Rebirth and struggle for rural daughter-in-law
Chapter 181
Chapter 181
Chapter 170: Statement
Hearing what he said, Zhang Guilan couldn't tell what it was like. It turned out that she had been cautious on this issue, but in the end, there was still a gap between her and Luo Ji.
And she was only thinking about how not to walk the path of her previous life, but ignored Luo Ji's words or his every move, and she didn't even find out when there was some estrangement between the two of them because of this.
Suppressing the depression in her heart, she said, "Old Ji, because of Sun Mei's matter, there have been many rumors outside. Although there is no conflict between the two of us, there have been a lot of side-effects because of your injury." For example, the conflict between me and your parents, and even the old people of the two families met each other. Only a small matter was found, and the family became like this. Have you ever thought about the reason for this? They all say to get married and live a good life , it’s not just two people, but two families.”
Luo Ji looked at her seriously, "I still say that, I have no other thoughts about Sun Mei."
Zhang Guilan nodded, "You have no other thoughts about her, but you have heard the rumors outside, and now you feel that I suspect that there is something between you, that I believe those rumors, and even confront you because of them Right?"
"I just thought about it at the beginning, and then I..."
"Yes, my attitude later made you feel relieved. You felt that I didn't believe you, but you didn't know that you were tabooing about this matter in every move, between words, not guilty but worried. You know what it means Because you also know in your heart that this matter is not good and has a bad influence." Zhang Guilan didn't want to quarrel with him, "If you don't feel guilty, why would you worry about that? Feel guilty?"
"I'm worried about your overthinking. Why should I be guilty?" Luo Ji became anxious when he heard that he had been wronged.
Zhang Guilan signaled him not to worry. "You are worried that I think too much, but it doesn't mean that you know that any wife will think too much after hearing this matter. It can be seen that this matter is not that simple. You think you have me in your heart, these are not important, even you I shouldn’t be extravagant when I’m in contact with Sun Mei. What if this matter comes to me? I spread rumors with other men, and I told you that we have a normal relationship, even no matter what the outsiders say. Still Contact together, will you accept it?"
Zhang Guilan's rhetorical question made Luo Ji silent.
"You can't accept it. How can I accept it as a woman? Then I don't think too much, but I still want to understand you? You think too much of me. I am just a woman, a woman who needs to be loved by her husband. I am made of meat. The body is not made of iron, it will hurt even if it is injured."
Zhang Guilan felt that it was too delicate to tell him these things at this time.But this is also her true feeling, she doesn't understand why everything becomes natural when things happen to her, it doesn't matter anymore.And it's different when it comes to him?She admitted that Luo Ji cared about having his own, but she couldn't agree with his behavior.
A woman loves a man.It doesn't mean that you have to pay for this man all the time, or even let the other party take it for granted.Over time, he will turn a blind eye to such sacrifices.
Like the old man said.When you help a person, you use ten percent of your energy for the first time, and eight percent of your energy for the second time. He will not thank you, but will be friends with the person who used five percent of his energy, and you will be rejected. Hate it.
So at any time, people have to leave the bottom line for themselves.
Zhang Guilan really understands this at this time. Maybe what a wife has to do is to understand each other, but that is at work and at home, not in terms of salty feelings. Apart from that, Zhang Guilan can tolerate everything except this no.
"Guilan, you are right. On this issue, or not on this issue, the problem lies with me. I always thought that you understood me, so I never greeted you when I did anything. I even explained that what you said today made me realize my selfishness, and I am here to apologize to you." Luo Ji raised his head, serious and serious, "I really didn't think much about Sun Mei, but after knowing the rumors outside , take advantage of the opportunity to see who made the little tricks, the factory will soon have further training, and it is said that this is the case in the compound, I think someone must have done it on purpose, so I took this opportunity to find out, and there has been no Let me tell you, I didn’t take the rumors seriously, and it’s my fault for putting you under so much pressure. Guilan, tell me what’s on your mind today. I know I’m not a good husband, and I want to know What did you do? Then get rid of those problems.”
"Old Ji, you still don't understand me." Zhang Guilan sighed, is this Daigou? "I'm not talking about rumors and Sun Mei, I'm talking about your attitude, do you understand? The most important thing between a husband and wife is trust. No matter what you do, I hope you will say hello to me. Whether it is good or bad, I will support you. I think I have been doing very well, and you should see it. But what I do in return is still to make you feel that I am dispensable and everything is worthless. Without saying hello, life is like your own, and this home is like a hotel, and couples are like strangers."
