country widow

But then again, Zhang Dazhu and A Juan were not happy about Uncle Yao getting married today. , A Juan is also a reasonable person.

Then Zhang Dazhu started to eat in big mouthfuls, and drank two bottles of beer, feeling very happy in his heart.

night falls...

In a corner of the thatched cottage is Uncle Yao’s new house. There are a lot of old folks and folks gathered in the room, all of them are beaming with smiles on their faces. If you look carefully, you can see that every corner of the room is hung with various There are all kinds of balloons, the table is full of fruits and wedding candies, and a few children are naughty around the table.Such a scene makes people look very human and grand.

The groom and the bride are sitting side by side in a room, the bride has a happy face, and the groom looks a bit shy.

"Whoever still wants to drink, can I have a few more bottles?" The old man waved his right hand and shouted loudly, his mouth was full of alcohol when he spoke.

"You're not finished yet, aren't you? Come on, I'll play with you." Another young man beside him wiped his sleeves and rushed towards the old man.

"Do you still want to drink?" An old lady walked over and reminded worriedly.

When Zhang Dazhu saw this, he said to the old man, "Believe it or not, I will let him broadcast live soon."

"Young man, do you know that I drank more wine than you bathed in? Be careful and crawl back later." The old man is also a person who does not admit defeat. Seeing Zhang Dazhu's tone of voice to him, he felt a little upset.

"Then why don't we have a few bottles now." Zhang Dazhu also continued today's atmosphere, so he wanted to have a good drink with the old man, to see if his wine is good, or he can drink it by himself.

"Zhang Dazhu, don't be impulsive. You are still injured. This is a real thing. Let Uncle Yao make a fuss first." Seeing that Zhang Dazhu's temper was coming up, Ah Juan reminded him if she disturbed him, for fear that he would Drinking too much hurts your health.

When Uncle Yao saw that his father and fellow villagers had come to his room, his heart jumped wildly, and he knew that something was going to start.

The origin of the trouble in the bridal chamber is actually like this...

The couples in the past were not very familiar or even acquainted before marriage. They may feel uncomfortable psychologically if they live in the same space on the wedding night. A generation of people left behind the custom of "three days without size", and the distinctions between seniors and children, relatives and friends, and men and women were broken, and everyone played freely and freely.

Now, in traditional Chinese weddings, there are many customs and games that play with newcomers from all over the country. These games include funny games that enhance the atmosphere and imply a happy marriage between the two, as well as vulgar content, deliberately embarrassing the newcomers and even molesting the bride. Suspected of "dross".

Regarding the origin of the custom of making trouble in the house, there are two kinds of opinions among the people in our country.

One said it originated from exorcising evil spirits and avoiding disasters.

According to legend, a long time ago when Ziwei Xing went down to earth, he met a woman in sackcloth and filial piety on the road, following a group of bridegrooms. He saw that the devil was waiting for an opportunity to do evil, so he followed the bridegroom's house, and saw that the woman had already passed away. Arrived first, and hid in the bridal chamber.

When the bride and groom were about to enter the bridal chamber after worshiping heaven and earth, Ziweixing guarded the door and refused to let them in, saying that there was a devil hiding inside, and everyone asked him to give him advice on how to get rid of the devil. He suggested: "The devil is most afraid of crowds. The devil will not dare to do evil.” So the groom asked the guests to play and laugh in the bridal chamber, driving away the evil spirits with laughter, and sure enough, at five o’clock, the devil finally escaped. It can be seen that the bridal chamber was covered from the very beginning. The color of exorcising evil and avoiding disaster.

The custom of making a bridal chamber to exorcise evil spirits exists in all parts of the north and south.

Before someone enters the bridal chamber, in the middle and lower reaches of the Yangtze River, the groom has to sleep in the bridal chamber the night before, and asks two girls to hold red candles to illuminate the interior of the bridal chamber in advance; Tianjin people ask the music team to play in the bridal chamber for auspiciousness. After the newcomer enters the house, it is still very important to drive out the evil spirits in the house. For example, in Dongzhang, the groom should symbolically shoot an arrow at each of the four corners of the new house after entering the house, or hold a single knife in his hand and make a virtual slash at each corner, and the song says: "First cut the demon, second cut the monster, third cut the devil's bad head, fourth cut the gods and leave quickly, laughing and watching the unicorn send a child." A more common custom is to have a built-in long-burning lamp in the new house.This is what the so-called "bridal chamber wedding night" means.Some scholars have studied that the custom of listening to the house is actually a protective measure to prevent ghosts from entering the bridal chamber.

Another point of view about the origin of the troubled house is that the troubled house first appeared in the north, and at the beginning it was mainly the groom, which probably has something to do with the living habits of the northern peoples.They used hunting and nomadic means of living, which made the men very strong and brave, and enduring the beating with sticks when they were newly married could prove that a man was a qualified man.

Now with the improvement of people's life and the development of social science and technology, it has become such an explanation.

The bridal chamber not only makes the family happy, but the relatives and friends who make the bridal chamber are also happy to take the opportunity to make a noise and use various new tricks to make the bride and groom "sit in a sleepy city" dumbfounded.It can also be regarded as a way of entertainment, giving relatives and friends who rarely see each other an extra chance to get together.

The bridal chamber is about to begin.

A young man who drank too much didn't know where so many bad ideas came from, so he shouted loudly to everyone, "Fathers and elders, today is the big day for Uncle Yao and his wife. I'm not talented, I just had a few drinks." Belly, I will send them some good poems!"

When he was talking, the young man closed his eyes and slowly shook his head, "The groom will enter the cave tonight, the bride will only feel happy and not cry, the groom will come out from time to time, the bride will hold her husband to keep him from moving, and the groom will shrink his head and fall." Get out of the hole, the bridegroom of the new night made a hole."

Ha ha ha ha……

None of the people present was not smiling, and the girls almost ran out all day. Zhang Dazhu couldn't wait to punch that guy now. There is a slight smile, that is a happy smile.

At this time, a voice suddenly came from the door, "Good poems, return poems."

squirt...

When everyone looked at each other, it turned out to be a child.

In an instant, a group of people fell down.

"Today is Uncle Yao's big day, we should let the two of them play a game, everyone agree?" Zhang Dazhu turned his head to everyone and said, his eyes were hard on everyone present and he put a Sheer radiance.

"Okay, we must play a game." Actually, everyone knows that there are many bridal chamber games, which are nothing more than embarrassing the bride and groom.