King of soft rice

Chapter 1422 - Evil because of love

Zhai Nan said immediately: "The next step is to invite Mr. Liu Yuan, the head of the safety team of Sheng Yuqiang Middle School."

After Zhai Nan finished speaking, he clapped his palms lightly.

And a thin man in his 40s also came up and shook hands with Zhai Nan.

Zhai Nan looked at Liu Yuan and nodded, then waved his hands and said, "Please sit down." After speaking, he and Liu Yuan sat on the sofas on both sides.

Zhai Nan then asked: "Mr. Liu, I'm actually not very clear about the organizational structure of the middle school. Could you please explain the meaning of the security team?"

Liu Yuan nodded, and said in a hoarse voice: "The main responsibility of our security team is to protect the safety of students and the campus. Whether it is a safety problem inside the school or a hidden danger outside the school, it is our responsibility. scope."

Zhai Nan continued to ask: "Can you be more specific?"

Liu Yuan thought for a while and replied, "It's like the fire safety drill that is held every year. Our safety team contacts firefighters to hold it together."

Zhai Nan followed up and asked, "Are you also in charge of campus bullying?"

As soon as Zhai Nan said this, Liu Yuan was stunned for a moment, and then said: "Theoretically, it should be like this."

Zhai Nan frowned, "Why is it just a theory, is there any problem in practice?"

Liu Yuan sighed helplessly and said: "Because the general campus bullying occurs in a very secret place. It is either in a corner of the campus or outside the campus. It is difficult for us to prevent and control it. After the campus bullying occurs, the violent The perpetrators threaten the victims. The victims are intimidated by the perpetrators and rarely respond to us.”

When Liu Yuan said this, he sighed again, "This is the most difficult part. Almost all the victims have never reported the perpetrator. And almost every campus bullying that is exposed is because of the violence. The perpetrator got carried away and accidentally sent the process of violence to others, only to be discovered by others."

Hearing this, Zhai Nan couldn't help frowning and asked, "Then what do you think is the cause of this?"

Liu Yuan said without hesitation: "This is the lack of the system! Now there is a lot of pressure to enter a higher school, and it is too difficult for a student to get into a good school. Those students who are victimized, even if they are bullied on campus, will be afraid of being bullied. The violent students bite back and they are also punished. So I would rather swallow my anger than expose their crimes!"

When Liu Yuan said this, he couldn't help scolding sharply: "It is because the educational resources of each school are unbalanced that this phenomenon is caused. If the educational resources of each school are the same, even if this student is punished, in this school If he can’t continue his studies, he can change to another school and continue his studies. But in the current situation, if he is kicked out of a good school and the student goes to another school, the school’s ranking may be several times lower.”

Zhai Nan rubbed his chin and asked, "According to what you said, the victimized students were worried that campus bullying would affect their studies, but why didn't the students who committed violence have this worry?"

Liu Yuan waved his hand and said, "Because those students who are violent don't worry about it at all. Their families are rich, even if they are kicked out, they will use a large amount of funding to enter another prestigious school."

Zhai Nan then asked: "So campus bullying is also related to the family background of the students!"

Liu Yuan shook his head suspiciously, "Not all of them, some perpetrators' family backgrounds are not considered good."

Zhai Nan nodded and said, "Okay, thank you for your answer, please go down and rest."

Liu Yuan immediately got up and walked off the stage.

Zhai Nan said to the audience: "The lack of system may be part of the reason, but it may not be all. Next, I would like to invite Ms. Wu Qing, a sociologist."

As Zhai Nan said this, a woman with gray hair walked onto the stage slowly.

Zhai Nan also raised his hand to signal, "Please sit down."

Wu Qing responded and sat on the sofa opposite Zhai Nan.

Zhai Nan then asked: "Ms. Wu, you should have heard what Team Leader Liu said just now. Do you think what he said is right?"

Wu Qing shook his head and said: "Group Leader Liu's point of view is very direct, but not comprehensive enough. I have checked a lot of materials on campus bullying, and I can get a very clear result. That is, most of the perpetrators are a small gang .In this small gang, there will be one or even a few students with very good family conditions. And such students will become the core figures of this small gang."

Zhai Nan immediately asked: "Do you think this has something to do with their school bullying?"

Wu Qing nodded and said: "It's related! That is some unhealthy atmosphere in the society, an invasion of campus culture. After consulting a lot of information, I also found out that the family conditions of the victims are generally not very good. Or it's very average. To put it more directly, their parents' status in society is not very high. On the contrary, the parents of the perpetrators all have some so-called strength."

Zhai Nan asked: "Will this also affect the occurrence of campus bullying?"

Wu Qing sighed, and then said: "Although I don't want to admit it, I have to say that this has a great impact. Parents are the best teachers for their children, but some parents fail to give the best to their children. .In the social environment, the resulting high and low has affected the children's judgment."

Zhai Nan said: "That is to say, the better off a child is, the easier it is to become a perpetrator?"

Wu Qing quickly waved his hand and said: "It's not true. In fact, most of the children with good family environment have excellent family education. There are only a small number of people who are powerful and spoil their children too much. For all the needs of children, Almost all of them are satisfied unconditionally. This has caused their domineering personality, even in the big environment of the school, they will not correct it, and gradually evolved into campus bullying incidents."

Zhai Nan followed up and said: "So the root of campus bullying lies in the parents' doting on their children and satisfying them unconditionally, which makes them mean to others."

Wu Qing nodded and said: "This is indeed a sad thing, because of the love of the parents, the evil of the children is caused!"

Zhai Nan followed up and asked: "What do you think of the victim's parents? What kind of problems do they have, so that their children are bullied, but they have never been known."

Wu Qing sighed: "As I said just now, most of the parents of the victims are not of high social status. So they all hope that their children will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes. Therefore, they pay more attention to their children's studies and try their best to send them Go to prestigious schools, find tutoring kings, and enroll in various interest classes. But they have never cared about their children's hearts, because they pay more attention to their children's grades!"

When Wu Qing said this, he paused and said: "If the perpetrator is said to be overly spoiled by the parents, then the victim is due to the lack of love. No matter how you look at it, this is destined to be a tragedy .”

(End of this chapter)