"Guilan, I'm sorry, I didn't know it would make you feel this way, I just... just..."
Zhang Guilan smiled wryly, "Look, you don't even know what kind of excuses you are looking for."
She can accept it if she doesn't know how to love, but she really can't accept it if she doesn't know how to respect each other.
"I will change it in the future." Luo Ji promised, "I swear on the honor of a man, I will definitely change it."
"Since we're going to talk about it today, let's just make a few things for the future. You're going to work with Sun Mei's father. I won't make a fuss or think too much about it. But I hope you remember, I will do it this way. The foundation is when you keep your identity in mind. You can work hard to do your job well, but for things outside of work, I hope you can distinguish between public and private, and don't wait for the time to spread something, and say that you have nothing else to do like today Thoughts." At the end, there was some mockery in the words.
Luo Ji turned cold, "You needn't say it, I won't take that job."
"This is your business, you can decide for yourself." Zhang Guilan stood up, "I am also tired from tossing and tossing these days, so I should rest earlier."
Turned around and went to the bathroom.
These conversations did not make Luo Ji feel relaxed, but felt more and more heavy. Although work is important, the current conflict between husband and wife is obviously more important. Luo Ji never thought that there would be such a deep gulf between him and his wife.
When Zhang Guilan came in after washing, she still looked at him frowning and said concernedly, "It's getting late, let's rest."
"I took a nap in the afternoon, and I'm not so sleepy now." Luo Ji and the others lay down, but they didn't dare to move, they could only watch anxiously, "Daughter-in-law, come closer, I can't eat people."
Zhang Guilan smiled and said, "It's summer, what are you doing so close."
However, she moved her body and leaned against him.
Luo Ji stretched out his hand and pulled her into his arms, "How could I be dissatisfied with such a good wife? In fact, I'm just stupid. You can just point it out when you become a businessman in the future, so that I won't mess with you." angry."
"You said something nice at this time, why didn't you say it before?"
"Don't they all say that couples fight at the head of the bed and make peace at the end of the bed? They didn't go to bed before."
What kind of nonsense is this?
Zhang Guilan was amused by him, and the unhappiness in her heart was wiped away, and she said everything that should be said. It depends on what Luo Ji will do in the future. As for the work, she does not believe that Luo Jin can decide on his own, but when the time comes Take one step at a time.
This night, until the night when they were sleeping, there was a rare warm scene between the couple. The next day, they were woken up by the sound of the east room. Zhang Guilan turned over and did not love her, but the door was pushed open. opened.
She was so frightened that she hurriedly pulled the quilt over her body, thankful that she was wearing pajamas, but she remembered that she must lock the door next time.
"Mom, what's the matter with you coming so early?" Luo Jixian asked displeasedly.
Zhang Guilan simply hid in the bed and pretended to be asleep. Guo Ying looked annoyed and said, "You pulled your wound yesterday. I'm here to see how you are today. I'm not afraid that you will break your leg if you move around."
This disturbance is straightforward.
Zhang Guilan curled her lips and came here early in the morning to look for bad luck, which affected her good mood for the day.
Luo Ji's face darkened, and his voice became a little louder, "Mom, what are you going to do? Do you still want to listen to the room?"
Back in the countryside, my mother went to the old man's house to eavesdrop, which made Luo Ji unable to hold his head up in front of his wife. Now, when he arrived at his own home, his mother even took care of the house.
"Didn't you keep saying that Guilan's stomach didn't move? Now you won't let it move, so what should I do?" Luo Ji tried his best to sit up, but Zhang Guilan couldn't pretend anymore, so she got up and held him down. Ji Ke was still struggling, "I don't want this leg anymore, and I won't get a job anymore. Now I will go home with you guys to farm."
"Look at me but..."
Before Guo Ying finished speaking, Luo Yongzhi rushed in, pulled Guo Ying and walked out, still cursing, "You still miss your daughter-in-law's things like this, do you still want your old face? Just follow me now." I'm leaving, and you don't come out in the future."
"I want something from my son, not hers."
"Say one more word, and I'll kill you."
Luo Yongzhi's threats paid off, and it finally became quiet outside, with the sound of doors opening and closing.
"Shall I go and see her off?" Of course Zhang Guilan didn't want to go.
"No need." Luo Jiyi didn't understand why, it was his mother who was still thinking about the TV and refrigerator, "After we have a child, let your parents come over and help take care of it, and my annual salary will be half of my salary at home. Take it to them, and they won't have to come over."
Such a hard-working person, please support me a lot, three times a day, a lot, right?Or is it better for people to change their appetite every day?
