For the rest of my life, please advise

Chapter 51
Parting is for a better reunion with you.

In the first six months of my marriage, many people asked me what was the difference between before and after marriage.

I thought about it carefully, and there was no change, except that Mr. Gu became a little more unscrupulous.

It is often said that love is the grave of marriage.It is true that marriage is indeed the beginning of daily necessities, but it may not be the end of romance.When we got married, my grandfather gave us four words: Don't forget the original intention.When life is entangled in daily trivialities, when each other's shortcomings are gradually magnified, as long as you don't forget your sincerity when you made the decision to get married, then love will eventually be preserved as old wine by time.

At the beginning of September, I was notified that I would be assigned to participate in a scientific research project, which took a long time.Rare program, rare school, rare opportunity.When I received the dispatch notice, my mind wandered for a long time.

Special approval from the leader: "Xiao Lin, you should communicate well with your family. You are newly married, and you really have to overcome it."

For more than four years, we have been together less and separated more. We have just experienced half a year of separation, and now we are going to be separated again.

I made a plan and went all the way to the hospital, the office was empty, only Gu Wei was left, and he had to work the night shift.Hearing the news of my dispatch, he was taken aback for a moment, asked the location and time, said "um", and didn't say anything more.

We ate together in silence, and after the meal he said, "I'll take you to the parking lot."

When I got to the car, I tugged at his sleeve: "You can sit with me for a while."

The two sat in the back seat silently, I nestled in his arms and listened to his heartbeat: "Gu Wei, I don't want to leave."

He patted me on the back and smiled, "Why are you more wronged than me?"

Gu Wei and I packed the luggage together.

It's a very subtle feeling.Almost a year ago, I ran around the apartment and even the entire X City with my list, constantly adjusting the contents of his box.But now, we have prepared everything in two days, and the suitcase is leaning against the corner quietly, and no one moves it again.

"Be careful outside. Roommates and good friends, the numbers are all set to one-touch dialing."

"Ah."

"Pay attention to your diet, you will start to feel uncomfortable after two days."

"Ah."

"Keep your knees warm. Wear gloves when you go out in autumn."

"Ah."

Seeing that I kept silent, Gu Wei smiled and said, "Keep a distance from the opposite sex." After thinking about it, "Keep a distance from the same sex too."

I was amused by him and rubbed his face: "I put the wedding ring on my forehead."

Chen Cong: "When you come out to play around, you have to pay it back sooner or later. It's just that Gu Wei didn't expect him to pay it back so soon."

I:"……"

Chen Cong patted Gu Wei on the shoulder: "Okay, be happy, distance creates beauty."

Gu Wei: "It's beautiful enough."

Chen Cong: "A little farewell is better than a newlywed."

Gu Wei: "We were newly married."

Chen Cong turned his head: "School, why is Gu Wei so irritable?"

Gu Wei: "..."

Passerby A and Xiaocao's wedding is coming soon. Hearing that I am going out, Passerby A called immediately: "When are you leaving?"

Me: "October [-]rd."

Passerby A: "You are forcing me to change the date of marriage!"

I laughed: "Whether you are a brother or not depends on now."

Passerby A: "It's very difficult to arrange a hotel row now!"

Me: "Hmm...outdoor or western food?"

Passerby A: "Xiaocao, look, it was Lin Zhixiao who forced you! It wasn't me!" (Borrowing a knife to kill someone, borrowing me to force a marriage!) So the wedding date was really brought forward.

Xiaocao: "Ah Xiao, bring me some special products."

Me: "What?"

Xiaocao: "Handsome guy."

I:"……"

Passerby A: "She was joking."

I... The point is, you can't bring this, right?
Me: "I hate Eleven, it's become a couple's separation day."

Gu Wei: "Forty years ago, what you said was reactionary, just drag it away."

"..." I looked at Gu Wei intently and rubbed my stomach, "Maybe I was alone when I went, and two when I came back."

Gu Wei: "What do you want to do?!"

Me: "Hey..."

