Jianbao life

Chapter 153 Hometown ([-])
Moreover, this kind of patients will always be afraid of being abandoned by others, and when the intimate relationship with the person they rely on ends, they will feel unusually hopeless.This also just explained why Chu Yulan was so single-minded and had such extreme thoughts in the morning, which was also due to the characteristics of dependent personality disorder.

As for the main cause of this personality disorder, the dependence needs in early childhood are not satisfied enough, which leads to the psychological fixation in adulthood in the "oral desire period" (a state of complete independence in infants and young children).The lack of this kind of demand makes a person's "psychological breastfeeding period" continue to prolong, and some people are even in a state of "lifelong psychological breastfeeding".

For Chu Yulan, during the six years from a few months after she was born to when she was over six years old, because of the informal orphanage, her dependent needs were not satisfied, but she suffered a lot of injuries. This is the main cause of her mental illness.

And when she got the care of her current parents, the need in her heart was released again, satisfying her heart, and at the same time, the "psychological lactation period" continued to prolong, so that she reached the point she is now.

Thinking of this, Chu Chen asked, "Xiao Lan, who is the relative in your heart?"

Chu Yulan immediately replied: "My parents count as one, and my uncle and grandpa and grandma are usually good to me, count as half of it, yes, and brother, you count as one."

"I?"

Chu Chen pointed to his nose and said, "Although the possibility is very high, what if it is not?"

Chu Yulan quickly said: "Brother, you must be. In the morning, you admitted that you have that jade tablet. Adding the other two points, there is no such thing as a coincidence in the world."

Chu Chen shook his head helplessly, knowing that the possibility of it is really very small, since the matter is already like this, he no longer thinks about it.However, from Chu Yulan's answer, he also knew why Chu Yulan was so afraid of herself. This is also a typical feature of this kind of personality disorder, and she cares too much about the thoughts of the people she depends on.

After getting the answer, Chu Chen was also worried about how to deal with the relationship with Chu Yulan. People with this kind of personality are very easy to be hurt by being criticized. There is no need to talk about it, and I will not criticize it now. What about her, the key is that she is submissive now, which really makes him very uncomfortable.

And Chu Chen thought that he might have to face her all the time in the future, which really gave him enough headaches.

"Xiaolan, can I discuss something with you."

Upon hearing this, Chu Yulan quickly said, "Huh? What's the matter, brother, you just talk about it."

Chu Chen said as kindly as possible: "Xiao Lan, can you stop treating me like this?"

"What? Brother, do you hate me again?" Chu Yulan opened her eyes wide and said with a panicked expression.

Seeing this, Chu Chen quickly said: "Xiaolan, you have misunderstood me. What I mean is, don't be so afraid of me like you are now. Could it be that you treat your relatives like this at home?"

Hearing this, Chu Yulan breathed a sigh of relief, and at the same time said weakly: "At home, I am with my parents, very happy and at ease, but they won't scold me either."

Hearing this, Chu Chen finally knew what the crux of the matter was, and said, "Xiao Lan, I was in a bad mood this morning, so I apologize to you, and I promise you, as long as you don't make a big mistake in the future, I will definitely not will scold you."

"Brother, you don't need to apologize. I was wrong in the morning, and I made you angry."

Chu Yulan waved her hands again and again, and then asked, "Brother, what big mistake are you referring to?"

"It's very simple, just don't do immoral things." Chu Chen said.

Chu Yulan nodded quickly, and said happily, "That's no problem. I definitely won't do immoral things. My parents taught me this way since I was a child."

"Well, you can rest assured now, but I said in advance that it's better for us to get in touch like before for the time being. Don't be too close. Our current relationship has not been confirmed yet, and I haven't adapted to it yet. Do you know ?”

"Ok."

Chu Yulan had no objection to this request, and she was already very satisfied with Chu Chen's previous guarantee.

"Okay, it's almost time, let's go..."

In the next journey, there was a section of the road that was particularly difficult to walk because of the steep hillside. Fortunately, with Chu Chen's help, otherwise Chu Yulan would have collapsed from exhaustion. Fortunately, that section of the road was only 300 meters.

After finally walking through that section of the road, Chu Yulan panted and said, "Brother, I found that the resources of Chinese medicinal materials here are very rich, why not develop them?"

Chu Chen asked curiously, "Hey, Xiaolan, do you still know Chinese herbal medicine?"

Chu Yulan smiled and nodded: "Well, because of my health, I have studied traditional Chinese medicine for a while."

"Oh, we do have a lot of medicinal materials here, such as Banlangen, Fangfeng, Bupleurum, Cassia, etc. Not only are there many types of Chinese medicinal materials, but they are also of high quality and large in quantity, which are our unique advantageous resources. But you I have also experienced it on the road, and if there is no similar road, no matter how great the business opportunity is, it will not develop."

