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Chapter 26 Part [-]
Previous: Questioning skills: how to speak so that others will listen, how to listen so that others will speak
Chapter 5 Interrogation Scene 5: Interrogative Secret Words to See Through a Man’s Heart
Section [-] Instinctive questioning to measure a man's maturity
Mini scene house:
How to tell if a man is mature by asking questions.

Question story session:
"Honey, I'm thinking about a question: Why do people grow up?"

"What? Why do people grow up? Husband, you are a man, how can you ask such a question?"

"What's wrong with the man? Is this kind of question naive?"

"What do you say? Do I still say you are mature?"

"Actually, men and women are the same. They both need care and care. When I'm in a bad mood, I still want you to coax me."

"Husband, why are you still acting like a child? Do you want me to coax you? Do you have to do this every time in the future?"

"..."

Wonderful question:

There is a saying: "All men are children. As long as you understand this, you will understand everything about men." But the man in the above is a bit too naive, and he wonders why people grow up. Really puzzling.So, how should we understand the words of the man above?

From asking why a person should grow up to being coaxed by his wife, this is actually a sign of immaturity.For a man, it is very important to know how to take responsibility, but the man in the article let his wife coax him because of a little thing. He did not think that as a man, many things should be solved by himself instead of relying on others.The impact of this kind of thinking on him is that once he encounters something, the first thing he thinks of is to escape and shrink back, instead of being strong on the surface, strong on the outside but hard on the inside.

Many men in modern society, like the protagonist in the article, always want to get comfort from others.The deep explanation for this kind of behavior is: such a man refuses to grow up deep down in his heart, and is afraid of taking responsibility, whether it is family or marriage.They are used to being dependent on others, and even as adults, they still have this kind of thinking.

Such a man needs the care and comfort of others from time to time, and he feels insecure to others, especially women, as is the case with the hostess in the article.When the husband said that he was in a bad mood and needed to be coaxed by his wife, her immediate reaction was that he was still like a child and needed her comfort all the time.

The wife's questioning is a kind of instinct, and the more instinctive it is, the more it can shock people to the point.Just like the man in the story, he was speechless and ashamed by his wife's question.

(End of this chapter)