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Chapter 69 Try to date
The essence of marriage is actually mutual compromise and mutual accommodation.

This is the most ideal state. To put it another way, it is a two-way rush.

But in marriage, it is usually one-sided. Over time, even if there is much love, one will feel tired and hard.

So from his first contact with the two women, Shen Siyuan was more inclined towards Jiang Taozhi.

He was aiming for marriage, not just a passionate love affair.

Marriage is not about poetry and distant places, but about the daily necessities of life.

Two women, two styles, judging from the initial contact.

Ruan Hongzhuang has a strong personality and is very opinionated. It is obvious that she is not someone who compromises easily in life. If you want to live with such a person, you can only compromise and accommodate the other person, otherwise there will definitely be quarrels.

But as time went on, he didn't think he could bear it anymore, and why should he put himself in such a difficult position from the beginning?

It was just the first time he and Ruan Hongzhuang met, and they were not madly in love.

Jiang Taozhi's personality is exactly the opposite of Ruan Hongzhuang's. She is gentle and kind. Because she has been protected too well since childhood, she grew up in love and being loved. Everything is arranged for her, so she doesn't have much opinion.

If you marry a woman like this, as long as you give her enough love, she will basically listen to you, because she is used to the life arranged by others and will not disagree with you. Naturally, there will be no conflicts, and you can reduce a lot of unnecessary troubles in life.

Even though she has many shortcomings, she is still a person who deserves to be loved.

Moreover, through Shen Siyuan's observation, Jiang Taozhi is not that kind of little fairy, but a person who cares about other people's feelings.

Because she grew up in love, she is also good at loving others.

Of course, if this kind of woman meets a scumbag, she will be deeply hurt. Unless she makes changes or has enough support from her family, it will be very miserable.

But Shen Siyuan believes that he is not a scumbag, and if they can really be together, he will definitely make her happy.

That's why Shen Siyuan took the initiative to test the other party's attitude.

However, he did not receive a reply from Jiang Taozhi, but instead received a WeChat message from Ruan Hongzhuang.

"are you home yet?"

Why does this message look so familiar?
Isn't this the message he just sent to Jiang Taozhi? Even the punctuation marks are exactly the same.

What's the matter? Did you copy and paste it and then forward it back?

Shen Siyuan did not reply to the message immediately, but stroked his chin and thought.

He naturally understood what Ruan Hongzhuang meant.

To be honest, if a beautiful woman actively pursues you, it is hard for him not to be moved, as he is not a saint and he is single.

This made Shen Siyuan, who had originally wanted to pursue Jiang Taozhi, a little hesitant.

Just as Shen Siyuan was hesitating whether to reply to the other party's message.

Ruan Hongzhuang then sent another message: "Do you like peaches?"

Shen Siyuan thought about it and sent her a reply first.

"I just got home and saw the message."

Then he continued, "We just met today, so I can't say I like her, but Miss Jiang is really a nice person, so I want to try to get in touch with her first."

Shen Siyuan expressed his thoughts very honestly and did not hide his true thoughts just because the other party was another beautiful woman.

However, there is almost no difference between Shen Siyuan's answer and Jiang Taozhi's answer. They both want to try contact first.

Shen Siyuan saw that there was no response after he sent the message. Just as he was about to put down his phone, he heard it ring again.

I picked it up and saw that it was sent by Ruan Hongzhuang.

"What do you think about me?"

Seeing this, Shen Siyuan immediately gave me an old man's face and asked, "Is my sister so direct?"

But after thinking it over, I considered it again and again, and then sent a message saying, "You are a very nice person."

This time, Ruan Hongzhuang's message came quickly.

"Then should we try dating?" "Well..."

Shen Siyuan was a little shocked.

After thinking for a while, he replied: "Is it too fast?"

"I didn't ask you to be my boyfriend right away. You think I'm a nice person, and I think you're attracted to me, so we can try dating first."

Before Shen Siyuan replied, the other party immediately sent another message.

"Do you think I'm too frivolous?"

Then another one was sent, as if it had been edited long ago and was waiting to be sent.

"I'm afraid you're dating Taozi, so it'll be hard for me to snatch you away."

"..."

Shen Siyuan directly sent six points and he didn’t know what to say.

After sending the six points, he saw that the other party was still typing. Shen Siyuan was curious about what the other party wanted to say, so he waited for him.

"The reason why I am so direct is related to my personality. You have a unique temperament that attracts me. You are a very special person. I am afraid that I will regret it if I miss you..."

"When I do something, even if I regret it later, I won't regret it now, so I might as well be honest with you..."

"Of course, my behavior may disgust you, but I can see that you have a good impression of Taozi. If you two really date, then I will have no chance. I can't do anything to steal her boyfriend..."

"If it weren't for this, I might also choose to slowly get in touch with you..."

"I asked you what I am like? You said I am a nice person, which means you have a good impression of me as well. If that's the case, why don't I give it a try with you first..."

"Also, I have a question. I think my looks and abilities are no worse than Taozi's. Why did you choose her?"

Looking at the messages sent by Ruan Hongzhuang, Shen Siyuan finally understood what she was thinking.

As for the last question, it is also easy to answer: "It is because you are so nice that I feel that we are not suitable for each other."

Then he added, "And I think it would be easier and more comfortable to get along with a girl like Miss Jiang."

Shen Siyuan did not directly point out the problem of the other party's overly strong personality, but with Ruan Hongzhuang's intelligence, she should understand.

"We haven't even gotten along, how do you know it's not suitable?"

"Okay, this is my fault. I was too arbitrary, but this is just based on my personal judgment. I'm afraid that in the end, not only will there be no results, but we will both be deeply hurt."

"Is not it good?"

"?"

Shen Siyuan was full of question marks. What was good about this?
"The deeper the hurt, the more it means that you have each other in your heart. Would you feel sad for a stranger? The deeper the feelings, the more serious the hurt. No matter what the outcome is, for each other, it is the most beautiful memory in life..."

Shen Siyuan suddenly felt that what she said made sense.

A complete life is never just about beauty. Those unforgettable loves and regrets, and unrequited love are the real norm in life.

Shen Siyuan was convinced by her and admired her character of daring to love and hate.

Of course, the most important thing is that the other person is beautiful, which is very important.

So he said, “Then let’s give it a try?”

Ruan Hongzhuang then sent a smiling face and continued, "Let me formally introduce myself. My name is Ruan Hongzhuang, I am 28 years old this year, I have achieved some success in my career, and I have never been in a relationship. I look forward to our future..."

Is it so formal? Shen Siyuan thought.

But I also introduced myself according to the format she sent.

"My name is Shen Siyuan, I'm 26 years old, I've achieved nothing, I don't have a house or a car, and I've had a relationship before..."

Shen Siyuan still spoke bluntly. If Ruan Hongzhuang backed down because of this, then there would be nothing to talk about.

(End of this chapter)