(End of this chapter)
Chapter 170: Statement
Hearing what he said, Zhang Guilan couldn't tell what it was like. It turned out that she had been cautious on this issue, but in the end, there was still a gap between her and Luo Ji.
And she was only thinking about how not to walk the path of her previous life, but ignored Luo Ji's words or his every move, and she didn't even find out when there was some estrangement between the two of them because of this.
Suppressing the depression in her heart, she said, "Old Ji, because of Sun Mei's matter, there have been many rumors outside. Although there is no conflict between the two of us, there have been a lot of side-effects because of your injury." For example, the conflict between me and your parents, and even the old people of the two families met each other. Only a small matter was found, and the family became like this. Have you ever thought about the reason for this? They all say to get married and live a good life , it’s not just two people, but two families.”
Luo Ji looked at her seriously, "I still say that, I have no other thoughts about Sun Mei."
Zhang Guilan nodded, "You have no other thoughts about her, but you have heard the rumors outside, and now you feel that I suspect that there is something between you, that I believe those rumors, and even confront you because of them Right?"
"I just thought about it at the beginning, and then I..."
"Yes, my attitude later made you feel relieved. You felt that I didn't believe you, but you didn't know that you were tabooing about this matter in every move, between words, not guilty but worried. You know what it means Because you also know in your heart that this matter is not good and has a bad influence." Zhang Guilan didn't want to quarrel with him, "If you don't feel guilty, why would you worry about that? Feel guilty?"
"I'm worried about your overthinking. Why should I be guilty?" Luo Ji became anxious when he heard that he had been wronged.
Zhang Guilan signaled him not to worry. "You are worried that I think too much, but it doesn't mean that you know that any wife will think too much after hearing this matter. It can be seen that this matter is not that simple. You think you have me in your heart, these are not important, even you I shouldn’t be extravagant when I’m in contact with Sun Mei. What if this matter comes to me? I spread rumors with other men, and I told you that we have a normal relationship, even no matter what the outsiders say. Still Contact together, will you accept it?"
Zhang Guilan's rhetorical question made Luo Ji silent.
"You can't accept it. How can I accept it as a woman? Then I don't think too much, but I still want to understand you? You think too much of me. I am just a woman, a woman who needs to be loved by her husband. I am made of meat. The body is not made of iron, it will hurt even if it is injured."
Zhang Guilan felt that it was too delicate to tell him these things at this time.But this is also her true feeling, she doesn't understand why everything becomes natural when things happen to her, it doesn't matter anymore.And it's different when it comes to him?She admitted that Luo Ji cared about having his own, but she couldn't agree with his behavior.
A woman loves a man.It doesn't mean that you have to pay for this man all the time, or even let the other party take it for granted.Over time, he will turn a blind eye to such sacrifices.
Like the old man said.When you help a person, you use ten percent of your energy for the first time, and eight percent of your energy for the second time. He will not thank you, but will be friends with the person who used five percent of his energy, and you will be rejected. Hate it.
So at any time, people have to leave the bottom line for themselves.
Zhang Guilan really understands this at this time. Maybe what a wife has to do is to understand each other, but that is at work and at home, not in terms of salty feelings. Apart from that, Zhang Guilan can tolerate everything except this no.
"Guilan, you are right. On this issue, or not on this issue, the problem lies with me. I always thought that you understood me, so I never greeted you when I did anything. I even explained that what you said today made me realize my selfishness, and I am here to apologize to you." Luo Ji raised his head, serious and serious, "I really didn't think much about Sun Mei, but after knowing the rumors outside , take advantage of the opportunity to see who made the little tricks, the factory will soon have further training, and it is said that this is the case in the compound, I think someone must have done it on purpose, so I took this opportunity to find out, and there has been no Let me tell you, I didn’t take the rumors seriously, and it’s my fault for putting you under so much pressure. Guilan, tell me what’s on your mind today. I know I’m not a good husband, and I want to know What did you do? Then get rid of those problems.”
"Old Ji, you still don't understand me." Zhang Guilan sighed, is this Daigou? "I'm not talking about rumors and Sun Mei, I'm talking about your attitude, do you understand? The most important thing between a husband and wife is trust. No matter what you do, I hope you will say hello to me. Whether it is good or bad, I will support you. I think I have been doing very well, and you should see it. But what I do in return is still to make you feel that I am dispensable and everything is worthless. Without saying hello, life is like your own, and this home is like a hotel, and couples are like strangers."
"Guilan, I'm sorry, I didn't know it would make you feel this way, I just... just..."
