crazy when he's drunk. If you have anything to say, I'll tell him after he sobers up."

Li Kang said, "Aunt, please help me relay this message. I can prove to him that there is nothing wrong with today's children. It's our teachers who haven't kept up with the times."

The old woman looked at Li Kang in surprise. She was also a retired teacher, so she naturally understood what Li Kang was saying.

He nodded solemnly, "I'll tell him."

Behind Li Kang, Li Xueer stood there blankly, and only walked over to him after a while.

"Boss, what is your ideal education like?" the woman asked curiously.

I always feel that my boss has a vision that transcends his time and there is a thin line between him and this era.

"What else? Just making money! You don't think I have any great ideals!"

He opened the car door and said in a clear voice, "Get in the car!"

"what--"

Subconsciously, I wanted to sit in the passenger seat, and my movements were very quick.

Li Kang was a little drunk and was a beat slow to react, and Li Xueer had already sat down.

"Boss, why are you looking at me?" Li Xueer said shyly when she saw the boss staring at her. Isn't he usually dressed like this? Could it be that there is a play tonight? Is he going to her house?

Li Kang was stunned and said, "You sat in the passenger seat. If Ye Yuqing noticed it, I would be in trouble!!"

Li Xueer instantly fell to the bottom, and what was even worse was,
Li Kang also said to her, "You go sit in the back."

"..."

Li Xueer didn't dare to disobey her boss and sat in the back reluctantly.

Li Kang actually followed him to the back seat, slapped him in the face, and then gave him a sweet reward.

As soon as he got in the car, he hugged the woman and compensated her.

"I am also very concerned about the mood of my employees."

In less than a minute, Li Kang came out.

Li Xueer is very easy to satisfy. As long as you care about her a little and give her a little love, this woman will be devoted to you.

After so long, Li Kang has already figured out how to get along with her without hurting himself.

In the dark night, the car was driving very slowly through the old street.

But you still have to be careful, because a child might suddenly rush out from someone's door.

Li Kang slammed on the brakes. The car was not going very fast and he had not lost his balance.

A child suddenly rushed out in front and almost hit me.

The child also stood there with a look of horror on his face, and then a man with a feather duster rushed out of the house.

It must be the child's father. When he saw his child running around and almost getting hit by a car, he yanked up the feather duster in his hand.

The little boy was beaten and cried loudly.

"You are so impatient. I told you not to look at the cars when you walk. I will beat you to death!"

Li Kang got out of the car quickly to see how the child was.

Most people would run away immediately.

The boy wasn't hit by him, but he was almost beaten to death by his father.

Li Kang couldn't bear to watch it anymore and shouted, "Stop it! It's his own child, how can you hit him like this!"

"Don't worry about it. This child is very naughty. He won't listen unless he is beaten."

As he spoke, he whipped the feather duster in his hand even more vigorously.

Li Kang was so angry that he snatched it away. "At this time, shouldn't you first care whether the child was hit?"

The man was still a little stunned and said, "I looked, you didn't hit him. And it was my child who ran to the side of the road recklessly. It has nothing to do with you. You were already driving very slowly."

Li Kangxin said, you have a really good heart.

"Don't hit the child anymore. You will only make him more disobedient."

This person interfering with his child's education made him very unhappy, and he said rudely: "Who are you? I am disciplining my child, what right do you have to interfere?!"

"Give me back the feather duster, or I'll beat you too."

As he said that, he rolled up his sleeves and was ready to fight with Li Kang.

His temper is really hot. The child was scared by his father and was shaking all over.

But he still reminded Li Kang, "Don't bother me, my dad might really beat you."

"Don't be afraid, I'm also very good at fighting."

"But brother, please don't do it yet. I am also a teacher. When I see you hitting the child like this, I think you are using the wrong method to educate the child."

After the man knew that Li Kang was a teacher, he lowered his raised fist. "So you are a teacher. You are so young. Did you just graduate from college? My name is Duan Gang. Nice to meet you. I am the owner of the nearby market and also a pork dealer."

Zhu Rougang said, "Little teacher, what's your name? Do you smoke?"

Li Kang was about to teach Duan Gang a lesson about why he took his cigarette. He stopped the cigarette with one hand and said seriously, "My name is Li Kang, and I don't smoke."

Li Xueer also got out of the car to see what was happening outside.

As soon as Duan Gang saw Li Xueer, his eyes flashed with amazement, and he said, "This is Teacher Li's girlfriend, she's so beautiful."

Li Xueer was very happy to hear that and took out some candy for Xiao Duan.

Xiao Duan stopped crying immediately after eating some candy.

"This is my cousin, you are wrong."

"Tell me about yourself, why did you beat the child? What did Xiao Duan do wrong that you had to chase him out and beat him?" Speaking of this, Duan Gang complained about his own son to the teacher in front of him, "This bastard is itching for trouble! He actually dared to get a zero on the test! What's even more infuriating is that he was afraid that I would know that he got a zero, so he changed the name of his female classmate's test paper and brought it back to me. Isn't that infuriating?"

"He often causes trouble for me. Causing trouble at home is nothing to him. He also often makes trouble for the neighbors. Our family has been complained about by the neighbors many times because of this kid."

After listening to this, Li Kang felt that Xiao Duan was really a very naughty child.

But thinking about Duan Gang's way of dealing with things, he asked, "Do you always use beatings to educate your children when they get into trouble?"

"What else can I do if I don't beat him? He won't listen if I don't beat him. Beating him might help a little. If I don't beat him for one day, he will tear down the roof and tear down the tiles."

"..."

Corruption is nothing more than an excuse for laziness, because this quick and easy method can produce miraculous results in a short period of time.

It is more comfortable to give a beating than to spend a lot of time thinking of educational methods and even having to study them.