"Lin Zhixiao!!!" Gu Wei's voice turned around, "You...you won't...you..."

Me: "Just kidding." Not pregnant.

Gu Wei: "..."

Me: "You can come and see me if you have time off."

Gu Wei curled his lips: "Then, so that you can go there by yourself and return by two?"

Tsk, this man is too vengeful!

Mother: "Be careful in everything outside, take care of yourself, blah blah blah..."

Me: "Mom, I'm not going to blow up a bunker."

Mother: "It would be better for you to blow up the bunker."

What kind of girl am I!
Relatively speaking, the doctor's wife behaved more like a real mother, touching my arms and legs, watching me and sighing.

Me: "Mom, don't sigh!"

Doctor's father: "It's okay, lesbians are more sentimental."

The doctor's wife: "Why is the other leaving just as soon as one comes back?"

I don't know how to comfort me at all.

Gu Wei: "Mom, don't worry about it, ah, don't worry about it, you've already got married and come home, you can't throw it away."

I:"……"

Grandpa is not in good health recently, but he doesn't want to move to live with the doctor's parents, so Gu Wei suggested: "Grandpa, move in and live with me."

Grandpa: "No."

Gu Wei: "Just stay with me, you see I will be alone soon."

Grandpa: "Well, then the two of you are alone together?"

Gu Wei: "Let's find a partner. It's not good to eat alone."

Grandpa: "You didn't get through before you got married?"

Gu Wei: "..."

Me: "Grandpa, just help me look after Gu Wei."

Grandpa: "What are you looking at? What can he do? What can he dare to do?!"

Me: "...Look at him, don't make him sad too much. He has something on his mind and never says a word. Please help me untie him."

Gu Wei: "..."

Grandpa reluctantly agreed.

Xiaocao Passerby's wedding was in the open air.This is really forced, the hotel is really gone during the eleventh period.In fact, I couldn't book it outside, which fully shows that I am just a cover, and passer-by A has long been ambitious.

The grass was just mowed last month, and there is still a faint smell of grass.

What a nonsensical passer-by, but the most romantic and artistic wedding scene among our group.

It is said that he insisted on the beautiful and pure style of white and white, so all the decorations on the scene, such as ribbons, yarns, bows, and balloons, were all clean white, except for the lily petals that were slightly pink.

The picture is very beautiful, but the wind has been a bit strong these two days...

swaying...

So Xiaocao got angry, and early in the morning of the wedding day, she forced to add golden ribbons and balloons.

When the wedding started, we sat obliquely behind Grass Father and Grass Mother. Seeing Cao Mama’s expression of reluctance, Grass Father patted her on the knee.

I looked at Gu Wei: "Oh, this is marrying a daughter."

Gu Wei: "..."

I looked around and before I knew it, everyone around me was getting married.Cousin, Senior Brother, Senior Sister, Monkey, Yinxi, Sansan, Xiaocao... Everyone’s love is different, and they are all enough to write thick novels, enough to make us laugh when we are very old .Every couple attending the wedding in twos may be thinking about or imagining their own wedding when they look at the newlyweds on the stage in high spirits.

Love is a vine that grows into our hearts.
Passerby A was still nonsensical, and while putting a ring on Xiaocao, he muttered: "When I win 500 million, I'll give you a five-carat one!"

Everyone laughed.Anyone who came here knew that passer-by A was actually nervous.

Playing small short films outdoors requires high light and the effect is not good. Passerby A grabbed the microphone and said, "Forget it, they are all photo collections. Don't play them. Let me tell you."

"In fact, I noticed Xiaocao very early. I forgot the exact time. I think she looks so small, why does she look like a minor."

The crowd laughed.

"When I sat behind her in class, I watched her take notes with her head slumped, and I thought, oh, that's good, I don't need to memorize it, the PPT is too fast, I just copy her from now on."

The mentor who came down to witness the marriage shook his head dumbfounded.

"Later, I felt quite depressed. There are not many people in our class, and there are even fewer girls. There are only four, and the other three are all looking for someone. Why don't you look for it? A real handsome guy is sitting behind you!"

