The growth system comes at the age of 30

Chapter 75 Like a Mouse Spying on Others' Happiness
However, Liang Cheng's answer was somewhat unexpected: "No. I also heard it from others."

"what?!"

Chen Jingle was stunned: "Weren't you close in high school?"

You know, even he received many wedding invitations from classmates he hadn't contacted for ten or eight years.

Although in the end I basically didn't go for various reasons.

Liang Cheng gave a little bear spreading his hands expression: "I can only say it's okay. Maybe we haven't been in touch for so many years, so our relationship has faded. I went to her school with other classmates when I was in college, and attended the graduation ceremony. But after graduation, we didn't keep in touch much. Everyone was busy dealing with life. It's okay if you didn't invite me, I may not be free at that time."

It is normal for former classmates and friends to become estranged as they grow older.

It just sounds a bit sad.

Life is like a train. Not everyone will accompany you to the final stop. Most people choose to get off halfway.

Chen Jingle asked: "You don't have time for National Day? Are you going to work overtime?"

“I can’t tell./sigh”

"So outrageous?!"

Is this still a job that everyone envies?
Chen Jingle shivered subconsciously.

Liang Cheng was not surprised: "It's just to deal with the inspection from above, and operate normally."

"Hold on, brother."

Chen Jingle didn't know what to say.

He is now used to the relaxation of lying down, and he is absolutely unwilling to go back to the days of working overtime.

I won't do it even if the salary is higher!
……

Liang Cheng suddenly thought of something:

"By the way, have you noticed that fewer and fewer people around you are getting married in recent years? I originally thought it was because we are getting older and everyone is getting married, but I just didn't notice it. But after chatting with others today, I found out that not only among my classmates of the same age, many men are not married, but even women are not getting married either."

A few years ago, it was simply unthinkable. If you dared not get married after the age of 30, you would be considered an outlier in the eyes of others.

The tide is turning so fast.

“No one is stupid.”

Chen Jingle laughed: "If there is really money dropped on the ground, everyone will pick it up. But the problem is that what has fallen on the ground now is hot potato, who would pick it up when they have nothing to do? Anyway, I don't want to pick it up."

To quote a phrase from netizens, is it really possible for you ordinary people to take advantage?

Moreover,
In today's social atmosphere, a double loss is indeed better than a unilateral loss.

"So, I'm pretty lucky."

Liang Cheng was somewhat thankful, if it had been a few years later, he might have been influenced by the outside world and would not have met Teacher Zhong.

"It's not just good, it's quite good." Chen Jingle couldn't help rolling his eyes.

This was the only thing he envied about Liang Cheng.

Teacher Zhong has good conditions in all aspects. Although he is a teacher, he will not bring his occupational disease of preaching back home, and he will not make trouble for no reason.

The only regret is that they got married in 22 years but didn’t have a wedding.

The situation was rather special at that time, and I didn’t apply for a replacement certificate later.

Well, maybe it’s not a pity?
Because they both don't like it very much.

The so-called wedding is nothing more than a waste of money and suffering, and the guests basically only care about whether the food is delicious.

It's better to spend your money on more important things.

From the time they met to the time Liang Mingyue is over one year old now, the two have never had a quarrel, and they always discuss everything, big or small.

Which man would not envy such a relationship of mutual support?
So every time Liang Cheng showed off intentionally or unintentionally, Chen Jingle could only grit his teeth and feel indignant in his heart: It doesn’t matter, I will be so happy in the future! !
Often at such times, he feels like a villain in a literary work, who cannot bear to see the protagonist surrounded by love. Or like a stinky rat living in a gutter, who only dares to hide in a corner and spy on the overflowing happiness of others. However, if you ask him to find or talk, he will hesitate.

In the past, he could use the excuse that he was poor, ugly, and short, and that others looked down on him, but now, after being transformed by the system, he has escaped the category of goblin and can be considered excellent in all aspects. Even if he goes to the capital of son-in-law for a blind date, he can get a few luxury cars, a few houses, and shops in return.

But his heart was still like a stagnant pool.

Ultimately, it's a problem with your mentality.

Chen Jingle's current mental state is worrying. He doesn't want to fall in love, but he also wants to find someone who is compatible with him in all aspects to spend his life with.

Or you don’t want to get married, but want to raise a cute baby.

If outsiders knew his true thoughts, they would probably point at his nose and laugh at him, asking what he was dreaming about in broad daylight!
All these changes in concepts originated from an abnormal romantic relationship.

It is true that once bitten by a snake, one will be afraid of ropes for ten years.

the other side of the city,
Liang Cheng sat on the sofa and looked up at Teacher Zhong, who was sitting on the floor next to him, holding a small doll and smiling as he teased his daughter who was crawling over using her hands and feet. At this moment, his heart was filled with something called happiness.

It is true that he is not as good as Chen Jingle in many aspects, but he has Teacher Zhong and the lovely Xiao Mingyue, and that is enough.

……

[Baby is awesome! Successfully completed the dinner task and was rewarded with 0.1 cm of height. The current height is 174.8 cm. It turns out that you still need to eat well to grow taller! ]

"It's okay, I have a system."

Chen Jingle could only comfort himself this way.

The gentle voice of the system is a rare medicine that can soothe the restless emotions in your heart.

In the early years, due to the great work pressure, Chen Jingle's mood fluctuated greatly. After returning to his hometown and lying down, he felt much better, but then he went to the other extreme and became lifeless.

The emergence of the system can help neutralize and regulate this emotional state.

Calm, but with a bit more vitality.

Chen Jingle believes that this change in mentality is no less important than the gain of various knowledge and skills.

He has experienced many things that turned out badly due to mentality problems. Emotional problems are a big problem.

It was not until he was 30 that he began to learn to control his emotions instead of being controlled by them.

If he could achieve this level at the age of 20, his career achievements would probably be far more than what they are now.

No wonder the ancients said, "Those who achieve great things will not change their expression when Mount Tai collapses in front of them, and will not blink when a deer appears on their left."

Still gotta practice!

……

Then it's bath time.

After successfully washing away all the fatigue of the day, I simply blow-dried my hair and returned to the bedroom.

It is said that the moon is fullest on the 15th and 16th. At this moment, the night has just fallen, but the full moon is already high in the sky outside the window.

Such a beautiful scenery, accompanied by moon cakes, snacks, fruits and fragrant tea, is a great time to read and study!
The book Chen Jingle is going to read today is called "The Logic of Politics".

Although it was not on Zhong Qing's recommended reading list, it was one of the books he had planned to read.

This author is a true political bigwig, and his theoretical knowledge level is among the best in the world today.

Worth reading.

It’s just that the reading threshold is relatively high.

Therefore, Chen Jingle regards it as an important node for the advancement of ideological and political professional knowledge.

　Let me make up one chapter first.

　　
　
(End of this chapter)