Both sides gave explanations, and I had a good time playing. It was truly a win-win situation for all three parties.

In the end, the only ones who get hurt are the children, and the emotional trauma may take a lifetime to heal.

Li Kang shook his head. "Correcting children may not be effective for every child."

In his opinion, Xiao Duan was a little naughty, but he had a good heart.

Just now, he saw his father was about to hit him, and he warned him.

"You need to pay more attention to children like Xiao Duan."

Li Kang glanced at Zhutougang and gave him a sincere warning.

"I am usually busy with business, so I don't have time to think about my children's education. Making money is the most important thing. In today's society, no one will respect you if you don't have money."

Li Kang got angry when he heard such a perfunctory answer. "If you don't want to spend time educating your son, why did you give birth to him? Besides, the place you live in now is not bad. Haven't you made enough money yet?"

Duan Gang said shamelessly: "How can I earn enough money? I will also need to buy a house for my children and marry them off in the future. Don't they also need money?"

"Wait until you earn enough money! The most important time for the child will be delayed!" Li Kang scolded angrily. Other people's children don't need his care.

But seeing Xiaoduan like this, I really couldn't help it.

Then he said to Duan Gang: "Take me to Xiao Duan's room."

Duan Gang wanted to see what tricks this young teacher was going to play, so he didn't refuse and took the two of them to Xiao Duan's room.

The table in the child's room was relatively tidy, but the bed was terrible, with the quilt and clothes in a mess.

"I told you to clean up your house! See if you can embarrass yourself in front of the teacher!"

Xiao Duan lowered his head in shame, feeling so ashamed.

"…Don't start scolding the child as soon as you open your mouth."

Li Kang noticed that there was a Subor game console on the child’s desk.

"Xiao Duan, do you like playing games?"

When talking about games, Xiao Duan immediately became energetic, completely dispelling his previous dejection.

"This kid is really good at playing games. He is addicted to it. Apart from doing homework, he plays games all the time. If I don't let him play games, he will go out and cause trouble for me."

When Xiao Duan saw Teacher Li rummaging through his game console, he said nothing and did not object. In his heart, he liked this teacher who was like an older brother to him very much.

"Brother Duan, to educate a child, you have to learn how to control him, instead of letting the child control you."

Duan Gang didn't quite understand what he meant.

Then, in the next second, Li Kang said to Xiao Duan: "Xiao Duan, do you like playing games?"

Xiao Duan nodded, "I think games are fun. Classes are too boring. I get sleepy when I hear the teacher talking."

"I have a way to help you solve your sleepiness problem. Do you want to learn?"

Xiao Duan nodded expectantly and really liked this kind of older brother type teacher.

The next second, he couldn't laugh anymore because Li Kang broke one of his game cards.

It is still his favorite passionate football.

Xiao Duan burst into tears.

He cried so sadly, much sadder than when Lao Duan hit him just now.

When Old Duan saw that Li Kang was not angry at all and did not hit anyone, he made his son cry.

The effect is faster than beating people.

He didn't hit anyone, didn't curse, and his mood didn't change.

He was particularly happy to see his son crying so sadly.

I wish I had met a military advisor earlier. It turns out it is so easy to control a child.

Ignoring Xiao Duan's crying, he said to Li Kang happily, "Teacher Li, you really opened my eyes."

"Dad, he broke my game card, why don't you say anything to him?" Xiao Duan became even sadder and reminded his father, "Your son is being bullied now, how can you praise him?"

And he had misjudged this harmless big brother.

It turned out that he was a worse person than his dad and broke his favorite game card.

"That's what I mean. Don't let your child lead you by the nose. Beating him every time won't solve the fundamental problem. You need to learn to understand your child's preferences and mood, and then come up with the right method to educate him."

Then he demonstrated it to Lao Duan on the spot, "Xiao Duan! I just broke one of your game cards to teach you a lesson. If you dare to cheat again and bring back your classmates' papers to hand in, and get caught, I will break all your game cards next time!!"

Xiao Duan was extremely scared. This man actually wanted to destroy all his game cards, and he would never agree to that.

He pounced in front of the game console and protected it like a cub.

"Don't you ever do that again!!"

"Then are you still lying to others? Are you still cheating?" Old Duan glared at him and said fiercely.

Xiao Duan shrank back to being a kitten, and said weakly, "I don't dare anymore."

"If you dare to get a zero again, I will smash your game console!!"

Old Duan threatened.

hum! !
Li Kang interrupted: "Old Duan, we still need to talk more."

Leaving Xiao Duan in the room, Li Kang and Lao Duan came to the living room.

"Old Duan, what you just said was so serious. It might work the first time, but it doesn't leave any room for improvement."

"Why, I said it just the way you said it?"

Li Kang was speechless. I asked you to imitate, not to surpass.

Is this parent brainless? ! Can't he draw inferences from one example?

"Hey! All children make mistakes, you have to give him a chance to correct them. If he makes the same mistake again next time, are you really going to smash his game console?"

"Isn't it? Otherwise he will think that I have no authority and won't listen to me next time."

"I mean, you don't have to be so drastic, just do it little by little. He has a lot of game cards, and he likes every one of them. If you occasionally break a few of them, it can have a deterrent effect without making your relationship too rigid. He will be worried, and he will have to think twice before making a mistake next time."

After listening to this, Lao Duan thought it made sense. "Why didn't I think of that? Oh, Teacher Li is really amazing."

"Thank you for your reminder, Mr. Li. I will pay attention to it next time."

Children can be taught.

Li Kang took the opportunity to hand over his postcard and said, "You can enroll your child in a class. We have excellent teachers to help you train your child. The teachers and parents will work together. Xiao Duan will satisfy you in the future."

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(End of this chapter)