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My mother sighed and said to me while patting her thigh: "She is in her early fifties now, and she still lives alone. In the past ten years of divorce, she has met countless relatives, and she has been with some of the men for a while." , but none of them can grow too long, and what about the man she used to be? Since she divorced her, she soon talked about a big girl in her early thirties, and that big girl gave birth to him a son, and now he and Lin The daughter he gave birth to is also married, and he and his step-wife have a good life as a family of three, and I heard that he has been promoted."

I silently listened to my mother's narration, and then asked her calmly: "Mom, why are you telling me these things?"

My mother took my hand, and said to me with a bitter face: "Xiao Man, you are already in your 30s, you are not a young girl anymore, don't be so impulsive when things happen, let's not gossip about Wen Liang Whether it’s true or not, the current social atmosphere is unequal for men and women. If you are divorced at your age, men can quickly find a suitable one, but it is difficult for women to find a satisfactory one. You said your cousin's sister, is she poor in appearance? Is she poor in ability? She was only in her thirties when she divorced, and she was quite beautiful, but she is still alone when she is over fifty years old. Back then, her man knelt down and begged her , she also refused to forgive him, in fact, there are some things, take a step back, if she hadn't divorced, why would she be wandering in a foreign land at this age, without even a home!"

My mother's words made me feel very heavy. I knew she did not agree with my divorce, but every family has scriptures that are difficult to recite. How does she know the pain in my heart?

My mother has the final say in my family, so my mother's attitude can basically represent my father's attitude. Before I left my mother's house that day, my father came back. Say goodbye and leave your mother's house.

On the way back from my natal home, I thought a lot. I know that the only people in this world who can love me unconditionally are my biological parents. They don’t want me to divorce because they are afraid that I will not find a suitable companion in the rest of my life and be alone for the rest of my life. So Now, when I'm still undecided, they're trying to persuade me not to separate.

However, no pair of parents wants their children to be wronged and depressed for a lifetime, so as long as I make up my mind to divorce, I know that my parents will respect my opinion, although they will feel a little helpless in their hearts.

So what I am most worried about now is my daughter's attitude. After all, breaking up this family will hurt my daughter Tongtong the most.

Although my husband Deng Wenliang has been indifferent to me for the past three years, his affection for his daughter is always deep. In the past, even if he came home once a few days, the first thing he cared about when he came back was his daughter's study In terms of life and life, Tongtong and her father have a deep relationship and are greatly influenced by him. Even some details of life are surprisingly consistent between the father and daughter.

Looking at the photos of their father and daughter, when they smile, the curvature of the eyes and the curvature of the mouth are exactly the same. This is really a pair of real father and daughter.

Over the past few years, in the face of Deng Wenliang's neglect, I have been refraining from divorce, just for my daughter, but now I am also on the verge of cheating, so my marriage with Deng Wenliang is already in name only, so I can't I can bear it any longer, but how can I tell my daughter this?