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Chapter 6 Psychological Strategy 6: Harmonize with colleagues and create a relationship that is both right and left

Section [-] Five great ways to get along well with colleagues
Mental Wisdom Call:

Don't deliberately change yourself to adapt to others in order to get into the circle of colleagues as soon as possible.

Skillful in control:

Colleagues are the people we spend nearly one-third of our time getting along with each other. Undoubtedly, they are closely related to the happiness and happiness of our work, career and even life. They are the group that has the deepest influence on us.So, in the workplace, how to win the favor of colleagues?
1. Go with the flow, don't be fake

Working time is the best opportunity for you to get along with your colleagues and strive to integrate into the circle of colleagues as soon as possible.There is no insurmountable barrier between you and your colleagues, but because of unfamiliarity, or just because of the barriers you have set up in your heart, you feel their rejection, which may not be the truth.As long as you're patient, it's only a matter of time before you mingle with your colleagues.

It should be noted that you must not deliberately change yourself to adapt to others in order to get into the circle of colleagues as soon as possible.For example, deliberately catering to your colleagues in terms of words and actions, being cold in your heart, but pretending to be extremely enthusiastic on the surface... This is unnecessary. Once they see your hypocrisy, they will despise you and despise you, which is not good for you. into the collective.

2. Make the most of spare time and opportunities

In addition to working hours, spare time is also a good time for you to integrate into the group as soon as possible. On rest days or holidays, you can use your brains to hold some interesting parties, or sincerely invite colleagues from the same office to your home and cook some special dishes …It’s all a great way to communicate ideas and exchange ideas.

In addition, when the unit travels or vacations in groups, try to be active as much as possible, truly show your personality, and sincerely express your enthusiasm.Be sure not to be alone, as that will make your colleagues find you difficult to get along with.

3. Caring and caring for colleagues

Don't be afraid to offer up your love, as long as you mean it.For example, when you go to the mail room to pick up newspapers, you can take the letters and newspapers from the colleagues upstairs and hand them over to them; for example, if a colleague is busy with work and works overtime at noon, you will take the initiative to buy lunch for him, etc.Even if a colleague doesn't need your help, he will accept your wishes.In this way, if you carefully observe the needs of your colleagues at any time, and always have a kind and helpful attitude, then your circle of colleagues will quickly recognize and accept you.

4. To be tolerant, to be satisfied

You never have to hope that everyone in a group agrees and accepts you, because people's temperaments are always diverse, and you only need to be accepted and accepted by the majority of people.Therefore, you have to be tolerant in the face of someone's rejection and indifference, consider it a normal phenomenon, and smile and deal with him the same way. As for his attitude towards you, you don't need to care about it at all.When you have been accepted and appreciated by most people in a circle, you have already integrated into this group, and you have to learn to be satisfied.If you're constantly on edge, even complaining, you won't fit in for long even if you fit in, because people always welcome people who bring them joy, not embarrassment and depression.

5. Be generous to your colleagues

It's not good to be too stingy, sometimes you can be generous, and your kindness will be remembered in people's hearts.

Of course, being generous to your colleagues does not mean that you spend a lot of money to buy "popularity" in order to please others and win the favor of colleagues, regardless of your own economic conditions.In this way, you won't spend too much money, and you can win good popularity. Why not do it?

In any case, to win the favor of others, it is most important to have a sincere heart.If you care about and be considerate of your colleagues in some details, and get along with them tolerantly and generously, your colleagues will definitely have a good impression of you and be happy to get along with you.

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