For the rest of my life, please advise

Chapter 36
At the age of parents, especially those who are busy with work, many people find housekeepers to clean regularly, but the doctor father thinks that "it is not good for strangers to come and go in and out of my living space", so I always insist on the couple cleaning by themselves. The points are 100% inherited by doctors.

The doctor's wife has a particularly gentle personality, her facial expression has always been soft, and she can't see happiness or anger, so when I came to visit for the first time, I was quite uncertain: "Doctor, does your mother like me or doesn't like me? "

Doctor: "If she has physical contact with you, she likes you. This is hereditary in our family."

Later, I observed carefully and found that as long as people who were not close to me approached, the doctor's wife would subconsciously move away a little. It was not obvious, but there was really no physical contact.Doctor grandpa, doctor grandma, doctor father are all, and so are doctors.When asked why, he replied: "Cleanliness."

After work, the doctor has been living in the apartment alone, and the doctor's wife will call him every now and then.After we fell in love, she asked me a lot.

some time.

"What does the school do?"

"In the shower."

some time.

"What does the school do?"

"on the bed."

some time.

"What does the school do?"

"Getting dressed."

some time.

"What does the school do?"

"Still sleeping."

In fact, I was taking a shower, sitting on the bed and wiping my hair, putting on a coat before going out, and taking a nap.She is obviously very innocent, but when he said that, she immediately became passionate.

However, the doctor's wife always reminded her: "Well, you should pay attention to your health."

The doctor's wife likes to travel, but the doctor's father is busy.

Mother also likes to travel, but Teacher Lin is also very busy.

So, the two came together for a common hobby.Until now, I don't know how the two of them got on the line. In the summer vacation of 2012, the two mothers suddenly decided to go to Shennongjia to play together, so this pair of very different personalities set off happily.

The second day after the two mothers went on a trip, Teacher Lin called me: "Girl, when are you coming back?"

At that time, there were some things in school that I couldn't get away from, so I told him: "I will go back to accompany you when I finish my school work."

Teacher Lin complained: "Oh, the girl who worked so hard to grow up was kidnapped, and now even his wife is involved."

The two mothers are traveling abroad, and their style of calling is completely different from that of the two fathers.

Doctor father: "Are you tired today?"

The doctor's wife: "Not tired, not tired." Then she began to introduce where they went, where, where.

Mother: "Are you good today?"

Teacher Lin said in an indifferent tone: "Anyway, you don't want me, I'm alone, what else can I do?" He was so wronged that he complained to me, "Oh, the girl who worked so hard to grow up was abducted, Now even the wife is in it."

After returning from Shennongjia, the doctor's wife said to the doctor: "It is said that the current mother-in-law will be the wife in 30 years. I got in touch with it seriously, and it is very good."

My mother said to me: "I got in touch seriously, and your future mother-in-law is very beneficial."

The doctor and I: "..."

Because doctors and parents work in the same way, they often talk about professional issues, and I can't hear them in the clouds. At this time, my grandfather said kindly: "Come on, let's chat. Ignore them."

Gu Wei was surprised that we hit it off so well, and always said that my grandparents treated me better than him.

Once, Gu Wei and Gu Wei went to see their grandfather and stayed overnight. The two lived next door, and the door was left open.In winter, I forgot to turn on the electric blanket, got into bed after taking a shower, and then said "ah".

Gu Wei came over and asked, "What's the matter?" He stretched his hand under the quilt suspiciously, "Come and sleep with me, how long will this be?"

I shook my head desperately, not married yet.

Gu Wei helped his forehead, lifted the quilt and lay down.

I was anxious: "What are you doing, go back to your nest."

Gu Wei was very calm: "Help you make the quilt."

Me: "What about your own?"

He looked at me like an idiot and said, "I have turned on the heat in the electric blanket."

Later, just fell asleep.

When he woke up the next day, he was already up.I looked at the pillow next to me, and got up again to look at the folded bed next door, not knowing where he slept on in the end.

Standing in a daze at the door of the two rooms, my grandfather came in from the terrace outside, and when he passed by me, he said to me very casually: "It's okay, ah, it's okay."

It was only when my grandfather walked away that I found out in embarrassment that the meaning of this sentence is too profound...

When the doctor's grandmother was still alive, she often talked about Gu Wei with me: "Xiaobei may not be perfect, but he is a good boy. I will work hard for you in the future."

I was a little embarrassed: "Actually, he takes care of me more."

Grandma smiled and said, "Who is more and who is less? The couple wants to cherish each other. The more you cherish him, the more he cherishes you. You have a long way to go in the future, and you will encounter many things. Xiaobei has a heavy heart. When you meet someone Kaner, give him a hand."