"However, there are no roads to build, but no matter how many wild Chinese medicinal materials there are, there will be a day of digging them out. Therefore, the most important thing is that they can be raised artificially. However, although this mountainous area belongs to the developed area of ​​​​the loess landform, due to people's long-term disorderly Reclamation and nomadic activities have caused massive destruction of vegetation, resulting in serious soil erosion, ecological imbalance, and barren land."

"This is not the most important thing. The most important thing is the lack of water resources here. Without water, how can we develop?" At the end, Chu Chen couldn't help feeling sad for the future of those villagers. Could it be that the future of these people , can only go out to work, and finally move to another place?
"Brother, I know there is a kind of Chinese medicinal material that is suitable for the geographical environment of this mountainous area."

"Really? Which one is it?" Chu Chen said in surprise.

"Forsythia."

"Forsythia? Is it the kind of forsythia we often use?" Chu Chen said with some doubts.

Forsythia, also known as Huanghuatiao, Lianhu, Qingqiao, Luoqiao, Huangqidan, etc., is a traditional Chinese medicine for clearing away heat and detoxifying. etc., are common in everyday life.

"Yes, that's it. I've seen it in books before. Forsythia is cold-resistant, drought-resistant, afraid of water stains, strong germination, and not strict on soil. It can grow in brown loam, cinnamon soil, and fluvo-aquic soil. Among them Brown loam and cinnamon soil are the best. Forsythia has strong vitality and adaptability, and can grow in acidic and alkaline soils, but it is not resistant to salt and alkali, and has a wide range of suitable growth."

"And it can also grow on dry sunny slopes or rock crevices with soil, and can even reproduce and grow on bedrock or weathered parent material of purple sand shale."

"Forsythia is still very cold-resistant, and can survive the winter safely in high-cold regions, and bloom and bear fruit. Forsythia has strong germination power, fast hair clusters, and can quickly expand its distribution area. Forsythia is resistant to pruning, with well-developed root system and no obvious tap root , the lateral roots are thicker and longer, with many fibrous roots, which can be widely extended around the main root, and have strong ability to absorb and fix soil."

"Forsythia's living habits are just right for the soil and climate here, and it has strong vitality. It doesn't have to worry about competing with farmland or forests. It can also protect the environment. It can be said to serve multiple purposes."

After listening to Chu Yulan's introduction, Chu Chen chuckled and said:

"Xiaolan, I didn't expect you to have such a good memory. It's just that although I have seen this forsythia in the mountains when I was a child, it is still unknown whether it can be grown on a large scale in our place, and whether the medicinal material can be sold at a good price is also unknown. It depends on its quality, the land here is barren, and we don’t know if forsythia can be grown well.”

"And to solve these two points, the key still depends on the technology cultivated. This point can only be solved after returning to the capital. Of course, I would like to thank Xiaolan for your reminder."

Hearing the compliment, Chu Yulan said very happily: "Brother, you don't have to thank me. In fact, I was able to write this down because of the teacher who taught me at the beginning. He happened to study this. When I go back, I will Just help you to contact him, maybe he has a way to cultivate forsythia!"

"Okay, no matter whether you succeed or not, I will give you a gift after a while." Chu Chen said with a smile on his face.

"real!"

Hearing this, Chu Yulan couldn't help jumping up excitedly: "Brother, what are you going to give me?"

"Don't worry, you'll know when the time comes..."

After that, the two walked for about an hour, and finally arrived at their destination, Lujia Village.

Lujia Village is surrounded by mountains on all sides, surrounded by terraced fields developed by villagers for generations. At first glance, those terraced fields are thick and rough, simple and powerful, and quite spectacular.

But after all, the fields are limited, so each family in the village does not have much arable land, and even some fields are small and barren. Even if the harvest is good, in addition to food and clothing, the annual harvest is only limited.

Looking from a distance, there are dozens of families in the entire Lujia Village. Most of the houses are earthen embryo houses, which look a bit dilapidated, and only a few are brick houses.However, it was supposed to be time for dinner, but Chu Chen felt a little strange when he didn't see the smoke rising above the village.

Before Chu Chen and the others reached the entrance of the village, they saw Lu Erniu running towards them in a panic from a distance.

"Er Niu, what's the matter?" Chu Chen asked eagerly seeing Er Niu's tears streaming down his face.

Lu Erniu cried and said: "Chu... Uncle Chu, you are here, my mother just wanted to commit suicide!"

"what!"

Hearing this, Chu Chen couldn't help but turn pale with shock, and said, "Didn't I ask you to bring the message before, I will pay for the medical treatment, why doesn't your mother take it easy!"

Lu Erniu choked up and said, "I... my mother thought I was lying to her. She said she didn't want to drag us down. She was going to drink pesticide just now. Fortunately, my dad found out quickly, woo..."

(End of this chapter)