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Chapter 145 Part Two
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Chapter 1 Psychological Strategy 1: Weaving a network of contacts
Section [-] Promises must be carefully made, and promises must be fulfilled
Mental Wisdom Call:

Not taking promises lightly is the foundation of people keeping promises.

Skillful in control:

In our life, we must not promise others easily, because as the saying goes, "Speaking out is like pouring out water", if you promise others to do something, but later find that you can't do it, then you can accept it or not. back.

If you want to control others, you must first be honest and trustworthy.An important aspect of being honest and trustworthy is never to say anything you are not sure of, especially never to make promises lightly, that is, not to take promises lightly.Not taking promises lightly is the foundation of people keeping promises.Those who promise rashly must be those who have little faith.It is better not to promise people in the first place than to end up being a broken person.

In dealing with others, some people, in order to make others have a good impression of themselves, or to save their own face, or to give the other party a step, often accept some requests from the other party without analysis, which makes them uncomfortable , This is the failure to master the basic skills of dealing with others.

When someone asks you to do something, you must first consider whether you have the ability to do it. If you can’t do it, you have to honestly say: "I can't." It is not necessary to refuse because of embarrassment.Committing to something you can't do will not only be disappointing, it could hurt both of you.Because if you say it can't be done, he may find someone else to do it or think of another way, but you promise but it doesn't work out. Doing so will hurt your friendship.

It is emphasized here not to make promises to others rashly, it does not mean not to promise at all, but to think twice before acting.Try not to say things like "it's okay" and "leave it on me" and give yourself some leeway.A smooth promise is just a rope that will tighten your neck.

If a person often makes various promises irresponsibly in life, but rarely keeps them, the result will definitely leave a bad impression on others.Therefore, when getting along with others, don't make promises easily. Once you make a promise, you must keep it.Others will be moved by your attitude, and will think you are a trustworthy person, so they will trust and rely on you.

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