Zhang Guilan smiled wryly, "Look, you don't even know what kind of excuses you are looking for."
She can accept it if she doesn't know how to love, but she really can't accept it if she doesn't know how to respect each other.
"I will change it in the future." Luo Ji promised, "I swear on the honor of a man, I will definitely change it."
"Since we're going to talk about it today, let's just make a few things for the future. You're going to work with Sun Mei's father. I won't make a fuss or think too much about it. But I hope you remember, I will do it this way. The foundation is when you keep your identity in mind. You can work hard to do your job well, but for things outside of work, I hope you can distinguish between public and private, and don't wait for the time to spread something, and say that you have nothing else to do like today Thoughts." At the end, there was some mockery in the words.
Luo Ji turned cold, "You needn't say it, I won't take that job."
"This is your business, you can decide for yourself." Zhang Guilan stood up, "I am also tired from tossing and tossing these days, so I should rest earlier."
Turned around and went to the bathroom.
These conversations did not make Luo Ji feel relaxed, but felt more and more heavy. Although work is important, the current conflict between husband and wife is obviously more important. Luo Ji never thought that there would be such a deep gulf between him and his wife.
When Zhang Guilan came in after washing, she still looked at him frowning and said concernedly, "It's getting late, let's rest."
"I took a nap in the afternoon, and I'm not so sleepy now." Luo Ji and the others lay down, but they didn't dare to move, they could only watch anxiously, "Daughter-in-law, come closer, I can't eat people."
Zhang Guilan smiled and said, "It's summer, what are you doing so close."
However, she moved her body and leaned against him.
Luo Ji stretched out his hand and pulled her into his arms, "How could I be dissatisfied with such a good wife? In fact, I'm just stupid. You can just point it out when you become a businessman in the future, so that I won't mess with you." angry."
"You said something nice at this time, why didn't you say it before?"
"Don't they all say that couples fight at the head of the bed and make peace at the end of the bed? They didn't go to bed before."
What kind of nonsense is this?
Zhang Guilan was amused by him, and the unhappiness in her heart was wiped away, and she said everything that should be said. It depends on what Luo Ji will do in the future. As for the work, she does not believe that Luo Jin can decide on his own, but when the time comes Take one step at a time.
This night, until the night when they were sleeping, there was a rare warm scene between the couple. The next day, they were woken up by the sound of the east room. Zhang Guilan turned over and did not love her, but the door was pushed open. opened.
She was so frightened that she hurriedly pulled the quilt over her body, thankful that she was wearing pajamas, but she remembered that she must lock the door next time.
"Mom, what's the matter with you coming so early?" Luo Jixian asked displeasedly.
Zhang Guilan simply hid in the bed and pretended to be asleep. Guo Ying looked annoyed and said, "You pulled your wound yesterday. I'm here to see how you are today. I'm not afraid that you will break your leg if you move around."
This disturbance is straightforward.
Zhang Guilan curled her lips and came here early in the morning to look for bad luck, which affected her good mood for the day.
Luo Ji's face darkened, and his voice became a little louder, "Mom, what are you going to do? Do you still want to listen to the room?"
Back in the countryside, my mother went to the old man's house to eavesdrop, which made Luo Ji unable to hold his head up in front of his wife. Now, when he arrived at his own home, his mother even took care of the house.
"Didn't you keep saying that Guilan's stomach didn't move? Now you won't let it move, so what should I do?" Luo Ji tried his best to sit up, but Zhang Guilan couldn't pretend anymore, so she got up and held him down. Ji Ke was still struggling, "I don't want this leg anymore, and I won't get a job anymore. Now I will go home with you guys to farm."
"Look at me but..."
Before Guo Ying finished speaking, Luo Yongzhi rushed in, pulled Guo Ying and walked out, still cursing, "You still miss your daughter-in-law's things like this, do you still want your old face? Just follow me now." I'm leaving, and you don't come out in the future."
"I want something from my son, not hers."
"Say one more word, and I'll kill you."
Luo Yongzhi's threats paid off, and it finally became quiet outside, with the sound of doors opening and closing.
"Shall I go and see her off?" Of course Zhang Guilan didn't want to go.
"No need." Luo Jiyi didn't understand why, it was his mother who was still thinking about the TV and refrigerator, "After we have a child, let your parents come over and help take care of it, and my annual salary will be half of my salary at home. Take it to them, and they won't have to come over."
Such a hard-working person, please support me a lot, three times a day, a lot, right?Or is it better for people to change their appetite every day?
(End of this chapter)
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