During the week of grandma's death, Gu Wei's sleep was very poor, most of the time he just closed his eyes to rest his mind, and opened his eyelids whenever there was any movement.Since he was a child, his parents were busy with work, and his childhood was basically spent with his grandparents, and he had a close relationship with the two elders, so he always cared about his filial piety for not being able to accompany her more before his grandma left.

Once when I woke up in the middle of the night, I found that he was frowning and sweating all over his body. When I asked him, he only said that he had dreamed about grandma.

I hugged him into my arms and stroked his back: "Grandma passed away very peacefully."

Gu Wei is invincible most of the time, he seems to be in control of all aspects, and never let his elders worry about him since he was a child.He is like a small white poplar, it grows all the way up, and when it encounters a problem, it weighs and makes decisions by itself, without any crooked branches or side branches, it has become a Xiusenxiu tree.The family has long regarded him as a man who takes care of himself, and no one treats him as a child, except grandma.Only grandma would take his arm with a smile and ask, "Are you tired at work?" She would hold his hand, "Come and see how my yew tree looks like", and would tease him, "Mr. I can see how much you like people."

Those warm, soft, and bright places on Gu Wei's body all have the shadow of grandma.Especially when they smile, they all have the same look in their eyes.To Gu Wei, losing such an elder is indescribably sad.I can only try to fill the gaps in his life and channel these tough and tender strengths into him.

dear ren

My grandparents didn't officially get married until they were 30 years old because of their work, and then they had my uncle and Mr. Lin.Grandpa looked at the two mischievous boys in the family, and he especially hoped to have a daughter. He hoped day and night that grandma would finally be pregnant again. Grandpa suddenly received a notice and was transferred to another district for about two years. Thinking about it, he resolutely let the grandma follow him, and threw the two sons to the nanny.

Grandma was nearly forty years old at the time, and with the old diseases left over from the years of war, the child could not be saved in the end.At the same time, Grandpa received news that his younger brother died on the battlefield, and his sister-in-law was more than seven months pregnant.

After the little uncle was born, the grandfather and grandmother discussed: "My sister-in-law is still young, let's raise the child."

In this way, the infant uncle was adopted.Therefore, the little uncle is not actually my real uncle.

When the grandparents returned to X City, the little uncle was already two years old, and he was so cute. Uncle and Mr. Lin happily circled around him all day long.

The grandparents completely treated the little uncle as their own child. Over the years, the three sons have been treated equally.Grandpa didn't tell the truth until the year Xiaoren was born.He believes that when a man has a child of his own, he is truly mature and can afford anything for his family.

The grandfather said to the little uncle: "Don't want to be great, but to be a man, don't be ashamed of your father and son."

So I like to chat with the old people, because they have walked a road that we have never walked, and experienced stories that we have never experienced.The things that have been deposited on them over the years can give people a simple and reassuring force.

Since childhood, Xiao Ren was instilled by her uncle in such a thought: "My sister is the only girl in our family, you have to protect her."

Xiaoren has always been kind to me in a daze since she was a child. When she couldn't speak clearly, she would grab my clothes and follow me like a "sister and sister".

Relatively speaking, my eldest brother has very little contact with us. He is eight years older than me, and the university is very far away from home. When he left, I had not yet graduated from elementary school, and Xiaoren had just carried his schoolbag.

Those were really tough times.My parents are busy, going on business trips, studying, and holding meetings one by one, and the two of them spend less than half of the time at home together in a year.My uncle and aunt are also on business trips frequently, and Xiaoren and I are the only ones left at home, so we get along quite a bit like we depend on each other.

Xiao Ren's aunt was entrusted to take care of him, but he didn't like that "woman with a scent all over her body", so he ran to my house by himself, looking at me with round eyes: "Sister, shall I live with you?"

Let him sleep in his parents' room, he is not willing, he would rather sleep on the sofa, and then open the door of my room to face him at night.Later, I moved another quilt, one bed for each person, and the two of them slept head to foot at night, and when he fell asleep, he ran out with one hand and put it on the corner of my quilt.

Looking back now, a six or seven-year-old child, how insecure he is.

Xiaoren always said: "My sister's wontons are invincible."

At that time, lunch and dinner could be settled in the cafeteria of the family courtyard, but there was no breakfast.I really don't like the cold milk and sweet and greasy bread in the early morning, and I feel that the ones bought outside are not clean, so I took Xiaoren to the supermarket on weekends to buy all kinds of quick-frozen glutinous rice balls, quick-frozen dumplings, quick-frozen noodles, quick-frozen Steamed stuffed bun, I change it every day when I come back, it is a hot breakfast after all.

Once, seeing the grandma downstairs making wontons in the yard, the two of them came back and thought about whether we should make wontons too.

The two people who didn't understand anything went to the vegetable market with their wallets in their pockets.Go to buy meat first, and tell the boss: "The two of us will make wontons, and we will eat them for a week. How much meat will we need?"

(End of this chapter)