female sexual motivation

Chapter 37 Conclusion
Mystery woman
Women's sexual motivation is the most wonderful, complex, and elusive problem in the psychology of human motivation.In this book, we explore a wide variety of motivations—from wild desperation to wild love, from the selfless generosity of protecting a partner's self-esteem to the selfishness of revenge, from the exhilaration of exploration to dark deceit, from The vulgarity of treating headaches is close to the sublime state of God.

In order to explain the problem concisely, this book discusses each sexual motive independently, but here it is important to emphasize that women's sexual motives are complex and multifaceted.Some women may want to be imposing in front of their friends and want to explore the mysteries of sex.Some may be both looking for a new partner and dissatisfied with their current partner.Some may not only want to relieve their own pressure, but also want to protect their lover's self-esteem, and also want to narrow the distance between each other.

We should also recognize women's contradictory sexual motivations.Some women may be eager to feel the fire-like sex on the first date, but are afraid that they will be considered "too casual" and have to delay.Some may want to be romantically involved with their new love, but also do not want to betray their husbands, hovering between the two, unable to make a decision.Some may want to let go of everything and completely submit to their partner, but also want to control the situation and call the shots.

We try to understand women's extremely rich sexual motivations from different theoretical perspectives.The first is to understand women's sexual motivation from an evolutionary perspective, and analyze female sexual motivation as an adaptation problem that female ancestors have been facing for thousands of years.The second is to understand women's sexual motivation from a physiological perspective. Hormones, brain chemicals, blood flow, and anatomy are the basis for understanding female sex.The third is to understand women's sexual motivation from a clinical point of view, and discuss women's problems in sexual desire, sexual arousal, and orgasm that have been successfully resolved.The last is to understand women's sexual motivation from a psychological point of view, to study the impact of women's rich sexual psychology on female sexual desire, and the impact of female sexual experience on women's psychology.We hope that the combination of different theories can reveal different aspects of women's sexual motivation in a more delicate and in-depth manner.

Beyond this theoretical knowledge, we hope that the vivid accounts of the women who generously participated in the survey will bring to life the multifaceted nature of women's sexual motivations.A woman said that sex is "the flower of love in full bloom", which can express true love better than the abstract love triangle theory.Compared with rigid theoretical analysis of sexual deception, the humiliation women feel after being deceived by men can more truly show the intrigue in love.The importance of biomechanics and flexible movement is amply demonstrated by a woman who said after having ecstatic sex with a dancer partner that "he literally danced in bed."

We learned a lot about sex from the women we interviewed, and we hope our readers feel the same way.

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