Passerby B quickly laughed and twitched.

"Later, I thought, such a beautiful, hard-working and down-to-earth girl should not be kidnapped by someone from a foreign department! As the monitor, I am responsible."

The whole class laughed together.

"I approached her with purpose and purpose, and joined her in a group. I would like to thank my good brother Lin Zhixiao and my good sister Passerby B. One for helping, the other for instigating... Well, I wish you two happiness ah."

The classmates in the class laughed.I really want to beat up passerby, even wearing a suit can't hide his temperament of Zhou Xingxing and Xiaoshenyang!
"At that time, many boys liked Xiaocao. Hey, do you know that?"

Xiaocao shook her head in embarrassment and indignation as she looked at the scene where she was completely elated.

"Oh, it's because science men are more reserved. So, I'm here to tell those brothers who are still single: when you fall in love, someone has to be a hooligan first."

All the men present laughed.

"The more I get in touch with, the more I feel that Xiaocao is good. She called us when we were called, and handed us a leave note when it was too late, and she was willing to let us refer to the report."

I believe the mentor should be pretty weak right now.

"Xiaocaoren is very kind. Her parents gave her a sincere heart that is kind to everyone. Her roommate is sick, and she takes a taxi to buy medicine at night. She gave umbrellas to experimenters on rainy days. Every time she donated money, she donated a lot. She was so busy and still had time to do volunteer work. She was very serious about drawing pictures, cooking delicious food, and smiling very nicely... I really want With her, I really want to get married."

There were booing and whistling among the crowd below, but no one thought that passer-by A would have been enlightened so early.

"Then I will be with her every day, every day with her... Anyway, if there is a project, I will post it. Here, I have to thank our mentor again. You have already seen it, right?"

The mentor should regret coming to witness the marriage.

"Later, it became muddled. I was wondering if she was too kind, so she was too embarrassed to refuse me."

The girls below booed: "Reject him! Reject him! Reject him!"

Suddenly, I felt that the most sacred scene, in front of the crazy guests, was like floating clouds.

Xiaocao blushed and shook her head.

"There's not much difference between her treatment of me and others, just...smile a little more. She smiles more at Lao Lin and Lao Yi than at me. Besides, what should she do if her home is so far away? What if she What should I do if I want to go back? I don’t care, she’s already my girlfriend anyway! I’ll start working on the house ticket, and I’ll get the certificate when I save enough, and we’ll talk after I get it.”

The audience was full of "Brother Jia is domineering!"

"Then she blogged directly! Oh, I'm so happy!"

I couldn't help laughing, and fell on Gu Wei's shoulder.

"At least three more years! I really hope that her thesis won't be published!"

Xiaocao finally couldn't help hitting him.The audience has almost lost control.

"Then I got an inside message that Xiaocao was going back to her parents. My mind was blank at the time. I couldn't figure it out. What should I do? I haven't caught up yet. I'm handsome but not rich. She will have to go back. How many people robbed it. At that time, I really thought that Xiaocao didn't like me that much, so it was irrelevant, so I took the risk and went home with her."

It's quieter down there.

"I was ready to beg, kneel, and even cry. In the end, my confession was probably too touching. My father-in-law and mother-in-law didn't embarrass me at all. Here, I want to thank my parents again, thank you all Trust me, thank you for giving Xiaocao to me. You have raised her so well, she is the best girl I have ever seen."

Grass mother's eyes were red, she nodded, and tears fell down.

"I'm very happy to be back in City X, and I immediately brought Xiaocao home. My parents are very satisfied. At that time, I thought, Oh, it's so smooth, so hurry up and get the certificate! Xiaocao won't do it."

"Hahaha..." There was laughter at the bottom.

"Then get engaged first. I bought a very conspicuous wide ring. Xiaocao wears it every day. Only then did I realize that she actually likes me."

"Yo~" They molested passerby A together.

"Then I go to work every day, make phone calls after work, and go on dates on weekends. I don't stay up very late, and I eat healthy. My waist is no longer sore and my legs don't hurt, and I can climb the seventh floor in one breath."

