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Chapter 9 Psychological Strategy 9: Psychology in Entertainment
The entertainment at the end of the seventh section of the banquet cannot be ignored

Mental Wisdom Call:

The entertainment at the end of the banquet is very important, and the good image you have worked so hard to maintain in the hearts of the banquet recipients should not be lost due to a momentary negligence.

Skillful in control:

Closing the banquet satisfactorily takes thought and entertainment.

1. When the banquet ends

Generally speaking, when the host puts the napkin on the table or stands up from the table, it means that the banquet is over.Only after seeing this signal can guests put down their napkins and stand up.

The farewell time for the reception after dinner is based on common sense. If the reception is not held on the weekend, it means that the farewell time should be between [-]pm and midnight.If it is a weekend, it can be later.Unless the guest is a close friend of the host, it is generally not recommended to sit there at the end of the reception.

2. The order of departure

When the banquet is over and you leave the table, you should not just pull the chair away, but move the chair back to its original position after you walk out of the seat.As a man, take this opportunity to be a gentleman.You can help the lady next to you remove the chair, then put it back at the table after she leaves.It should be noted that some restaurants are relatively crowded, so getting up hastily, or dropping handbags and clothes on the ground, or bumping into people, knocking over tea and dishes, often makes people feel impolite and embarrassing.Therefore, when leaving the meeting, you must be extra careful, and don't make such a "little episode" that shouldn't happen at the last moment.In addition, when leaving the table, be sure to let the person with high status, the elderly and the lady go first, and the VIP is usually the first person to leave.

3. Warm farewell
When the guests leave, the host of the banquet should stand at the door and say goodbye to them one by one as if welcoming the guests.When the guests leave in groups, they should also be sent to the door, wave each other good night, and should greet each other and say: "Thank you very much for coming, thank you for maintaining the atmosphere of the banquet so well." I will also directly express: "Thank you for your support, having you here has brought a lot of joy to everyone, and I hope to have such an opportunity to dine with you next time."

After the banquet is over, many banquet hosts will sincerely keep the guests.However, it is also necessary to grasp the propriety in doing so.Unless you know that the other party has no other plans after the banquet, and you don't mind staying longer, you must not say: "It's still early, you must not leave so early, it's too embarrassing for me!" Especially if you have to go to work the next day, it is even more impolite to do so.You know, most people have to get up early the next day.

For the guests who have not left for a long time, they are obviously keen on this atmosphere. At this time, you can stop pouring wine or supplying candies and melon seeds, etc., to imply that it is time for the guests to leave.

Some hosts prepare a small souvenir for each attendee, and ask the guests to bring it when the banquet ends.All kinds of hospitality, including candies, fruits, cigarettes, etc., cannot be taken away, except for things that the host specifically indicated as souvenirs.

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