I'm a genius star

Chapter 220 Heart Disease
Military hospital.

The medical equipment here is the top equipment in the country, and every doctor is absolutely among the best in the country.

After three o'clock in the afternoon, after putting Su Yun in the room, Su Yun and Wang Xiaoqiang went back to the hospital and found a psychologist.

"You said that a friend of yours suddenly had a huge personality change in less than a few hours?"

In front of Su Yun, a fat middle-aged doctor with a simple face looked at Su Yun and asked in disbelief.

"That's right." Su Yun nodded and replied.

"Hmm..." The fat doctor frowned, as if he was thinking about something.After a while, he finally said: "Let me tell you this, in the process of changing a person's personality, there are actually two things, deconstruction and reconstruction."

"Deconstruction...reconstruction..." Su Yun read softly.

The fat doctor nodded and continued:
"Deconstruction, that is, deconstruction of inherent cognition; reconstruction, that is, new beliefs; you need to form new cognitive beliefs through various methods and methods. And this requires three steps: Obedience — identification — internalization.”

"Obedience...identification...internalization..." Su Yun looked at the fat doctor and murmured softly.

"That's right, obedience, let me give you an example... For example, when everyone says that you are not doing well, and you also realize that you have such a problem, but in order to behave normally, you will obey some suggestions from others For example, work should be done faster to improve efficiency.

But in reality, are you really willing to do this?You have your own work steps, are you really willing to let others dictate?So at this time, you may use some invisible attacks to express your dissatisfaction, such as procrastination, temper tantrums, and so on. "

"But it's not..."

"That's right, it's not real, heartfelt obedience."

Just as Su Yun was about to speak, he was interrupted by the fat doctor, who continued:
"Most people, in fact, can't even do obedience, because when you are familiar with your own style of doing things and have your own living habits, you are very unwilling to be destroyed by others. Therefore, even your own style of doing things Even if you are unwilling to change, how easy is it to change a person's most essential character?

And, this is only the first stage of change. "

Su Yun frowned, carefully thinking about what the fat doctor said, and nodded from time to time, as if he thought it made sense.

Seeing him nodding, the fat doctor raised the corner of his mouth slightly, and continued:

"Although obedience is difficult, there are still some people who have undergone training, such as social training and increased life experience, can take this step and enter the second stage-identification."

"Identification, that is, you seem to have inspired you by this principle, you agree with this principle, and you are determined to practice it. But it still exists on the conscious level, in your subconscious level, in your huge implicit system, You still haven't accepted this new belief, so you will have many difficulties in practicing it, and you will continue to suffer and blame yourself in the ego and id."

"To give a very simple example, most children are addicted to playing games now. Teachers and parents are appealing: Don't play games, don't play games, this will ruin your future!

Do you think the children of today don’t know this truth?Do they disagree?No, they agree!And they are also determined to practice and want to quit the game.But subconsciously, these children did not accept this new belief.

They would subconsciously think, I was just playing a game for a while, how could it be related to the future?Play a game without dying.Therefore, it is very difficult for them to quit the game in practice, and they will continue to suffer and blame themselves in the ego and id.

This is recognition. "

After hearing this example, Su Yun can understand it very well.

He also remembered that in his world, games were prevalent, especially among teenagers, such as alliances, glory, chicken eating, etc...

These games are rampant among young people, so that many minors drop out of school without even finishing their books.Don't they know the dangers of the game?they know.Did no one warn them?Yes, but they cannot easily agree.They cannot easily change themselves.

The fat doctor took a sip of hot tea from the thermos cup on the table, moistened his throat, and continued:

"The third is internalization. A new cognitive belief must go to the stage of internalization, so that your entire internal system can be changed, and you can truly practice it from the heart.

Why is it so difficult for us to change?Because many people are stuck in the second identification stage.It takes a very long time to change the cognitive belief system. If you do not persist and strengthen in practice, the change will lose its effect.

You said that your friend had a sudden personality change in just a few hours. I think this is impossible. "

Hearing this sentence, Su Yun raised his head for the first time, and looked at the doctor with a surprised expression.

"Every time we grow up is a spiral. Even if you take ten steps and take 7 steps back, then you have improved 3 steps from your previous self. It is impossible for a person to change in one step. It took a long time, and the mental accumulation continued.”

Su Yun sighed slightly, he had convinced the psychiatrist from the bottom of his heart.

Originally, he didn't intend to tell the truth. He didn't tell the doctor about Tu Su's past condition, but just threw out a bait and told him that his friend's personality changed within a few hours, so as to judge the doctor. Doctor's ability.

After all, the disease of the human heart is the most difficult to diagnose. As long as you say it casually, ordinary doctors will not deny the confession of the person involved.However, the doctor denied it outright. The friend he was talking about definitely did not change in a short period of time.

It seems that the title of top doctor in the country is not in vain.

"Hey..." Su Yun sighed pretentiously, and said helplessly: "Doctor, you are right, but I didn't tell you that many bad things happened in my friend's house before, but for so long. Nothing went wrong. But in the past few hours today, her personality suddenly changed, and I really don't know what to do."

This doctor is obviously an old fritter, after hearing Su Yun's words, he didn't ask any more questions.Because the status of those who can come to seek medical treatment in this hospital must not be simple.He has not been ignorant enough to inquire about other people's family affairs.

"A person's personality suddenly changes within a period of time, it must be because of a great stimulation in the heart, and this stimulation must have lasted for a long time, and then suddenly broke out at a certain moment, which will lead to this result." Rubbing his chin with one hand, he said.

Su Yun's eyes lit up, and he immediately said:
"Yes, yes, that's it, doctor, what should I do? Will it do her any harm?"

"Damage?" The fat doctor glanced at him, shook his head and said, "This is something he changed voluntarily, not someone else forced him, so if it's just for his body, there won't be any problems." .

If you want him to return to his previous appearance, it is best to obey him now, after all, time is the best medicine in this world.Maybe it won't be long before he suddenly changes back to his former self. "

After hearing what the doctor said, Su Yun sighed slightly, thank God, at least the doctor didn't say that he couldn't change back.

However, the doctor's next words made Su Yun freeze in place.

"Of course, if he likes the way he is now more than the way he used to be, he may stay in this state forever. After all, the disease of the human heart is the most difficult to diagnose."

(End of this chapter)