Everyone laughed, and the grass father and grass mother laughed out.

"Then I thought about proposing. I proposed dozens of times, and later, I basically proposed every Monday, and it became a habit."

Passer-by B tut-tsk: "Ah, that's a strange thing."

"Then, suddenly one day it succeeded. I still don't know how it succeeded that day."

Everyone looked at the bride.

Such a bridegroom at the Xiaocao booth has already resigned to his fate: "Water dripping through stone." She couldn't take it anymore.

Passer-by A suddenly realized and regretted immediately: "If I had known this, I would have begged every day as soon as I returned to City X!"

The bottom is already laughing up and down.

"Well, after that, we got married! Thank you, friends and relatives, for being here today! Be a witness of our love!"

Various cheers below: "Kiss! Kiss! Kiss! Kiss!"

Passerby A held Xiaocao's face, and kissed it very reverently and solemnly.

The priest is stupid...

It is estimated that he felt that he was a little redundant.

Later I asked Xiaocao: "Lao Jia has said so much, why don't you say anything?"

The beautiful bride clenched her fist angrily: "What else can I say?!"

Well... also.

Passerby B later took a DV to take pictures of everyone's blessings to the couple.

When we got here--

B: "School, what do you want to say to Lao A?"

I gave a thumbs up to the camera: "Lao Jia, you are a talent!"

B: "Where's Xiaocao?"

Me: "Xiaocao, I wish you good luck with such a talent!"

B: "Be serious, be serious."

I cleared my throat: "I wish you happiness."

B: "No more?"

Me: "How true this sentence is!"

B: "Yeah, everyone was infected by Lao A today, and I couldn't record a serious one." Shaking his head, he turned to Gu Wei, "Doctor, you can also say a few words."

Gu Wei was stunned for a moment, and thought for a while: "Well... let's have a precious son early."

Passer-by B was powerless, and turned the DV to himself: "The quality of the groom is the fundamental reason that determines whether the wedding is foreign." He took a 360-degree shot of the wedding scene, and then turned back to himself, "A high-end and high-end scene, a group of 2X young people Much joy."

I would also dream during my nap, a mess, and when I woke up, I was alone in the bed.I hurriedly slid out of bed and walked out barefoot.

Gu Wei stood in the kitchen peeling fruit, and turned his head when he heard the voice: "Are you awake?"

I looked at him: "Gu Wei, I was dreaming."

Gu Wei glanced out the window: "What dream?"

Me: "I dreamed that I was lying in bed alone."

Gu Wei smiled, washed his hands and walked over: "Do you want to eat pears?"

"No." Divide the pears, divide the pears, and separate after eating.

Gu Wei let out a soft "ah".

I hugged him and burst into tears.In fact, he never knew how much I depended on him.When I went out for meetings, projects, and when he was on duty at night, I was lying on the bed alone, only sleeping on half of the bed, and behaved well. Only when he was at home, I would aggressively spin around on the bed.

In fact, there are many things that even if you become a husband and wife, you can't say it.It was as if I was willing to wait for him to come back, but felt that it was very, very uncomfortable for me to leave and keep him.

Gu Wei wiped away my tears: "It's not like I won't come back."

After getting married, Gu Wei tapped out all my emotional potential, and I became more sentimental.

Gu Wei: "I was never like you back then, you have to learn from me."

Me: "Are you still flaunting yourself as heartless?"

Gu Wei: "Well, I was heartless. At that time, I didn't know who was more heartless than me."

I can't laugh or cry.

I felt like we were two alien creatures who grew up together, and now we are separated, torn apart, with all the tentacles snapped off.

We hugged each other on the sofa, his heartbeat and mine vibrated together in my left and right chests.

Gu Wei stretched out his limbs and let out a long sigh: "Hold on to the cold kiln..."

I was amused by him: "Now you know how painful I was?"

Gu Wei: "Even."

Me: "Who is even with you?"

(End of this chapter)