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Chapter 111
Medium: Mind Reading: Knowing and Influencing Those Around You Without Knowing It
Chapter 7 Mind-reading exercise 7: The social code of the Enneagram
Section [-] Giving Personality: Nothing to Say About Being Helpful

Aspects of mind reading:
What kind of person is a "giving personality"?
Wonderful interpretation of mind:
"I can communicate with people of different temperaments, because for different people, I can try my best to meet their needs and help them overcome difficulties, but I am not flattering, I just always hope that others will think of me in times of crisis, And I can bring them happiness through my help."

In interpersonal communication, the giver says and does the same.They lend a helping hand when others need it most, and because of this, givers are often the most popular people in relationships, and they often get windfalls as a result.

One day, a poor little boy was selling products from door to door in order to save enough tuition fees.After working all day, he felt very hungry at this time, but he only had a dime all over his body.How to do it?He decided to ask for a meal from the next family.When the young woman with a giving personality opened the door, the little boy was a little overwhelmed. Instead of begging for food, he begged for a sip of water.Seeing how hungry he looked, the young woman brought him a large glass of milk.The boy drank the milk slowly and asked, "How much should I pay?" The young woman replied, "Not a penny. Mother taught us to give love without expecting anything in return." The boy said, "Then , please accept my heartfelt thanks!" After speaking, the boy left the family.At this moment, he not only felt that he was full of energy, but also saw God nodding and smiling at him.

A few years later, the woman suffered from a rare and serious illness, and the local doctors were helpless.In the end, she was transferred to a big city for medical treatment, where she was consulted and treated by experts.That little boy back then is now the famous Howard?Dr. Kelly, he also participated in the formulation of the treatment plan.When he saw the origin of the patient written on the medical record, a strange thought flashed through his mind, and he immediately got up and went straight to the ward.

When he came to the ward, Dr. Kelly immediately recognized the patient lying on the bed as the benefactor who had helped him.He returned to his office, determined to do everything in his power to cure his benefactor.From that day on, he took special care of this patient.After hard work, the operation was a success.Dr. Kelly asked for the medical bill to be sent to him, and he signed it next to it.

When the medical expense notice was delivered to this special patient, she dared not look at it, because she was sure that the cost of medical treatment would cost her all her belongings.In the end, she mustered up her courage and opened the medical bill. The small print on the side caught her attention, and she couldn't help reading it softly: "Medical bills—a full glass of milk. Howard? Dr. Kelly."

Because of helping others, they often get rewards from others when they need help. This is what people with giving personalities often encounter.In fact, in interpersonal communication, not only people with giving personality, but also people with other types of personality should take the initiative to care for each other when they need help. In this way, there will be less indifference and more warmth between people.

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